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In reply to the discussion: As a white male I am blamed for all the ills of society [View all]Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)219. Nobody here hates you for being white
if they hate you, it's because you're claiming you only have to pay bills because you're white. that you're severely misrepresenting the notion of privilege, and continue to do so with supreme ignorance no matte how often it is corrected, all in an effort to portray yourself as some downtrodden victim because you're white. More likely, they just think you're kind of dumb, because hatred is such an intimate emotion.
Here, look at this mess...
'm not going to apologize for how I was born. If you want to embrace a bunch of DUers telling you that you are lesser than other people simply because you are a white guy, I'm not going to stop you from your self loathing. And just like I don't speak for you....you sure as hell do not speak to me.
It shows, without a doubt, that you are either the most unaware person in this site, or that you are making a concerted effort to remain ignorant.
- No one expects an apology for how you were born. This is stated plenty, when other sufferers of White Male Victim Syndrome make the same claim. Go read a few of those.
- Certainly no one is claiming that you or I are 'lesser' because we're white.
- Accusing me of self-loathing, because I understand my life would have been made more difficult than it already was if i had a darker skin tone? That's not self-loathing, that's self-awareness, a trait shared by most sentient beings in the world. If a dolphin can do it, so can you, all you have to do is try.
- You must think you DO speak or me, 'cause you're telling me I'm a self-loathing white guy.
I'm not going to explain the concept of white privilege. Lots of people have already done that and it's evident you've chosen ludicrously opver-the-top forced ignorance instead. What I'm telling you is to get the fuck over yourself. You have to pay bills not because you're white, but because everyone has to pay bills. No one on DU hates you for being white, no matter how much you wish they would. You are not expected to apologize for your race, only to understand that were it different, your life would probably be harder.
The fact that that last prospect is one you firmly reject - your prior post really seems to indicate you believe black people have it made compared to you - is why white privilege is still a topic.
As for one-upping, whatever. That's how I grew up. You want to make a production of what a tragic and imperfect life you have because - oh the horror - you're a white male? You're not the only person who's had a rough time, nor the only white male. It's nothing about "one-upping" you - I've achieved that just by knowing what the fuck is going on - but rather to show you you're not talking to someone who's coasted along on money-greased skids their whole life.
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I get the impression that he doesn't aid or care for others and wonders why others forsake him.
TheBlackAdder
May 2014
#250
I suppose we all might feel "petulant and under-appreciated" from time to time.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#145
"I guess you don't know the Irish weren't considered white" TBH, I think that was actually part.....
AverageJoe90
May 2014
#26
He was trying to point out that white people have been discriminated against
cyberswede
May 2014
#56
And that actually has happened. The treatment of the Irish was a great example of that.
AverageJoe90
May 2014
#60
"They weren't discriminated against because they were white..." That's not what I said, though.
AverageJoe90
May 2014
#70
At most, it's white people being discriminated against *by white people*.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#148
white people wrote those signs. or should I say whiter people, because that is what the belief was.
bettyellen
May 2014
#217
How so? He's trying to downplay the history of racism in America by going "See? White people have
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#147
well, some do think everything was great until the black guy got there and now things are the worst
JI7
May 2014
#119
So at best, you could say they've (partially) cleaned up their own messes... n/t
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#149
Historically, and presently in some circles, white men are the cause of a lot of problems.
NuclearDem
May 2014
#14
How about what some white people do in the present? Donald Sterling, sadly, is likely not
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#150
You're neither blamed as an individual nor charged with solving the problems.
Gormy Cuss
May 2014
#23
Yeah, I am when people are hurting others. I want to deny them from hurting others any longer.
boston bean
May 2014
#91
We can certainly keep them away from progressive discussion boards. If we really want to. n/t
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#151
How long did it take for women's suffrage to be accepted? To end poll taxes?
