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Warpy

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39. Women have been raising strong and sensitive sons for millennia

Wed May 28, 2014, 02:34 PM

May 2014

When the sons hit puberty, the larger male culture takes over and all Mom's effort flies out the window. Given another 10-20 years, some men will revert. Others will not. A very few of them will sustain it but find it dangerous to admit in a group of other men.

So please don't tell women how to raise good sons. Tell your brethren to stop undermining our work.

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Let me tell you about Men [View all] RobertEarl May 2014 OP

heh. zappaman May 2014 #1

We fought the Revolutionary War for a reason ... we were tired of Kings. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #2

not really. we were tired of being ruled by what we came to feel was someone else's king. unblock May 2014 #4

OK, I stand corrected. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #11

Don't try to speak for men. Seriously, just don't tkmorris May 2014 #3

Just history RobertEarl May 2014 #7

There is opinion, and there is fact tkmorris May 2014 #19

Yes they are facts RobertEarl May 2014 #26

i too was raised to be competitive. to be a winner. hence, our head butting going on to be ruler seabeyond May 2014 #5

Hey, boys will be boys RobertEarl May 2014 #10

yes boys will be boys and let me tell you about the boys that i see, being boys. seabeyond May 2014 #18

and I always hated that statement.....boys will be boys, indeed. a kennedy May 2014 #24

Did you know that men are more affected by the Fukushima radiation? snooper2 May 2014 #6

They are not as Kings, privileged in ways others are not, yes, Whisp May 2014 #8

Yep RobertEarl May 2014 #15

... 1000words May 2014 #9

The Drumhead. AtheistCrusader May 2014 #47

Teach your children well. Iggo May 2014 #12

You just keep thinkin' Butch. That's what you're good at. Brother Buzz May 2014 #13

All of my life people (some of them women) have been telling me "You have to compete." bemildred May 2014 #14

I did it for a long time RobertEarl May 2014 #45

Oh I've been there, had minions, etc., it was hard to avoid if you want any control. bemildred May 2014 #49

Yes RobertEarl May 2014 #53

That is true of some men but "Men" as a whole? pshaw. uppityperson May 2014 #16

That's just the way it is. ... Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #17

Men are defined by our job and how well we do it. Promotions, raises and awards for how well we do flamin lib May 2014 #20

Good for you. RobertEarl May 2014 #41

Is this Nurture or Nature though? dilby May 2014 #21

i think competitiveness is a character. not a gender. nt seabeyond May 2014 #23

I digress I think it's ingrained in males and is an evolutionary trait. dilby May 2014 #25

so, ingrained in men and what a fake, false, made up, characteristic simply adopted by seabeyond May 2014 #32

What objective evidence leads you to conclude that this trait is ingrained in one sex... LanternWaste May 2014 #44

The thing about evolutionary traits is this: dawg May 2014 #48

Speak for yourself. GeorgeGist May 2014 #22

See? RobertEarl May 2014 #30

lol lol. you are funny. a bit of this is tongue in cheek. right? cause you made me giggle. and seabeyond May 2014 #33

No he didn't HERVEPA May 2014 #36

Every so often a DUer makes a post that reveals an awful lot about them (nt) Nye Bevan May 2014 #27

Speaking as a man... white_wolf May 2014 #28

Heh RobertEarl May 2014 #38

I Really , really really do not mean this Leme May 2014 #29

Also , Sidney Poitier sings about it in Lillies of The Feild Leme May 2014 #34

hey men !!! Leme May 2014 #37

ROFL. nt Cali_Democrat May 2014 #31

This should be a weekly column Union Scribe May 2014 #35

Women have been raising strong and sensitive sons for millennia Warpy May 2014 #39

I will advice women any way i want RobertEarl May 2014 #42

Uff da! nt MineralMan May 2014 #40

Meh. AtheistCrusader May 2014 #43

a study showed, higher testosterone, the more fair play a man was into.... isnt that the opposite of seabeyond May 2014 #46

DU is good for that, eh? RobertEarl May 2014 #50

I don't know. I've always been the sensitive, slacker type myself. dawg May 2014 #51

That is certainly an interesting take on things. Half-Century Man May 2014 #52

and i was gonna say.... hey half. have i ever told you how much i enjoy your posts... nt seabeyond May 2014 #54

Thank you. Half-Century Man May 2014 #56

It's partly capitalism RobertEarl May 2014 #55

says the guy who likes to "check out chicks since i am quite single and available." zappaman May 2014 #57

Chicks? MineralMan May 2014 #59

Yes, I do believe you are right! zappaman May 2014 #60

Jack Chick. Is there more than one, hence "chicks?" or MineralMan May 2014 #61

I know he had kids zappaman May 2014 #62

Ah. There you go. MineralMan May 2014 #63

Leave off the "n" in "Men" and what you say may be accurate. MineralMan May 2014 #58

I read in your profile ... GeorgeGist May 2014 #64

Balderdash and nonsense, in my opinion. Common Sense Party May 2014 #65

Heh. RobertEarl May 2014 #66

Nah, many inherit their wealth and the ones who create wealth are usually criminals randys1 May 2014 #67

Eh? RobertEarl May 2014 #68