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In reply to the discussion: "Would you walk me to my car?" [View all]merrily
(45,251 posts)29. I never called myself a victim and the only thing that I assumed was that he
was going to open the door as soon as he reasonably could, which the post of mine to which you replied (my Reply 21) clearly stated, as follows.
Further, I sat there initially because, silly me, I assumed the driver would be getting out of the cab to open the door for me as soon as he thought he could safely do so. Should I add that the hospital is less than five minutes from home. (Hence the generous tip, almost equal to the fare. I know a short ride is a pain in the ass for a cabbie--and I try to be courteous to them.)
(Called myself a victim, my ass. Hell, I even took responsibility for tipping him when I should not have, simply because the money was already in my hand--and I was focused only on getting into the hospital as soon as possible.)
By the way, he was at a full stop in a safe place to stop at all relevant times, both when he picked me up and when I exited the cab. That, too, should have been obvious from what my original post and my Reply 21.
At those times, my safe entry into, and exit from, the cab were the only things that should have been on the mind of a responsible cab driver. Besides, driving to the hospital before 9 am, as he just had, might have given him a clue that a passenger might need help of some kind, even if I had never said a word about being injured and in pain.)
I think you, too, went out of your way on your reply to nitpick my behavior, even if, to do so, you had to read crap into my posts that was not any justifiable interpretation of them--and I don't think that was because of your concern for the cabbie.
Again, though, the subject was COURTESY, as my both my prior posts specified. Almost by definition, courtesy is being mindful and thoughtful of the needs of others. So unless you think his behavior was courteous, what is your relevant point anyway?
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She jammed her leg into the track on purpose, specifically to kill those two guys
Orrex
Apr 2014
#20
I'm afraid YOU are off the mark. I have made no comment on what women want...
Demo_Chris
Apr 2014
#72
Ha. I was half expecting a point about "helping others" at the end of that nonsense post. nt
Democracyinkind
Apr 2014
#43
I recently reread an old book of his and laughed so hard at his depiction of the women
uppityperson
Apr 2014
#53
if she had a leg stuck in the track, couldn't she lay to whichever side is closer...
yurbud
Apr 2014
#93
"what version of chivalry says a good way to meet women is by offering them $20 for a BJ?"
redqueen
Apr 2014
#120
He still could have forgotten about it while he was driving, so you could have asked again
treestar
Apr 2014
#26
Visit california sometime and get back to me about what is reasonable to expect from
Jesus Malverde
Apr 2014
#48
I'd stack them up against Boston and NYC any day of the week and twice on Sundays
merrily
Apr 2014
#51
IDGI. Arer you suggesting women ought ask strangers this, or that more strangers ought comply?
WinkyDink
Apr 2014
#8
ya. i do not know if poster is talking walking guests to the door, often to the car, OR
seabeyond
Apr 2014
#16
mainly because half the people I was with believed it until I explained the situation to them.
Tommy_Carcetti
Apr 2014
#35
ok winky, i am glad, but how do i know i have not met one? examples? a boss at work,
seabeyond
Apr 2014
#63
Winky is referring to Ted Bundy- who sported a fake broken arm he used to trick women into helping
bettyellen
Apr 2014
#75
of course that is what she meant and we do not have to get to the point of absurd.
seabeyond
Apr 2014
#79
yup. to all you say. i do not have a clue why people are making this like a ..... drama. lol. nt
seabeyond
Apr 2014
#92
you might of hit on the reason for this post. she wasnt walked out to her car??? at 2 am? nt
seabeyond
Apr 2014
#66
During the Sandy blackout it was pitch dark, and I walked a scared young man to my car, drove him to
bettyellen
Apr 2014
#114