If a man is good looking enough, is it okay if he sleeps with a minor?

[seabeyond]

47. see, i am just not buying it.

it is told to us repeatedly to become a truth. and i dont buy it. i really do not. decades of watching and experience, i dont buy it.

girls are conditioned from the beginning that sex means more to them. so when questioned they say it is an emotional connection. i have watched so many young men fall heads over heals. sheeeit, i watch many grown men crave to have that relationship. now that there is a sexual freedom for women i am watching them have one night stands (myself included back in the day) with no emotional connection or desire for one.

the more freedom women gain in their sexuality the more all this bullshit of sex having to be connected to emotion, falls along the wayside. the more women gain sexual freedom, the more they equal men in affairs.

sex is sex. for all of us. character and personality, who they are, is the factor of if they need/want a connection or put an emotional connection to sex. i dont see it as biology or a gender issue. i think it is something we are told repeatedly and it makes me want to

from the day boys are born they are encourage thru all of society that "getting it" is the goal in life. from the day a girl is born society places responsibility on her shoulder that she must be emotionally involved to even get turned on. it is crap

and, if kids were 17, either gender, i would address the same as you. (what? are we talking about the 20 yr old on this thread?) actually, i would hope i didnt even know.

if it was a 14 yrs old? either gender? whole other story