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In reply to the discussion: Father Charged with Murder in Death of Toddler Left in Car. [View all]unblock
(56,239 posts)24. it could happen to anyone with a brain because brains aren't perfect.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/magazine/fatal-distraction-forgetting-a-child-in-thebackseat-of-a-car-is-a-horrifying-mistake-is-it-a-crime/2014/06/16/8ae0fe3a-f580-11e3-a3a5-42be35962a52_story.html
What kind of person forgets a baby?
The wealthy do, it turns out. And the poor, and the middle class. Parents of all ages and ethnicities do it. Mothers are just as likely to do it as fathers. It happens to the chronically absent-minded and to the fanatically organized, to the college-educated and to the marginally literate. In the last 10 years, it has happened to a dentist. A postal clerk. A social worker. A police officer. An accountant. A soldier. A paralegal. An electrician. A Protestant clergyman. A rabbinical student. A nurse. A construction worker. An assistant principal. It happened to a mental health counselor, a college professor and a pizza chef. It happened to a pediatrician. It happened to a rocket scientist.
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The quality of prior parental care seems to be irrelevant, he said. The important factors that keep showing up involve a combination of stress, emotion, lack of sleep and change in routine, where the basal ganglia is trying to do what its supposed to do, and the conscious mind is too weakened to resist. What happens is that the memory circuits in a vulnerable hippocampus literally get overwritten, like with a computer program. Unless the memory circuit is rebooted -- such as if the child cries, or, you know, if the wife mentions the child in the back -- it can entirely disappear.
What kind of person forgets a baby?
The wealthy do, it turns out. And the poor, and the middle class. Parents of all ages and ethnicities do it. Mothers are just as likely to do it as fathers. It happens to the chronically absent-minded and to the fanatically organized, to the college-educated and to the marginally literate. In the last 10 years, it has happened to a dentist. A postal clerk. A social worker. A police officer. An accountant. A soldier. A paralegal. An electrician. A Protestant clergyman. A rabbinical student. A nurse. A construction worker. An assistant principal. It happened to a mental health counselor, a college professor and a pizza chef. It happened to a pediatrician. It happened to a rocket scientist.
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The quality of prior parental care seems to be irrelevant, he said. The important factors that keep showing up involve a combination of stress, emotion, lack of sleep and change in routine, where the basal ganglia is trying to do what its supposed to do, and the conscious mind is too weakened to resist. What happens is that the memory circuits in a vulnerable hippocampus literally get overwritten, like with a computer program. Unless the memory circuit is rebooted -- such as if the child cries, or, you know, if the wife mentions the child in the back -- it can entirely disappear.
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A better solution would be a smart alarm that detected breathing in a hot parked car.
Nye Bevan
Jun 2014
#10
As awful as this was, it sounds like an accidental or at most negligent homicide.
Tanuki
Jun 2014
#2
And I am not trying to diminish the pain of the situation, but an app would help busy parents...
Tikki
Jun 2014
#12
absolutely... I don't know about men, but a woman would never leave a car without her purse
renate
Jun 2014
#87
I'll never understand how someone can forget their child is with them in the car.
In_The_Wind
Jun 2014
#4
I did it. Granted, it was only for less than a minute, but I seriously, seriously forgot I even
msanthrope
Jun 2014
#68
Looks like 3rd degree at the most, from a Georgia lawyer definition
muriel_volestrangler
Jun 2014
#74
We had an entire subset of DU rage against a Good Samaritan earlier this week
Michigander_Life
Jun 2014
#7
A few years ago a father left his child in his car in Broolyn Park and the child died.
Jenoch
Jun 2014
#60
so tragic. Any decent day care or school should start calling immediately for no shows.
Sunlei
Jun 2014
#15
i get reminders from doctors and dentists a couple days ahead of my appointment
unblock
Jun 2014
#44
no, any business taking care of living beings should always check on no shows. a kid is not a pizza
Sunlei
Jun 2014
#45
I read an article once about a woman who was chatting on her cell phone and left
tblue37
Jun 2014
#83
I think the emotional guilt if it were a daycare worker and also purely accidental....
Tommy_Carcetti
Jun 2014
#36
The problem with the stuffed animal in the front seat is the same as the problem I have remembering
tblue37
Jun 2014
#84
you know a read a study about this, and it seems that while it is awful
La Lioness Priyanka
Jun 2014
#52
felony murder is when a death occurs in the commission of a felony -- so I guess the felony here is
fishwax
Jun 2014
#72