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chervilant

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2. I am working on an article
Fri May 2, 2014, 05:40 PM
May 2014

regarding our species' relative inability to deal with outliers--of all ilk. Your essay is a timely find.

For example, we are not taught how to interact with individuals who have mental disorders. We are even taught to view mental disorders as aberrations, rather than as the coping strategies they are for those of us who must contend with a different brain chemistry, or PTSD, or any number of stressors that compel us to learn something -- anything -- that helps us to maintain or survive.

I think the same holds true for anger--the "bad" emotion. Early in my work as an advocate, I learned an excellent strategy for determining how one expresses anger, and why. Most of us fail to understand from whom, and how, we learn to express anger. Interactions on the micro level could be our primary opportunities to learn to express anger in healthy ways. We might also learn tolerance, acceptance, conflict resolution, and compromise.

We have to have each others' backs. We cannot continue to indulge in "us vs them."

Well, well, well [View all] H2O Man May 2014 OP
Beautifully stated as always, H2O Man! sheshe2 May 2014 #1
Thank you. H2O Man May 2014 #11
I am working on an article chervilant May 2014 #2
It's most species. If you paint a bird (crow, say) white, the others will peck it to death. nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #3
Right. H2O Man May 2014 #12
Nicely put H2OMan Peacetrain May 2014 #4
Thanks. H2O Man May 2014 #14
Reminds me of crowd / mass behavior from Sociology class Auggie May 2014 #5
Great point. H2O Man May 2014 #15
Well, you have to admit, it is radical to care about this planet in a world where to achieve sabrina 1 May 2014 #22
Thanks! H2O Man May 2014 #23
It sounds as though he is one of those who can think for himself. sabrina 1 May 2014 #24
Well said! H2O Man May 2014 #26
That means a lot coming from you H20 Man. sabrina 1 May 2014 #27
Another factor you did not mention. zeemike May 2014 #6
Huge point. H2O Man May 2014 #16
Duuuuude! MynameisBlarney May 2014 #7
One thing: H2O Man May 2014 #17
It depends on the region MynameisBlarney May 2014 #28
Always a pleasure to read your musings. KnR, my friend. nt Hekate May 2014 #8
Thank you! H2O Man May 2014 #18
I know. But how? How does one convince Nazis not to hate? Right wingers not to hate? Sarah Ibarruri May 2014 #9
Valid question. H2O Man May 2014 #19
You take the high road, which is a good road. What contradicts it is scientific study which Sarah Ibarruri May 2014 #25
Beautifully written malaise May 2014 #10
Thank you, my Friend! H2O Man May 2014 #20
Man, have you got your head screwed on straight. n/t 7wo7rees May 2014 #13
Thanks. H2O Man May 2014 #21
thanks Beringia May 2014 #29
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