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Jamastiene

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82. I don't have a particular city in mind, but I do want
Thu Jun 12, 2014, 10:37 PM
Jun 2014

a place that is close enough to a larger city with plenty of museums, science centers, and other interesting hobbies, but out in the woods far enough that I don't have to hear cars going down the road every minute of the day and night.

My step dad says I am dreaming and that place doesn't exist. I wish it did. If I could find that place and pot was legal there and it was an affordable place to live, I'd want to go there, get a few acres of land(I wish I could afford more, of all forested land), build a cabin in the center of it(really the largest sized shed like they sell at Lowes, with modifications to bring it up to code and modify the insides of it), and let the rest stay wilderness/forest. Only use the little area in a small clearing for my cabin and a path in and out to go to town.

I could live happily ever after if it was also a place with regular snow. It doesn't have to be ass deep in snow year round, just snow more often than once a year if you are lucky. I want any place I would go to actually have cold weather and cold winters. Where I was born and still live now, I don't have enough fingers and toes to count how many times I have spent Christmas in shorts and a t-shirt sweating to Christmas carols and no snow that winter at all. I hate that. I want snow around. So, for a place to be perfect for me, it has to also have actual cold winters and snow.

Other than a cabin on a few acres of land in a wilderness area with good winters and snow next to a nice big city where I can go entertain myself, I'm not asking for much, right? My family tells me there is no such Utopia and I need to quit dreaming. So, I let 5/6ths of my yard grow wild and all of the wildlife in the neighborhood lives with me here.

I do enjoy that all of the wildlife in the neighborhood is comfortable around me but not other humans in the neighborhood, and they all live with me, but it's too damn hot here, too many right wingers surround me, there is no place for gay people here to meet each other or feel safe, there is no culture for intelligent people, and it is in the Bible Belt.

When I walk into my jungle of a backyard (I'm not talking about a few dandelions like most people when they call their yard a jungle, I'm talking wisteria, Japanese, knotweed, old pecan and oak trees, lots of underbrush, and tons of wildlife), I can almost forget the city where I live is a pit of despair in the Bible Belt...almost. And I own it now. So, I guess I'll stay put....at least until I win a lottery or get lots of money somehow. Then, I want acreage and a cabin and oodles of wildlife that is comfortable around me, a small music studio inside of part of the cabin, and snow, miles and miles of forests/wilderness filled with snow.

