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crim son

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87. You speak for me and thank you.

Mon May 26, 2014, 12:56 PM

May 2014

I find this entire discussion beyond nauseating and the few who hint that Roosh may have a couple good points, make me want to hurl. Like virtually all women I have been subjected to the male need to get laid for as long as I can remember. I've been verbally assaulted and I've been physically assaulted by horny men who have believed I exist primarily to service their sad little dicks. I have been in so-called "loving" relationships where I was the sweetest, most wonderful woman in the world... until they ended and I suddenly wasn't worth a backward glance. So many of these arrogant assholes haven't got the brains to read a cereal box yet they believe they "deserve" my attention.

Enough. I am suddenly feeling the anger I have tried to subdue ever since I was nine years old, in a crowd of people, and some creepy freak thought it was a good idea to grab my vagina. It was the first time but it wasn't the last. We women, we don't even talk about it, it's so "normal" to us. Well, FUCK that.

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Anti-woman website predicts more Elliott Rogers if society doesn�t provide them with sex [View all] babylonsister May 2014 OP

Oh FFS. Mz Pip May 2014 #1

Someone needs to tell those little boys to start saving up Warpy May 2014 #181

Sadly 2naSalit May 2014 #202

Ah, yes, I do know the type Warpy May 2014 #207

That is also true! n/t 2naSalit May 2014 #208

And there you have it... for those who claim there is no problem with misogyny, with an arising hlthe2b May 2014 #2

And his fixation as the "Eldest Son" and his rights to his father's house and assets SharonAnn May 2014 #80

Shit, I swear in the last day I read almost these same exact words here. seaglass May 2014 #3

I saw this posted almost word for word at Discussionist. sufrommich May 2014 #4

I think it was in both places but I'll have to check. The swinging door between the two make it seaglass May 2014 #8

exactly. has there been ONE move in the last couple years that actually supported women or seabeyond May 2014 #37

48 hrs. exactly. and i have not been back since. nt seabeyond May 2014 #35

yes. i am thinking of an OP that got particular support from other men. i was seabeyond May 2014 #33

Generalizing based on the actions of a few assholes... nomorenomore08 May 2014 #168

k&r for exposure. n/t Laelth May 2014 #5

They are sick cluckers, huh! ? boston bean May 2014 #6

Just evil shenmue May 2014 #7

"Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." Brickbat May 2014 #9

That is disturbing. dballance May 2014 #10

He's not what you picture. Check out this article about one of his books. redqueen May 2014 #75

Thanks. You're right he's not what I picture - he's much, much worse. dballance May 2014 #133

It is important that these types not be given the benefit of flying under the radar any longer. redqueen May 2014 #196

wow, great article BlancheSplanchnik May 2014 #166

It is revealing about what makes these PUA types tick. redqueen May 2014 #197

last night I saw the whole dynamic referred to as a negative feedback loop. BlancheSplanchnik May 2014 #199

i got it. i am with you. nt seabeyond May 2014 #201

..... BlancheSplanchnik May 2014 #215

Wow, what a crock of shit. TexasTowelie May 2014 #11

Sometimes I think the world would be a better place if a lot more free vasectomies were given out. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #169

Madonna vs whore and don't they have hands? And no one "deserves" a girlfriend. uppityperson May 2014 #12

A lot of angry white men out there SaltyBro May 2014 #13

Oh yeah, that will work. nt bemildred May 2014 #14

Attitudes like this Lee-Lee May 2014 #15

LOL -- I'd love to put that moron in a locked room with WitchWind Nuclear Unicorn May 2014 #16

What's PIV? IronLionZion May 2014 #26

Penis in Vagina AtheistCrusader May 2014 #29

Both suffer from the same delusion. AtheistCrusader May 2014 #27

ha ha ha. cause really, both are threatening more mass murder? seabeyond May 2014 #38

No, because they're both batshit insane. Nuclear Unicorn May 2014 #39

cant even dance away from the difference. comments like this OP is thru out the net. seabeyond May 2014 #44

"support for this shit in the OP is big and growing." Nuclear Unicorn May 2014 #70

awareness, education, knowledge has nothing to do with bowing, fear or anything else. seabeyond May 2014 #77

"awareness, education, knowledge has nothing to do with bowing, fear or anything else." Nuclear Unicorn May 2014 #85

you would be incorrect nuclear. and because you have a certain perception, and interpret what i seabeyond May 2014 #93

