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magical thyme

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23. I would possibly enter a situation like that
Sun Apr 1, 2012, 12:53 PM
Apr 2012

for the same reason that I ran into the road in front of an oncoming car. I didn't think my speed or agility was a coat of armor, and I accomplished my goal without getting hit or causing worse injury to anybody. I simply could not leave the escaped toddler to run out in front of an oncoming car. I could see her mother's panic and hear her mother's silent scream in my own heart and head.

It's the same choice that some people (not me because I am deathly afraid of getting burned) will make on the fly, to run into a burning building to save a screaming kid.

Entering that situation doesn't mean that you will run in and start shooting. If you can run in and shout loudly enough, you can freeze the situation in place and prevent injury. You don't need to know who the aggressor is. Just scare *everybody* into dropping, keeping hands over head, and obeying your orders.

(I realize as a horse trainer, I sometimes see things a little differently than others. It's not that I go around routinely shouting at my horses, lol. It's just a skill that you develop to make yourself bigger and louder than anything a panicked horse is freaking out over, to keep them from making a bad situation into a disaster. It can happen with flighty youngsters in a heartbeat. My gut tells me if I can go from quiet and laid-back to bringing a half-wild, panic-stricken thousand pound horse to a dead halt by shouting, I can do the same in other emergencies. And I am not special. If I can do that, so can others.)

I think her feeling stems from the helplessness of immediate response... hlthe2b Apr 2012 #1
Well stated. n/t Foolacious Apr 2012 #3
No she calls after the gun shot. The boy is already dead. vaberella Apr 2012 #6
If she meant it that way she would already have a gun lunatica Apr 2012 #10
That doesn't negate my point at all... hlthe2b Apr 2012 #15
the police can't get there in time magical thyme Apr 2012 #2
I agree with your thoughts on the 13 year old boy...who is Black. vaberella Apr 2012 #9
I think most nonviolent type people would be reluctant to shoot either one magical thyme Apr 2012 #22
I'm going to assume that she saw the police as some sort of protective source since she Arkansas Granny Apr 2012 #4
No that's not what I mean. vaberella Apr 2012 #5
It's "fight or flight" thinking, and I've had the exact same reaction EFerrari Apr 2012 #8
Pretty much the same thing I said in post #10 lunatica Apr 2012 #11
But your situation and her situation are entirely different. vaberella Apr 2012 #17
Imo, it doesn't matter what the situation is but what your brain tells you it is EFerrari Apr 2012 #19
We don't know that her first thought was if she had a gun. She mentioned that Arkansas Granny Apr 2012 #14
Valid point. The gun thing entering our minds during a stressful situation is a problem I think. vaberella Apr 2012 #18
I think you're right. EFerrari Apr 2012 #20
I would possibly enter a situation like that magical thyme Apr 2012 #23
The police certainly are NOT a protective force. They are a reactive force. slackmaster Apr 2012 #7
Excellent point lunatica Apr 2012 #12
I taught my kids to NOT trust cops. alphafemale Apr 2012 #16
I am over 40 and the police have NEVER helped when i have called them, in 7 different states slampoet Apr 2012 #24
She just feels bad Life Long Dem Apr 2012 #13
There was another woman who called 911 HockeyMom Apr 2012 #21
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