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I am going to look into Denver Sanity Claws Jun 2014 #1
Honestly, part of mine is climate driven as well Horse with no Name Jun 2014 #4
Strange choice for a username then. randome Jun 2014 #46
Wow, that's weird. Check out my post #2. JaneyVee Jun 2014 #5
Denver has a crazy insane climate. Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #9
Florida.....I know I know yeoman6987 Jun 2014 #76
Grew up in Maryland and love living in Florida now. mia Jun 2014 #84
Maryland to Florida guy right here. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2014 #122
From a local: politicat Jun 2014 #88
I love it here in NYC, but I would say... JaneyVee Jun 2014 #2
Your list sounds like mine Horse with no Name Jun 2014 #7
I lived in Seattle for 20 years Sanity Claws Jun 2014 #12
I lived in Western WA for 37 years customerserviceguy Jun 2014 #60
I like California, and plan on staying here. CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2014 #3
If I had money, shenmue Jun 2014 #6
I like it fine here in SE Az. panader0 Jun 2014 #8
Moved to the PNW from California in '81. Never looked back. Tierra_y_Libertad Jun 2014 #10
About 9 years ago my wife and I were selling our townhouse that we outgrew and were thinking of FSogol Jun 2014 #11
Northern Va? How about Maryland!!!! VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #13
Have you seen how people drive in Maryland? FSogol Jun 2014 #17
I AM one of those drivers....have you seen how crazy it is to try to use GPS in Virginia? VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #18
I only have a 5 mile commute, but have to take 2 detours to avoid road work. n/t FSogol Jun 2014 #21
I feel your pain! VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #23
I am one of those drivers too, elleng Jun 2014 #30
I'm in Texas too LondonReign2 Jun 2014 #14
We've got the Fundies managed. politicat Jun 2014 #89
I am a primary care giver for my elderly mother and I've been looking at places to move to LeftofObama Jun 2014 #15
Then avoid going anywhere south.....even if Fla gets another Gov.....the teabag is strong in all of VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #25
Not quite all of central and northern Fla - the university towns are blue csziggy Jun 2014 #35
Not enough to influence the state in another direction... VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #36
That reminds me of how people smeared Maryland csziggy Jun 2014 #38
Big Pine Key? Corgigal Jun 2014 #98
Yes...it was several years back....but yep...I was there helping build the 7 mile bridge power line. VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #110
Gainesville is indeed pretty blue. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2014 #44
Yes, though as a FSU graduate I am prejudiced in favor of Tallahassee csziggy Jun 2014 #49
Tally's great, too. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2014 #52
Tallahassee has a lot of good places csziggy Jun 2014 #56
mobile home + hurricane = not good outcome snooper2 Jun 2014 #41
Consider New Mexico. politicat Jun 2014 #90
Asheville, NC - for the relaxed artistic culture AND access to cleaner water blm Jun 2014 #16
Good choice....even PBO and Flotus are buying a house there.... VanillaRhapsody Jun 2014 #26
Nice, cousin went there, elleng Jun 2014 #31
One 3 day visit made me fall in love...plus its affordable compared to many of the places Rowdyboy Jun 2014 #63
Any state north of the Potomac River and east of the Allegheny river Exposethefrauds Jun 2014 #19
It's hot dry and dusty here so I'd settle for someplace cool wet and clear tularetom Jun 2014 #20
somewhere I can buy weed at the corner store (legally) eShirl Jun 2014 #22
Find the most affluent place you can afford that is in a decent climate. CrispyQ Jun 2014 #24
Wow, that's lovely. woo me with science Jun 2014 #32
Is that part of coal creek? politicat Jun 2014 #91
Bobolink Trail. CrispyQ Jun 2014 #96
I am in MN and despite the weather I will stay right here thank you. One big reason is that we in jwirr Jun 2014 #27
I'm in Minnesota, too, and I never intend to leave again. scarletwoman Jun 2014 #74
If I could endure the long cold winters I would live in Wirt, Minnesota. Approx 60 miles NW of B Calm Jun 2014 #94
That is a beautiful area. Most of us living in MN just see the winters as a challenge. jwirr Jun 2014 #99
As a retired truck driver, I've had more than enough winter driving challenges. I always dreamed of B Calm Jun 2014 #119
Yes, the driving is bad. My grandson rolled his car on glare ice this winter and we are lucky to jwirr Jun 2014 #120
