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Aerows

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39. My sister adopted two children from China

Sat Mar 31, 2012, 10:18 AM

Mar 2012

My aunt had the nerve to make comments about my white sister raising her children, as though she was "harming them" because they are from a different country and are Asian. It's truly disgusting when it happens in your own family, but most of the time, you know who the raging bigots in your own family are, so you plan accordingly.

The last time I ever spent time around them was at a restaurant and for the sake of the family peace, I held my tongue as she and my uncle proceeded to run down gay people as though they were the scourge of the Earth. That was wonderful considering that I was 19 and confronting my own coming out.

Needless to say, I avoid them like the plague and wouldn't dare go to a function where I know they will be unless I know 100% for a fact that I can get up and leave.

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Why is America still so ignorant about racism? Read this quote from a neighbor of George Zimmerman. [View all] ProfessionalLeftist Mar 2012 OP

I have spent some time talking with people from countries south of the US CBGLuthier Mar 2012 #1

One place I worked at had anti-gay graffitti - hedgehog Mar 2012 #2

I live in Mississippi Aerows Mar 2012 #37

Sadly abelenkpe Mar 2012 #3

And if one looks closer nobodyspecial Mar 2012 #4

That is very true. My family knew another family of Hispanics ProfessionalLeftist Mar 2012 #16

See my post earlier about the gas station Aerows Mar 2012 #38

It's easy for some to dismiss racism so as to ignore it's effects and lazily blame the victim uponit7771 Mar 2012 #5

The one thing cyglet Mar 2012 #6

Or, NOLALady Mar 2012 #10

Which is your culture? robinlynne Mar 2012 #12

American. NOLALady Mar 2012 #13

I'm not really willing to completely say that cyglet Mar 2012 #17

There are two other NOLALady Mar 2012 #18

I get that cyglet Mar 2012 #19

Most people didn't see it on TV NOLALady Mar 2012 #20

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Are you suggesting that racial profiling didn't exist or got worse Number23 Mar 2012 #24

No. cyglet Mar 2012 #26

"I'm suggesting it may aggravate things." Number23 Mar 2012 #27

I've always thought cyglet Mar 2012 #29

I love hip hop music and have since I was a kid Number23 Mar 2012 #30

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I ask myself this a lot. BlueIris Mar 2012 #9

I have a DIL NOLALady Mar 2012 #11

Jesus. BlueIris Mar 2012 #21

My sister adopted two children from China Aerows Mar 2012 #39

I have been noticing this .. butterfly77 Mar 2012 #14

Zimm's friend and family's . sendero Mar 2012 #32

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