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kimbutgar

(27,462 posts)
4. Color does matter
Fri May 9, 2014, 08:33 PM
May 2014

I am a very light skinned black women who could pass for white and married to a white man. I have worked in a mostly white dominated jobs. I know if I was dark skinned I would not be as accepted. I have been around racist people who make awful comments about black people. They didn't know what I was because I don't talk " black ". But one time a guy found out I was black and asked me how it was growing up in the projects? Because he had a stereotype that all black people lived on welfare and live in public housing projects ( my Dad worked for the housing authority as a manager for several years, it was drummed into that i had to work hard, get an education and never end of living there). I told him my parents both worked and they saved and brought their house in San Francisco in 1955. Both my parents went to college and sent my sister and I to catholic schools for the whole 12 years and I attended college and my parents and i ( i worked pt jobs all those 4 years) paid for it. I never used affirmative action it was on my own merits. I have always checked the box decline to state.

But this jerk insulted me with his "white priviledge".

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What is a None White? shenmue May 2014 #1
he mispelled "nun". Black is nun white. Warren Stupidity May 2014 #2
Maybe you misspelled it too pintobean May 2014 #6
the internet died while i was typing Warren Stupidity May 2014 #8
I dont think he meant anything bad by it darkangel218 May 2014 #3
It's like, how much more white could this be? Brickbat May 2014 #10
Color does matter kimbutgar May 2014 #4
Thank You For That !!! WillyT May 2014 #7
I see it all the time... Historic NY May 2014 #5
I am white and I am not offended at all. MadrasT May 2014 #9
Great Post... Thank You... WillyT May 2014 #11
I'm white and it's fine Aerows May 2014 #12
Race matters. Awareness is healthy. RedCappedBandit May 2014 #13
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