"i understand you want to sweep certain issues under the rug" Nuclear Unicorn May 2014 #135

and yes. i read that. and yes. i got a chuckle. nt seabeyond May 2014 #95

I'm going to regret this, but this is why we need to decriminalize prostitution. genwah May 2014 #17

Naw-- totally different topic ismnotwasm May 2014 #21

exactly. like rape, it's about power and control more than sex. PeaceNikki May 2014 #22

+1 IronLionZion May 2014 #25

I agree, different topic. I don't think Rogers would have considered that a relief valve. AtheistCrusader May 2014 #30

Wrong, wrong, wrong. Everyone "deserves" sex. Limiting and controlling sex is a part of the genwah May 2014 #65

No one "deserves" sex. nt redqueen May 2014 #79

Okay, I'll bite. I kinda know a little something about this, I'm a former genwah May 2014 #110

The idea that disabled men (it's (almost?) always men) can't have sex unless they pay for it redqueen May 2014 #121

No, it's not always men, one of my dates was a cis-gendered woman with...you know what? genwah May 2014 #134

A hooker can refuse to well, be a hooker treestar May 2014 #122

WUT? Try that again. He had the money, and even if he didn't, he as well as genwah May 2014 #136

So if he didn't have the money treestar May 2014 #137

Really? You want to throw down with me? Cause I'll start from "Sex at Dawn" and genwah May 2014 #138

What do you mean? treestar May 2014 #145

This. Jamaal510 May 2014 #153

Well ain't you tough. Demit May 2014 #152

A social safety net treestar May 2014 #158

You can say that if you want. But what if no one's willing to provide it, in their case? nomorenomore08 May 2014 #172

Deserves sex, or is entitled to sex? Hippo_Tron May 2014 #174

I think there's a difference between deserving sex and being entitled to it Hippo_Tron May 2014 #173

No Sweet Freedom May 2014 #50

Okay, we disagree, I think everyone has a right to a good sex life. As far as your personal genwah May 2014 #68

how do you see, not satisfying sex life using other human beings as being prejudice toward seabeyond May 2014 #81

Ummm...what? genwah May 2014 #114

Yeah that was a bizarre stretch. Sweet Freedom May 2014 #142

Being personally opposed to renting bodies is not "prejudice against sex workers" redqueen May 2014 #82

And I don't want to play ismnotwasm May 2014 #102

Oh, wow!!! Thank you, I'm seriously swiping this for my desktop! Yay, you! genwah May 2014 #139

I have seen most of these . . . Brigid May 2014 #160

Thank you Sweet Freedom May 2014 #141

I wish everyone had a good sex life, but they don't have the "right" to one. dawg May 2014 #124

Well said. Thank you. n/t nomorenomore08 May 2014 #177

Nobody has a right to a good sex life gollygee May 2014 #155

He didn't kill because he wasn't getting laid Nevernose May 2014 #108

I wouldn't think sex with a prostitute would be terribly "satisfying." nomorenomore08 May 2014 #170

You should regret supporting PUA/MRA/male supremacist bullshit. nt geek tragedy May 2014 #182

Oh yes ismnotwasm May 2014 #18

Pathetic and disgusting. n/t Jefferson23 May 2014 #19

Holy shit! Hassin Bin Sober May 2014 #20

Are these men forgetting one "sexual option"? DinahMoeHum May 2014 #23

This isn't about getting off. AtheistCrusader May 2014 #31

+1 treestar May 2014 #34

we have idolized mens sexuality to such a point, tied male sexuality into their manhood, it IS the seabeyond May 2014 #40

For real XemaSab May 2014 #59

Yes, that's it. Lex May 2014 #60

+1!! 2naSalit May 2014 #203

They actually have two options Trekologer May 2014 #194

Out of curiosity, I went to the website Elliot Rodger participated on deutsey May 2014 #24

people say this is not a big deal. it is everywhere on the net. we hear it often. i had a rape seabeyond May 2014 #42

Ignoring it makes it worse. The 'just ignore them' remedy has been used so far and what happens? redqueen May 2014 #84

Ignoring misogyny IS NOT AN OPTION. seabeyond May 2014 #98

Nope. Never. ancianita May 2014 #105

"Roosh" rhymes with...nevermind, too easy. flvegan May 2014 #28

Something is wrong with these people treestar May 2014 #32

So can we now admit to rape culture being prevalent in America? Rex May 2014 #36

No, we're supposed to just ignore it. Unless we have some scientifically peer-reviewed studies redqueen May 2014 #88

