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In reply to the discussion: What is 'misandry'? [View all]geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)80. Check this beauty out :
http://judgybitch.com/2012/12/31/new-years-resolutions-from-judgy-bitch-for-everyone-else-of-course-im-damn-near-perfect-what-do-i-need-resolutions-for/
Stop being so goddam fat. Seriously, just stop it. Its gross and ugly and its making you very, very unhappy and its a choice. The choice isnt so much about what you put in your mouth, its about what and whom you care about, and how well you understand your own drive and your own desires.
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Learn how to cook Seriously, its not that hard. Get a cookbook and get at er. A key part of controlling your own weight will be to cook your own food. Ladies, there is nothing, and I mean nothing that will convey love and care quite like a good meal. There is no excuse for the tee-hee arent I a useless twat in the kitchen cultural trope that women think men find adorable.
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Dont get a divorce. Unless you dont have kids, in which case do whatever the fuck you want. But if you have children, divorce should be off the table except in cases of severe and extreme abuse. Divorce will not make you happy, and it will destroy your children. You will teach them that there are NO obligations, NO responsibilities and NO moral lines that should not be crossed. You will fail in your most basic responsibility as a parent if you destroy your childrens family. Whatever the issue is that you are facing, find some way to deal with it that doesnt include divorce. A sexless marriage? That is what prostitutes are for. He doesnt pay attention to you? Surround yourself with friends who DO. He doesnt share your interests? Find some friends who DO. He doesnt help out enough around the house? Hire someone or lower your standards. There is always a way. All predicated on the assumption that you will act like a fucking grown-up and not get in fights or altercations with your spouse in front of your children, or at any time, really.
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Single ladies, stop being sluts! Married ladies, please carry on! Very few men like sluts. If youre the sort of lady who doesnt give a shit what men think or what they like, then please carry on, this doesnt apply to you. Im speaking to women who DO like men, who WANT to have a man who loves them and lives for them, forever. Ladies, you have been lied to. Being a slut, sampling a lot of dicks with no commitment and no affection, and letting men use you is NOT empowering. It does not give you power. It reduces your power in the sexual marketplace, which already skewed heavily in favor of men, thanks to slut culture. If you are serious about finding a partner and a husband and a best friend who will walk through life with you, then you need to learn how to compete with sluts. Heres how:
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Learn how to cook Seriously, its not that hard. Get a cookbook and get at er. A key part of controlling your own weight will be to cook your own food. Ladies, there is nothing, and I mean nothing that will convey love and care quite like a good meal. There is no excuse for the tee-hee arent I a useless twat in the kitchen cultural trope that women think men find adorable.
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Dont get a divorce. Unless you dont have kids, in which case do whatever the fuck you want. But if you have children, divorce should be off the table except in cases of severe and extreme abuse. Divorce will not make you happy, and it will destroy your children. You will teach them that there are NO obligations, NO responsibilities and NO moral lines that should not be crossed. You will fail in your most basic responsibility as a parent if you destroy your childrens family. Whatever the issue is that you are facing, find some way to deal with it that doesnt include divorce. A sexless marriage? That is what prostitutes are for. He doesnt pay attention to you? Surround yourself with friends who DO. He doesnt share your interests? Find some friends who DO. He doesnt help out enough around the house? Hire someone or lower your standards. There is always a way. All predicated on the assumption that you will act like a fucking grown-up and not get in fights or altercations with your spouse in front of your children, or at any time, really.
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Single ladies, stop being sluts! Married ladies, please carry on! Very few men like sluts. If youre the sort of lady who doesnt give a shit what men think or what they like, then please carry on, this doesnt apply to you. Im speaking to women who DO like men, who WANT to have a man who loves them and lives for them, forever. Ladies, you have been lied to. Being a slut, sampling a lot of dicks with no commitment and no affection, and letting men use you is NOT empowering. It does not give you power. It reduces your power in the sexual marketplace, which already skewed heavily in favor of men, thanks to slut culture. If you are serious about finding a partner and a husband and a best friend who will walk through life with you, then you need to learn how to compete with sluts. Heres how:
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Your posts in that thread, and many others since then, here on DU, speak for themselves. nt
redqueen
May 2014
#100
Did it not dawn on you that feminists who are opposed to the normalization of misogynist slurs
redqueen
May 2014
#75
BTW, sending PMs to adversaries is a tactic of intimidation...does not work with me
noiretextatique
May 2014
#194
And importantly, they are not oppressed on the basis of their sex or ethnicity. nt
redqueen
May 2014
#41
Some can't seem to understand that race-based and class-based oppression are two different things.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#143
No shit. They're unable to see past the end of their own damn nose, as I've said before. n/t
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#192
White males have lost SOME of their advantages. (Some, not all.) Women and people of color are now
Squinch
May 2014
#128
Mostly they lost one yardstick to justify social privilege, a much higher paycheck
Warpy
May 2014
#134
There's also the question of how much power these hypothetical misandrists might have to
el_bryanto
May 2014
#13
One-word posts are not very convincing, by and large. And "fail" isn't really an argument. n/t
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#148
The person I responded to failed quite a bit in this thread. That's a fact, not an argument. n/t
Gore1FL
May 2014
#156
thank you for your standard level of thoughtfulness and intelligent discourse on gender.
geek tragedy
May 2014
#175
Because people (not you) often use supposed small objections to subtly chip away at someone's
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#150
I certainly understand that view. And I don't blame anyone (of any gender) who wishes to eschew
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#151
I get that. And anything involving excessive bureaucracy tends to be a not-so-good thing.
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#162
"Only 15 percent of cases go to court, and, of those, half involve domestic abuse."
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#152
Yikes! I guess I always knew there were female misogynists, but that's a new low.
Raksha
May 2014
#119
The unmarried Andry daughter, but she prefers to be addressed as Ms. Andry ...
11 Bravo
May 2014
#66
You said you weren't there, but you're embellishing the details constantly.
geek tragedy
May 2014
#132
Complaining about no-fault divorce would seem to be self-defeating, in his case, wouldn't it?
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#166
I'm assuming something quite different about any abuse that would have happened in this chap's
geek tragedy
May 2014
#167
No way for me to know that. But I wouldn't discount the possibility, to be sure. n/t
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#169
I'm just another dude with an opinion. But I try to be as understanding and compassionate
nomorenomore08
May 2014
#173
Re: banning the popcorn smiley. If there is one thing I would take a strong stand for
quinnox
May 2014
#122
kind of explains why some are so desperate to believe privilege doesn't exist!
bettyellen
May 2014
#137
In addition to the answers above, I'd like to mention access to women's bodies.
redqueen
May 2014
#199