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Yavin4

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16. Fine by me. Just don't judge all men by the behavior of the "bad boys".
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 01:34 PM
Jun 2014

You want to date a a thug? Help yourself, but when he does not take care of your kid(s), or abuses you, or goes back to jail, then don't decry that "all men are dogs" or "men don't live up to their responsibilities", etc.

And, before the gender patrol shows up, the same is also true for men as well. If you choose a woman solely on her looks and nothing else, don't cry about how "all women are golddiggers" or "women aren't no good", etc.

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Some women find "bad boys" appealing. Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #1
Those ladies are idiots nadinbrzezinski Jun 2014 #2
But he's hawt!!! deutsey Jun 2014 #19
Being a woman does not exempt you from being an idiot, is the lesson. Fred Sanders Jun 2014 #22
Didn't I see that in Man of the House? Fla_Democrat Jun 2014 #3
LOL! fried eggs Jun 2014 #37
Since his current profession Le Taz Hot Jun 2014 #4
The guy is a freaking street terrorist and these Jenoch Jun 2014 #5
America's Next Top Model Prisoner betsuni Jun 2014 #6
yes Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #8
Oh Gawd, I can definitely OldHippieChick Jun 2014 #33
Reverse misogyny? Fred Sanders Jun 2014 #7
So now thinking a human being is attractive is a "mis-" something or other? Daft. WinkyDink Jun 2014 #13
you can't JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR LOOKS! snooper2 Jun 2014 #29
Yeah yeah ismnotwasm Jun 2014 #9
Well, there are some women who like to be penpals with prisoners freeplessinseattle Jun 2014 #10
And more men are the prisoners. What of THEIR "upbringing"? WinkyDink Jun 2014 #14
my apologies....????? eom freeplessinseattle Jun 2014 #24
What right do any of us have to criticize them for it? FrodosPet Jun 2014 #11
Fine by me. Just don't judge all men by the behavior of the "bad boys". Yavin4 Jun 2014 #16
+1 deutsey Jun 2014 #18
not just ladies. nt La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #12
One of the most handsome men I ever saw was a thug. Maybe we need a reminder that for neither gender WinkyDink Jun 2014 #15
Well, at least if a woman had a relationship with this guy... Tom_Foolery Jun 2014 #17
This shows that women are more visual than men are Harmony Blue Jun 2014 #20
I don't think so. There's a reason why this made national news fried eggs Jun 2014 #38
It is not an outlier Harmony Blue Jun 2014 #41
How come men's online comments about Claudia Ochoa Felix (aka The Empress of Antraxis) redqueen Jun 2014 #21
Maybe people are too invested in their "women like bad boys" stereotype to realize that nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #31
So you found an instance of women doing something men have done a billion fucking times. Iggo Jun 2014 #23
... tosh Jun 2014 #25
There is not one thing appealing about him to me. GentryDixon Jun 2014 #26
That's just proof that there are a lot of stupid women in the world Warpy Jun 2014 #27
+1. Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer were both 'hot'. closeupready Jun 2014 #28
Yup, he has model like features. It is strange, I saw two homeless guys recently, who were quinnox Jun 2014 #30
Here is a female one that was popular a while back...... Logical Jun 2014 #32
I remember one like that with a meth addict. joshcryer Jun 2014 #35
Then there was this woman BainsBane Jun 2014 #39
It's a good picture. joshcryer Jun 2014 #34
Statistical outliers seem to be red-meat for half-wits... LanternWaste Jun 2014 #36
Not this lady. WillowTree Jun 2014 #40
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