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SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
17. So here's what I'd like to ask this guy.
Sat May 3, 2014, 11:58 AM
May 2014

In your ideal world where all women marry and their wonderful loving husbands vote for them, what happens if the man dies and the woman is widowed? Does she then get to vote for herself?

I'm not even going to ask him about the real world most of us live in in which many women are on their own for at least part of their adult lives. Take me. I didn't get married until I was 32. Marriage lasted 25 years, then ended in divorce, nearly six years ago now. I live again by myself, quite happily, thank you for asking.

As it happens my ex was a pretty good guy, very much liked it that I was independent in my thinking. We are both very progressive/liberal Democrats. We generally voted for the same people, but that was because we saw things the same way, not because he told me how to vote.

If I were to somehow marry someone who was a Republican, I would make absolutely certain I'd vote independently, although I can't imagine a man like that being willing to spend much time with me, let alone marry me. Nor would I want to be with someone who wasn't essentially on the same page as me.

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He's a weak man ... Scuba May 2014 #1
Amen shenmue May 2014 #10
I am SO stealing that! n/t Brainstormy May 2014 #12
I like women with attitude. hobbit709 May 2014 #13
This dirty fucking hippie, Atheist, Socialist, female SamKnause May 2014 #2
Trust my Republican husband HockeyMom May 2014 #3
My great granny was too. betterdemsonly May 2014 #7
Every single day they give us women another reason to vote Democratic. jwirr May 2014 #4
What a nut case. newfie11 May 2014 #5
You have no idea how scary it is to have your betterdemsonly May 2014 #6
dang! Duppers May 2014 #9
When women and minorities don't vote awoke_in_2003 May 2014 #19
LOL ...a spectacle of idiocy. L0oniX May 2014 #8
What a moron shenmue May 2014 #11
The saddest part is, a lot of folks probably think this is fiction theHandpuppet May 2014 #14
The reason this is so surreal is betterdemsonly May 2014 #15
Every bible thumper should go live in the middle east, leave science and all of its toby jo May 2014 #16
So here's what I'd like to ask this guy. SheilaT May 2014 #17
Who needs Sharia law Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin May 2014 #18
This guy also calls himself a "historian" Archae May 2014 #20
So he wants to reverse 100 years of progress, Asshole. Initech May 2014 #21
When this one jumps up and starts providing for every woman's need Thinkingabout May 2014 #22
Neanderthal stands his cave Blue Owl May 2014 #23
Freedom!! Jamaal510 May 2014 #24
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