Gormy Cuss
May 2014
#98
So what do you think explains the relative lack of African-American wealth and achievement?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#153
If it's any small comfort, I got my first-ever hidden post in relation to that poster.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#245
"more and more men (especially black men) are incarcerated" disproportionately indeed due to that pr
uppityperson
May 2014
#238
One benefit of juries leaving your awful posts to stand is that you're getting braver.
redqueen
May 2014
#240
So it's not the legacy of centuries of racism, they're just deadbeats and have too many kids?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#244
LOL. Ever since you joined DU and began to spout libertarian talking points
Cali_Democrat
May 2014
#289
This is actually WRONG!!! The rate of out of wedlock births among ALL races has
Liberal_Stalwart71
May 2014
#293
It is the absolute height of irony for you to invoke the empathy card. nt
laundry_queen
May 2014
#162
lol. poor poor white men. Who will stand up and protect the poor persecuted white men????
PeaceNikki
May 2014
#32
Must be hard not feeling like #1 anymore, eh? Uppity women going to college,
bettyellen
May 2014
#43
I've never heard a REAL liberal ever say or imply a white man's problems are meaningless
steve2470
May 2014
#55
Where'd you pick up that shit? Over at the daily paul? This is not the DU I came to love.
Tarheel_Dem
May 2014
#85
wow.. are you even paying half way attention to the issues brought up here?
uponit7771
May 2014
#102
Some truth to that, but we can't allow the far right to escape blame, either.
AverageJoe90
May 2014
#103
Even assuming that a few folks here and there subscribe to these extreme views, so what?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#173
Random people on Tumblr/blogs who have no real power or influence over anything?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#168
Of course being poor sucks, but it doesn't mean you get to trash minorities/gays/women.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#160
Downplaying the issues faced by racial minorities while claiming to be persecuted as a white man?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#175
Funny, I have blue eyes. And I've been known to suffer from chronic depression.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#177
As a relatively privileged white woman, I'm open to any and all honest awareness, and honest effort
ancianita
May 2014
#96
IKR!? IT is as if white men had some kind of negative history with other races or something!
Rex
May 2014
#109
So what makes you (or any individual) a "voice of reason" over and above others?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#188
So your point is that people dont post anything serious. I hope you see the irony. nm
rhett o rick
May 2014
#125
I gather this thread was created for sympathy which you did not receive.
Gravitycollapse
May 2014
#127
A) Yes, Harmony Blue, I blame you for all the ills of society. Because it's all about you.
Squinch
May 2014
#128
I was going to say before I read your last paragraph, "But it's just the usual suspects."
Squinch
May 2014
#237
You perpetuate "white privilege" every day... wittingly OR unwittingly.
cherokeeprogressive
May 2014
#131
It's ironic that these pathetic posts perpetuate the issue of whites being seen as the ones who..
RedCappedBandit
May 2014
#137
Please do not fall under the impression that I am in agreement with your OP
RedCappedBandit
May 2014
#227
I hope the OP sees that hardly anyone on the thread agrees with him. That's important if we want to
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#262
You're so clueless that you can't even tell when someone is being sarcastic...
Liberal_Stalwart71
May 2014
#294
"Historical advantages" are only one part of it. The mere fact that you're a white person
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#161
Then why are the millions of people in prison so disproportionately black?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#179
In some neighborhoods in Detroit, the police have been known to pull over whites
FrodosPet
May 2014
#174
True. No one said (or implied) that all individual white folks have it easy. n/t
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#180
Frankly, I'm almost glad the majority of my friends aren't white (even though I am).
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#181
Great post. You seem like the sort of conscientious, empathetic person I try my best to be.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#183
Because no one (or virtually no one) on here literally hates straight white males.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#199
No one blames me for the ills of society. I feel very little guilt, and even so, only for ...
dawg
May 2014
#214
While white supremacists like Rick Scott and Scott Walker and Ohio ALL con governors are actively
randys1
May 2014
#254
Do you even realize the irony, of complaining about being broadbrushed as a white person
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#249