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Ghost in the Machine

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71. "You say that like it's some sort of yearning."... No, it's a statement of fact, which I have first
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 01:11 AM
Jun 2014

hand knowledge of. After working many years as a bouncer, I came to realize that the only language *some* people understand is violence. You can be nice, talk to them in calm tones so as to not escalate the situation, but certain people have a short somewhere and they aren't going to take no for an answer. They *WANT* to fight, and nothing is going to stop them except meeting them with violence. Violence should ALWAYS be a last resort, but it *is* a necessary evil at times.

Flame away if you feel you must, but I'm no pacifist and damn sure won't be anyones punching bag. I'll try to talk someone down and try to calm them down until I'm blue in the face, but if you make the mistake of putting your hands on me, I'll teach you real quick that you don't ever want to do that again. I was trained in self defense since I was big enough to walk, and it was just that: *self defense*! I was taught to NEVER START a fight, but if I HAD to fight, to end it quickly. I taught my kids the same thing when they were growing up. Defending yourself is one thing, being a bully is totally different and actually makes YOU the cowardly jackass, especially if you are trained to fight and *know* you can hurt someone who may not know how to defend themselves.

Ghost

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Well Hell, it's Florida. billh58 Jun 2014 #1
Must be something in their water. 840high Jun 2014 #2
There's a book titled, "The good ole boys of Brevard County." Baitball Blogger Jun 2014 #6
Sounds like ALEC's billh58 Jun 2014 #8
Hate to tell you, but our community was regaled to this kind of operation Baitball Blogger Jun 2014 #10
Sorry to hear that billh58 Jun 2014 #11
Well, maybe the younger and more enlightened among them might have the incentive Baitball Blogger Jun 2014 #12
Bwahahaha! Surprised he didn't. valerief Jun 2014 #37
I wouldn't characterize it as an "attack" JJChambers Jun 2014 #3
And that makes it a good thing? TreasonousBastard Jun 2014 #4
It's not nearly as bad as an "attack" JJChambers Jun 2014 #5
Let me correct that for you: billh58 Jun 2014 #9
Fisticuffs is quite gentlemanly JJChambers Jun 2014 #13
Yeah right. billh58 Jun 2014 #15
I wouldn't be opposed. JJChambers Jun 2014 #16
Enjoy your stay... n/t billh58 Jun 2014 #17
I wonder how he is still here. n-t Logical Jun 2014 #24
He tries to stay under billh58 Jun 2014 #25
He got his 5th hide and forced vacation. morningfog Jun 2014 #74
I did it, i feel kinda bad now, since the post was not one of the worst. bravenak Jun 2014 #76
He's on vacation for (at least) a month now. morningfog Jun 2014 #73
Thanks!!! nt Logical Jun 2014 #75
Why do you want to silence the voice of a fellow Democrat? JJChambers Jun 2014 #38
Good one billh58 Jun 2014 #41
Yes, I am a Democrat. I'm lots of things: JJChambers Jun 2014 #44
How special you must feel... n/t billh58 Jun 2014 #45
I do, thank you. It's kind of you to say so! JJChambers Jun 2014 #46
oh for pity's sake. no it is not "gentlemanly" just because you found some ridiuclous article cali Jun 2014 #19
Uh, no. And no to your statement below about "gentlemanly" fisticuffs. DisgustipatedinCA Jun 2014 #18
It's not an assault if it is mutual combat JJChambers Jun 2014 #26
Excuse me jberryhill Jun 2014 #31
There was clearly a history between the two JJChambers Jun 2014 #35
LOL, you are a real piece of work. n-t Logical Jun 2014 #23
Thank you :) JJChambers Jun 2014 #27
It's quite comical. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #43
"Sometimes men agree to settle their differences with their fists." - Bwahahahaha Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #42
"You say that like it's some sort of yearning."... No, it's a statement of fact, which I have first Ghost in the Machine Jun 2014 #71
According to the article, he punched the PD in the head. I WOULD call that an attack and grounds to sabrina 1 Jun 2014 #14
So? The judge challenged him to fisticuffs and he accepted the challenge JJChambers Jun 2014 #29
You can't be a judge in a civilized society and challenge defense attorneys to fisticuffs. Where is sabrina 1 Jun 2014 #30
Correct. We do not have "trial by combat" jberryhill Jun 2014 #32
Except on DU Demeter Jun 2014 #40
Why can't you? If the attorney hadn't accepted the challenge and the judge had attacked... JJChambers Jun 2014 #33
Spoilers : in Fight Club, Tyler Durden is Joe bobduca Jun 2014 #39
There is no exception to assault and battery for that. Read the statutes. nt stevenleser Jun 2014 #59
You really think a gentleman would file a police report for losing at fisticuffs? JJChambers Jun 2014 #61
Now you are moving the goalposts that you yourself erected. stevenleser Jun 2014 #62
I assert he won't be charged both due to mutual combat and no victim JJChambers Jun 2014 #66
He punched him, it was an attack. Or, to use another word, an assault. morningfog Jun 2014 #48
They agreed to fight, how is it an assault? JJChambers Jun 2014 #49
You don't understand the law. morningfog Jun 2014 #53
What do you call it? JJChambers Jun 2014 #55
It wasn't a sport. It can't be "unsportsmanlike." morningfog Jun 2014 #57
Really? JJChambers Jun 2014 #60
Why would the attorney even think that the judge was going to act like an asshole morningfog Jun 2014 #63
I couldn't get the video to load, but found a youtube version. Snarkoleptic Jun 2014 #7
Why did these fools applaud? 1000words Jun 2014 #20
Apparently Floriduh Man is a Judge!! madinmaryland Jun 2014 #21
"Isolated incident?" Really? Brigid Jun 2014 #22
Anyone who appears before that judge for assault ... 1000words Jun 2014 #28
He can't press charges JJChambers Jun 2014 #36
You are not correct. Not at all. morningfog Jun 2014 #51
How was there not? JJChambers Jun 2014 #52
You are just plain wrong. morningfog Jun 2014 #54
Did you miss the Audio? JJChambers Jun 2014 #56
It doesn't matter tkmorris Jun 2014 #70
Pip Pip! Old Chap, Queensbury rules and all that rot I say! bobduca Jun 2014 #72
Which is an affray Nevernose Jun 2014 #68
If you're going to charge one you have to charge both JJChambers Jun 2014 #69
The worst thing is that the judge beat up the attrny for not waiving the Evergreen Emerald Jun 2014 #34
Hopefully the Florida Bar investigates this davidn3600 Jun 2014 #47
Can they sanction the PD who agreed to the fight? JJChambers Jun 2014 #50
No, because he didn't. morningfog Jun 2014 #65
Really? "Let's go" he said, and then went. JJChambers Jun 2014 #67
That judge guaranteed a few things MohRokTah Jun 2014 #58
+1 bravenak Jun 2014 #64
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