I already did and moved from Boston to NM Warpy Jun 2014 #28
How do you like NM? Horse with no Name Jun 2014 #68
You might want to consider Santa Fe. GoCubsGo Jun 2014 #70
It's more conservative than Boston was but about the same as the burbs Warpy Jun 2014 #73
I just moved to Albuquerque LoveIsNow Jun 2014 #75
Colorado. redqueen Jun 2014 #29
Louisville, CO. CrispyQ Jun 2014 #37
That would be Lou-wah-vul, thank you RainDog Jun 2014 #42
As a westerner I stand corrected. CrispyQ Jun 2014 #62
LOL RainDog Jun 2014 #67
fort collins/loveland is usually on those lists fizzgig Jun 2014 #93
I live in central Illinois and in spite of the fact that we can have bad winters I Louisiana1976 Jun 2014 #33
Portland, Oregon Yavin4 Jun 2014 #34
I agree about Portland; it's a wonderful city. LuvNewcastle Jun 2014 #47
I met a guy who was a wine salesman for the Pacific Northwest Yavin4 Jun 2014 #55
Oh hell, yeah! What a lucky guy. LuvNewcastle Jun 2014 #64
Hawaii. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2014 #39
Colorado RainDog Jun 2014 #40
Sonoma County, CA Ashland, OR Portland, OR nt marlakay Jun 2014 #43
Pittsburgh! spinbaby Jun 2014 #45
Been there. Done that. Prisoner_Number_Six Jun 2014 #48
Seattle or Portland LeftInTX Jun 2014 #50
I've grown weary of DC IronLionZion Jun 2014 #51
If not NY where I was born, raised, and my kids still live HockeyMom Jun 2014 #53
I picked up and left Sedona AZ for LA Sedona Jun 2014 #54
I'd crosscheck the climate change report against Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #57
best water in the nation handmade34 Jun 2014 #58
How people can look at those pictures, Chellee Jun 2014 #104
Thinking of moving to Florida, this last winter was the doc03 Jun 2014 #59
Corvallis Oregon. Beautiful, liberal. Gray in winter (about 6 months of gray every year) but still Shrike47 Jun 2014 #61
Oh, I love Corvallis... handmade34 Jun 2014 #118
I lived in Corvallis for two years Lydia Leftcoast Jun 2014 #121
Oregon coast, lots of rain, fish and summer tourists. JEB Jun 2014 #65
I'm partial to the Southeast madville Jun 2014 #66
I am happily living along the California Central Coast, but wouldn't mind a Summer home along the... Tikki Jun 2014 #69
It's a tough choice LiberalEsto Jun 2014 #71
Oregon, probably shanti Jun 2014 #72
A more rural part of Northern California, maybe? LeftyMom Jun 2014 #77
Cascadia. Anywhere from San Francisco Bay to Vancouver. Comrade Grumpy Jun 2014 #78
I picked up and left Southern roody Jun 2014 #79
Probably northern NM PasadenaTrudy Jun 2014 #80
Even though it is hardly any blue-er than Tennessee... Rod Beauvex Jun 2014 #81
I don't have a particular city in mind, but I do want Jamastiene Jun 2014 #82
P.S. Thanks for this thread. It is nice to be able to dream Jamastiene Jun 2014 #83
Hawaii in a heartbeat. Oahu on the Kailua side. kimbutgar Jun 2014 #85
I did that 34 yrs ago & ended up in WA state... countryjake Jun 2014 #86
I live in Colorado and love it but... meadowlark5 Jun 2014 #87
I don't know your numbers, but maybe north metro? politicat Jun 2014 #92
Thanks for the offer! meadowlark5 Jun 2014 #101
I know that feeling. politicat Jun 2014 #103
I hope so meadowlark5 Jun 2014 #105
I have some relatives who moved to that area (Castle Rock) Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #113
Colorado Springs usually makes those "best places to live" lists meadowlark5 Jun 2014 #116
Yep -- it's got Christians, cadets, cowboys and conservatives. Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #123
I live in Brooklyn and wouldn't move for a million bucks Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #95
I'd stay in my state, LWolf Jun 2014 #97
I'd stay here, surrounded by hospitals, doctors, and Urgent Care facilities. Between NYC and Phila. WinkyDink Jun 2014 #100
I currently live in Santa Fe, NM. SheilaT Jun 2014 #102
we did that 5 years ago and moved to Arkansas WhiteTara Jun 2014 #106
If you see Lum and Abner at the jot-em-down store, tell them Bubba B Calm Jun 2014 #107
That's really red territory WhiteTara Jun 2014 #108
Oh it's red for sure! They live on top the mountain overlooking B Calm Jun 2014 #117
Pacific Northwest. klook Jun 2014 #109
Are you a city, suburbs, small town, or country person, by nature and/or preference? nt Zorra Jun 2014 #111
i live in nyc, i would def like to give california a try (specifically SF) La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #112
I keep telling people to come to CT. Chan790 Jun 2014 #114
We were just discussing this subject last night- MerryBlooms Jun 2014 #115
Portland, Oregon demigoddess Jun 2014 #124
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