Society tells men they are losers if they aren't having sex. dawg May 2014 #41

And women, not having a boyfriend treestar May 2014 #43

Sorry, but that isn't as pervasive of a problem than the pressure from men to be "getting some". Darkhawk32 May 2014 #46

How would you know? treestar May 2014 #47

And then how would YOU know? Good lord. n/t Darkhawk32 May 2014 #48

I suppose neither sex can imagine being the other treestar May 2014 #57

Perhaps no, difficult to gauge. But it is a symptom of the same problem, even if AtheistCrusader May 2014 #51

I disagree Sweet Freedom May 2014 #61

To a degree, I can see that. But how often do you get harangued for being single with no kids? Darkhawk32 May 2014 #64

Constantly Sweet Freedom May 2014 #74

I have photos of my nieces and nephews in my office treestar May 2014 #119

This isn't a pissing contest, both are problems Hippo_Tron May 2014 #175

Try being a woman, married, for 5+ years with no children. AtheistCrusader May 2014 #49

That too. treestar May 2014 #58

I think men and women have it more or less equally bad but in different ways. dawg May 2014 #55

Dawg, I understand everything you just posted. Darkhawk32 May 2014 #69

Thanks for the supportive reply, Darkhawk32. dawg May 2014 #73

If her evilness ended with just that, I would be able to relate to your last statement. Darkhawk32 May 2014 #86

I'm not a very trusting guy after all of this, but ... dawg May 2014 #91

women are jsut as full of shit as men. i guess i am a misogynist too. oh well. seabeyond May 2014 #106

"treat me as a person, not a queen. that is all feminists ask for." Darkhawk32 May 2014 #117

now this. shows all the sad that you are seabeyond May 2014 #120

I think you want to attack for the sake of attacking. n/t Darkhawk32 May 2014 #131

i am not attacking. seabeyond May 2014 #157

At least have the courage of your convictions to admit that it was an attack. n/t Darkhawk32 May 2014 #161

i wont own a non truth to appease someone. and btw. that is not an attack either. nt seabeyond May 2014 #162

You're full of it. n/t Darkhawk32 May 2014 #164

Again, you are extremely hostile to people who haven't done much of anything to you. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #178

I get attacked, I defend myself and I'm the angry one? Wow, just wow. n/t Darkhawk32 May 2014 #209

Of course you can defend yourself. The point is that your responses are way out of proportion. n/t nomorenomore08 May 2014 #210

Don't see it, but hey, I'm not looking for brownie points from the females here on DU. n/t Darkhawk32 May 2014 #211

Me neither. I'm just expressing an opinion like everybody else - that's what message boards are for. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #213

My Experience: Finding the Right Partner TygrBright May 2014 #125

excellent post.... nt seabeyond May 2014 #171

in my entire life I never, ever sat around and waited for someone to ask me out Skittles May 2014 #185

Statistics is very much on your side. In about 10 years, a lot of your competition will be dying eridani May 2014 #190

Roosh seriously needs an editor LTR May 2014 #45

"guises of gender rights and political correctness"? alp227 May 2014 #96

I'm not defending him LTR May 2014 #103

we sould teach our children confidence, both genders. that is the one good? seabeyond May 2014 #112

Rapist / "bitch" redqueen May 2014 #123

As if being an unpleasant person were comparable to sexual assault... nomorenomore08 May 2014 #179

I think the fact that that is the comparison he made speaks volumes. redqueen May 2014 #195

These guys smallcat88 May 2014 #52

As a self-conscious man trying to somehow "start over" in his late 40s ... dawg May 2014 #78

Sorry smallcat88 May 2014 #165

You speak for me and thank you. crim son May 2014 #87

"the few who hint that Roosh may have a couple good points, make me want to hurl" redqueen May 2014 #97

crim son. excellent post. and yes. nt seabeyond May 2014 #118

now there's a twist i didn't contemplate...what ignorant bullshit spanone May 2014 #53

I've read comments about men on DU from women that were just as misogynistic. Sucks on both ends. Darkhawk32 May 2014 #54

WTFever Solly Mack May 2014 #56

I've got a sexual option for them. Meet Rosie Palm and her Five Friends! Sorry, I hope I don't get DesertDiamond May 2014 #62

They want to own and dominate someone Lex May 2014 #63

Exactly fasttense May 2014 #71

Seriously, Roosh needs to be pulled in for psychiatric evaluation. Baitball Blogger May 2014 #66

Excuse me, Baitball Blogger. Don't take this too personally, please... TygrBright May 2014 #128

