The athlete is saying, in effect he no longer want to know the woman unless they have sex and that if she continues to refuse he will see her excluded from social circles in which he has influence

Example 2 is unethical and degrading sales technique and the guy should be reported to a Better Business Bureau.

Example 3 is adding information that the woman has, implicitly, requested, there is no coercion and no threat of social exclusion

I have seen similar arguments from PUAs otherwise known as the slime on the boots of the Mens Rights Movement.