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sabrina 1

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33. I don't want to hide from those whose opinions I totally disagree with on important issues that
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 05:33 PM
Jun 2014

affect this country. I want to confront them. Some are simply unaware of many of the facts they don't get on Fox etc. I'm not sure I will change any minds, but I can provide them with facts they have either have ignored or were never aware of. And minds DO change, they HAVE to if we are ever to get any real change in this country.

That won't happen by living in an echo chamber. It happens when people find common ground on important issues. And it won't happen if we constantly attack half the country. It happens when we find reasonable people who are willing to stop the name calling and personal attacks and listen to what others are thinking. I don't waste time on those who are simply nasty for the sake of being nasty, who obviously hate 'the left', cultists iow, nor do I waste much time with their counterparts here, who ironically ALSO hate 'the left'.

But in the middle there are plenty of people who actually do care about this country but have different ideas about how to make it better. They, many of them, are as embarrassed by THEIR extremists as we are by ours.

Nothing was every accomplished in this country by people hiding in their own camps launching insults at each other. Anything good that happened happened when enough people were willing on both sides, to work for the benefit of the COUNTRY.

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You're welcome to stay and discuss it over there, since this is DU and all. nt ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #1
I think you could have been more rude Capt. Obvious Jun 2014 #5
Thank you for the compliment! =) When someone feels free to tell me how they feel about some shit, ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #7
You don't get to decide who discusses what on DU. former9thward Jun 2014 #8
Well, you did one good thing, depending on how one views it I suppose, you proved the OP's point. sabrina 1 Jun 2014 #16
"Discussionist IS far more civil" ... Oh no it isn't. ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #23
I don't care about rude posts on the internet, been attacked by the inventors of Internet sabrina 1 Jun 2014 #24
Your concern is certainly noted. DU is contentious. But at least we don't allow the ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #31
I don't want to hide from those whose opinions I totally disagree with on important issues that sabrina 1 Jun 2014 #33
Those dog whistle racists and Marine Le Pen supporters are sure nice! NuclearDem Jun 2014 #28
Yea, somehow calling people retard at will over there makes it more civil... ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #32
"Civil", maybe. NuclearDem Jun 2014 #2
By "D forum" do you mean forums that start with a D? MADem Jun 2014 #3
The Skinner D's. CK_John Jun 2014 #4
I thought it would build my patience but, to date, arthritisR_US Jun 2014 #12
I know. MADem Jun 2014 #21
But even when you give them proof, right arthritisR_US Jun 2014 #25
the one that doesn't make me feel like i am part of a giant sellout. nt La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #6
Sure, the racists, misogynists, homophobes and wingnuts sure are geek tragedy Jun 2014 #9
I just think their allergies are hard on them. nt arthritisR_US Jun 2014 #13
+1. Paladin Jun 2014 #14
Yeah, because pipi_k Jun 2014 #18
I'd rather deal with assholes than bigots nt geek tragedy Jun 2014 #20
Cool... pipi_k Jun 2014 #29
Bigots don't want to learn. nt geek tragedy Jun 2014 #30
Yep. A self-selecting kind of "civility." Squinch Jun 2014 #22
Than what? Frei Republik? KamaAina Jun 2014 #10
Hahahhaha... Discussionist is ANYTHING but civil. phleshdef Jun 2014 #11
Yep, I seem civilly challenged. nt arthritisR_US Jun 2014 #15
Yeah. This OP must be some kind of performance art. Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2014 #17
Civil? Discussionist? Hong Kong Cavalier Jun 2014 #19
It looks like the smilie guy is making the checkered ball spin. CrispyQ Jun 2014 #27
I've been there a couple of times. lpbk2713 Jun 2014 #26
I took one look and couldn't stand the colors, font sizes, and general garishness. Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #34
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