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polly7

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2. Or, the next time one of your Facebook "friends"
Thu May 29, 2014, 01:54 PM
May 2014

posts something regarding:

-males abused physically by their partners or spouses and having none of the resources available, such as emergency shelter, etc. - point and laugh! Because physical injuries caused by women are funny, especially if the target has a penis ... then, they're hilarious!
(My brother went through this, if I'd caught someone laughing I can guarantee they'd be chewing their food twice).

-fathers who've lost the right to even see their own children during custody disputes where spouses/partners have been proven to have lied, made false sexual abuse allegations, etc. etc. - just point and laugh, because that shit is funny, especially watching the children involved lose a loving parent d/t the hilarious abuse of the laws and propensity to disbelieve in many, many cases, the complete innocence of the man accused. But he has, you know .... a penis, so laugh and point!!!

- males who've been thrown in jail, had their repurations ruined and lost jobs because a woman they had just broken up with slammed her own shoulder in a heavy steel door (right in front of my own lying eyes!!!), screamed at us to call the cops (which we wouldn't do), but called them later anyway. That shit is also hilarious. Again, point and laugh!

I've seen all this and know it's real. If it occurs in my small town and group of friends, I can imagine it occurs on a much larger scale. Of course women suffer more d/t domestic violence, economic hardships on their own trying to raise a family, sexism and mysogyny, but men DO HAVE REAL ISSUES that may (if one has the agenda to look hard enough) be mentioned in MRA group's writings - it doesn't make them any less real, painful, destructive or important. Recognizing and empathizing with the VERY REAL concerns of men suffering in today's economic reality so much that millions around the world are committing suicide for the hopelessness and dis-honour of not being able to provide for their family is also quite funny, I'd forgotten about that! hahahaha! Who knew human suffering could be so entertaining?!

I thought progressives were intelligent enough to realize that the struggles of one do not in any way diminish the struggles of any and every other. Hopelessness and pain are not a competition. Why the need to make them one is completely beyond me.

But yeah .... pointing and laughing is fun, so let's all just - DO IT!


ffs.

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Men's rights group, kinda like "Koch Bros rights group, please whine for us" randys1 May 2014 #1
Or, the next time one of your Facebook "friends" polly7 May 2014 #2
There are legitimate concerns, and legitimate groups to deal with them. riqster May 2014 #3
The problem I have, is that almost every legitimate complaint here, and in many other places polly7 May 2014 #5
MRAs do not offer support and compassion. They are hate groups. riqster May 2014 #9
Yeah, we get that. polly7 May 2014 #11
The OP was about Men's Rights groups. NuclearDem May 2014 #6
No shit! polly7 May 2014 #10
I wrote the OP, and know what it was about. riqster May 2014 #13
Your agenda is clear. nt. polly7 May 2014 #16
As is your attempt to project your thoughts onto my OP. riqster May 2014 #22
They do parrot MRA talking points. NuclearDem May 2014 #14
That means you, many times parrot female hate groups. polly7 May 2014 #17
Analogy comprehension fail. NuclearDem May 2014 #18
Nah, you just want to grant others that which you, yourself, seem to do daily. nt. polly7 May 2014 #19
Alright, just so we're clear. NuclearDem May 2014 #20
Oh, I can distinguish the difference very well, thank you. polly7 May 2014 #25
Curious about this World War I thing. thucythucy May 2014 #34
No one knows who is going to snap treestar May 2014 #27
Re the third paragraph .... polly7 May 2014 #29
Why should they always win? treestar May 2014 #31
WHO said 'anyone' should always win??? polly7 May 2014 #32
There are men who think that if they want custody, they should get it treestar May 2014 #33
This: riqster May 2014 #30
That is bigotry RobertEarl May 2014 #4
Nonsense. riqster May 2014 #7
And you hate them? RobertEarl May 2014 #12
Oh my God, really? NuclearDem May 2014 #15
Crap. riqster May 2014 #21
So... all men who even think about men's rights are like KKK? RobertEarl May 2014 #23
Willful misinterpretation at its worst. riqster May 2014 #24
We've been fighting to get the justice system to treat women equally treestar May 2014 #28
They have nothing at all to do with rights. NuclearDem May 2014 #8
You can say all " " are bad of some groups. Nazis and MRA's come to mind. The only real Squinch May 2014 #26
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