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randys1

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64. Yeah, just me, nobody else has heard this...sigh sigh sigh

Mon Jun 9, 2014, 11:56 AM

Jun 2014

For those who want to talk seriously, the place I usually hear this is on the radio...

In person most racists are careful these days, they want to actively practice racism but they know they need to fly under the radar to do it

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If I hear one more white person say "Black folk us the N word why cant I?" [View all] randys1 Jun 2014 OP

It is an odd thing to complain about BainsBane Jun 2014 #1

I think you've got it right. n/t nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #46

Is it really used as a term of endearment ? Autumn Jun 2014 #2

It's an in-group language thing gollygee Jun 2014 #3

Then using it to defuse it's horrible meaning Autumn Jun 2014 #7

yes gollygee Jun 2014 #8

A lot like family might call a ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #11

Yes. that's what I was asking. A person close to someone might use it but Autumn Jun 2014 #17

girls use "bitch" in the same way sometimes JI7 Jun 2014 #35

How is it possible to live in the United States and not know that? Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #9

Quite possible. I've just never considered it to be used as a term of endearment. Autumn Jun 2014 #14

have you heard of "fag hag" ? JI7 Jun 2014 #34

That too is a term of endearment in some settings. morningfog Jun 2014 #50

Amazing the power that words have. Autumn Jun 2014 #52

... Number23 Jun 2014 #38

They know it...you'd have to be stupid beyond description not to understand this feature of culture alcibiades_mystery Jun 2014 #41

How would you compare this to the Gay Community's reclaiming the word "Queer"? LeafsFan17 Jun 2014 #4

The situations are different. The way in which queer was reappropriated was different. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #13

oh, whitesplainin' KG Jun 2014 #5

As a Black man ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #19

Yes. bravenak Jun 2014 #28

"Because you're not black, asshole!" Warpy Jun 2014 #6

Its not being "thick" ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #22

One leads to the other Warpy Jun 2014 #29

You realize I am not the one wanting to use the word, right? randys1 Jun 2014 #57

Nope Warpy Jun 2014 #66

Exactly right...people pretending not to understand this go on my Racist list that second alcibiades_mystery Jun 2014 #42

Petulant assholes. Sheldon Cooper Jun 2014 #10

You must be hanging around with the wrong white people. Nobody I know ever says that. Comrade Grumpy Jun 2014 #12

Are you stalking me? No, I dont hang around with the wrong people, do you have nothing better randys1 Jun 2014 #25

Yes. bravenak Jun 2014 #27

It's a discussion board. I discuss. Maybe you would prefer a protected group? Comrade Grumpy Jun 2014 #44

I have never heard a white person pleading to use the word. former9thward Jun 2014 #15

It's Like the W word, the C word or the K and H words Wolf Frankula Jun 2014 #16

A pretty good article about this very issue... JazzFanInTX Jun 2014 #18

Thanks for posting this article... LeafsFan17 Jun 2014 #40

And I always have to ask such white people bluestateguy Jun 2014 #20

1000+ Tom Ripley Jun 2014 #33

+2000 nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #47

My opinion is that blacks should let that word die. Curmudgeoness Jun 2014 #21

You may have a point. But I wouldn't blame black people for white people's disingenuousness, myself. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #48

I have heard whites use the n word Michigander_Life Jun 2014 #23

Is it ok to tell a joke? Rhinodawg Jun 2014 #24

Preach my ninja, preach!! bravenak Jun 2014 #26

I am actually on record asking how to do the 3 stage handshake randys1 Jun 2014 #30

You need to meet my husband! bravenak Jun 2014 #31

it's called context Skittles Jun 2014 #32

The investment some white men seem to have to hold onto racist and sexist slurs seabeyond Jun 2014 #36

+1 alcibiades_mystery Jun 2014 #43

you are right. there is no other interpretation, yet they think they can camouflage it seabeyond Jun 2014 #45

So true white person whining they cannot use the N word treestar Jun 2014 #37

I have never heard a white person say that in real life quinnox Jun 2014 #39

I have maybe a half-dozen times left is right Jun 2014 #55

I live in a blindingly white community and I have never heard a white person say that. Throd Jun 2014 #58

sigh randys1 Jun 2014 #63

Why is it so damned important for some white people to use the word? nyquil_man Jun 2014 #49

No one should use it. The history and the background of the word are shameful. lostincalifornia Jun 2014 #51

At the age of four or so Dyedinthewoolliberal Jun 2014 #53

If it hurts them that badly they should go ahead and do it. JoeyT Jun 2014 #54

AMEN!! I've been saying this for almost 2 years... go ahead... do it... see how it turns out for yah uponit7771 Jun 2014 #59

One day these clueless people may use the word and end up in a world of hurt. nt raccoon Jun 2014 #56

You know some f-ed up white people joeglow3 Jun 2014 #60

Yeah, just me, nobody else has heard this...sigh sigh sigh randys1 Jun 2014 #64

Oh, I have heard the idea floated. It just tends to be over-reported joeglow3 Jun 2014 #65

"The practice of hinting by single letters those expletives with which profane and violent persons Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #61

Makes me cringe... pipi_k Jun 2014 #62