I understand your plight, Bright. Baitball Blogger May 2014 #143

Post removed Post removed May 2014 #67

Here is a sexual option for Roosh and those assholes - go fuck yourself. n/t whopis01 May 2014 #72

Rodger could have gone to Nevada and paid for a legal prostitute bluestateguy May 2014 #76

I wish people would stop saying that men like this could be helped by having sex (even if rented). redqueen May 2014 #100

And these guys should stop lying about what they want leftstreet May 2014 #107

being denied sex. that is the one that is pissing me off at the moment. ahhhhh. po baby. seabeyond May 2014 #115

It was probably the latter ck4829 May 2014 #101

You want to argue all sides, it seems. Do you think Ted Bundy just needed a prostitute? WinkyDink May 2014 #130

Ted Bundy was able to attract women treestar May 2014 #146

Ironically had this dude not committed suicide, I suspect he'd have numerous female admirers Hippo_Tron May 2014 #180

Like Dzhohar Tsarnaev treestar May 2014 #189

So true! I bet you are right. treestar May 2014 #200

I'm tempted to just chalk it up to general human foolishness. n/t nomorenomore08 May 2014 #183

There's this... babylonsister May 2014 #132

Gross, and probably doesn't work the other way round treestar May 2014 #147

What a load of gargage. Rhinodawg May 2014 #83

The douche known as Roosh ... GeorgeGist May 2014 #89

Such an eminently punchable face... nomorenomore08 May 2014 #184

How would this even work? knightmaar May 2014 #90

Fuck these guys. Women will never, ever go back to being meat puppets and sperm receptacles. ancianita May 2014 #92

+1 Rex May 2014 #109

yes. the backlash is harsh and the genie wont be put back in the bottle. that is all this is about seabeyond May 2014 #116

I predicted forty years ago -- and was laughed at -- that the last war on Earth would be ancianita May 2014 #126

we shall see. a lot of the reason young men are so angry is because a lot of our young women just seabeyond May 2014 #156

One current statistic is that a majority of US adults are single and not married. That says a lot. ancianita May 2014 #163

they think they get to fuck us at will? 2pooped2pop May 2014 #94

Total nonsense. nt ladjf May 2014 #99

Groups like this should just be considered a part of an umbrella known as Organized Hypocrisy ck4829 May 2014 #104

Vomit inducing n/t etherealtruth May 2014 #111

No sites that 'rationalize' manipulations will ever 'train' men to think women are their equals. ancianita May 2014 #113

Wow. There seems to be a whole lot of dangerous, ignorant, hateful, and juvenile conservative men Zorra May 2014 #127

It's inevitable because this is where we live, period. WinkyDink May 2014 #129

Rational Wiki has a nice breakdown of webshites intaglio May 2014 #140

jesus christ, the sheer number alone is a sign of real problems. PeaceNikki May 2014 #144

Ever notice how many followers right wing bigots have on social media? Dawson Leery May 2014 #205

Keep having to go to urban dictionary today treestar May 2014 #148

Post removed Post removed May 2014 #149

Hey, asshat, there was nothing to stop him from getting a kestrel91316 May 2014 #150

FFS, it's women's fault that loon couldn't get sex? His attitude had nothing to do with it? arcane1 May 2014 #151

WTF! sheshe2 May 2014 #154

Roosh sounds like a terrorist to me. yuiyoshida May 2014 #159

Roosh V is a raging misogynist asshole with a superiority complex.....he's also a racist douche..... AverageJoe90 May 2014 #167

Why don't these assholes just have sex with each other and shut the fuck up? nt valerief May 2014 #176

"learn game, seek out a Thai wife, or engage in legalized prostitution" Number23 May 2014 #186

You know when the creeps here keep talking about "Western women"? That's what they mean. LeftyMom May 2014 #187

Holy shit. I had no idea Number23 May 2014 #188

When people here minimize MRAs by saying it's just a few loons, redqueen May 2014 #198

I assist in a legal project that informs women in these situations of their legal rights...the Obama msanthrope May 2014 #206

This is sick. defacto7 May 2014 #191

What this irresistible chick magnet looks like: IronLionZion May 2014 #192

society does. they can hire hookers. legal in nevada or the wealthy go to other countries where its Sunlei May 2014 #193

The Elliot Rogers of the world are a greater threat than anything from the middle east at this time. Dawson Leery May 2014 #204

That is some truly sick shit! herding cats May 2014 #212

That last paragraph is chilling. "Learn game, seek out a Thai wife, ...legalized prostitution"? Hekate May 2014 #214