Some things for us guys to keep in mind about sexism if we don't want to come off as jerks. [View all]
I posted this on Facebook, figured it was worth posting here, too:
1. Sexism exists and is a serious problem. Don't pretend otherwise.
2. Women know that not all men are sexist dickbags. Stop being so defensive, it's not all about you and your feelings.
3. No, you don't need to apologize for all the guys out there that are sexist. What you can and should do is point out sexism when you see it and stick up for the women in your life.
4. Realize that we have all been sexist at times. It's part of the culture we were raised in. Recognize this and try to do better.
5. Recognize the privilege being a man has given you.
6. There is no 'friend zone.' There is no such thing as being entitled to anything from a woman. If a woman is not interested in you, accept it and move on.
7. You are not a knight in shining armor. She is not a princess in need of saving.
8. Teach respect for women to the boys and young men in your life. Every boy who learns to see women as people and not objects to be won is a positive step in the right direction.
9. Don't talk about reverse sexism. It makes you look both sexist and astoundingly stupid.
10. Seriously, it's not about you. It's not about any one of us. It's about being a decent human being and treating each other with dignity.
Thoughts?
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