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LadyHawkAZ

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20. Yep, that's exactly what he's saying

Fri Jun 20, 2014, 03:39 PM

Jun 2014

That doesn't mean he isn't being supportive or isn't willing to act as enforcer if her date tries to break her rules.

If the daughter is OK with something and the father chooses to override it anyway, without any regard for her choices or what she feels is right, that is treating her as a piece of flesh. Particularly where sex is concerned, since it teaches young women that their consent is irrelevant and decisions on sex are best left up to a man.

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The CORRECT rules for dating my daughter [View all] Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 OP

Amen JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #1

k&r, but I'd add #5: until she's 18, I still make some of the rules n/t zazen Jun 2014 #2

Hate to break it to you Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #4

But, they don't make rules about cars, money, curfew, and supervision. . . zazen Jun 2014 #6

Very true, Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #8

Or, as it is and will be in my house, Seeking Serenity Jun 2014 #11

This message was self-deleted by its author Orrex Jun 2014 #36

Love this. Number 4 is really all you need. Brickbat Jun 2014 #3

Wouldn't it be nice if males realized every female is somebody's daughter? nt raccoon Jun 2014 #5

Wouldn't it be nice if men realized women were people too? F4lconF16 Jun 2014 #38

That guy is Jacked. Xyzse Jun 2014 #7

Disagree rtw Jun 2014 #9

As I pointed out in another post Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #10

I think you leave a couple of things out. rtw Jun 2014 #12

Teaching your daughter about the importance of her consent and control LadyHawkAZ Jun 2014 #14

No rtw Jun 2014 #16

You've got it backwards LadyHawkAZ Jun 2014 #17

Sorry again rtw Jun 2014 #19

Yep, that's exactly what he's saying LadyHawkAZ Jun 2014 #20

We'll have to disagree rtw Jun 2014 #21

Recommended reading: LadyHawkAZ Jun 2014 #23

Yeah rtw Jun 2014 #24

I appreciate your ability to disagree without being disagreeable LadyHawkAZ Jun 2014 #35

Thank you rtw Jun 2014 #41

Impart YOUR values? But what if YOUR values are wrong? CBGLuthier Jun 2014 #15

I am willing to rtw Jun 2014 #18

The message is meant as rebuttal Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #22

I do disagree and that's ok! rtw Jun 2014 #25

The whole premise of the "Rules" Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #30

Good luck with that. vi5 Jun 2014 #28

you are missing the point he is making with that JI7 Jun 2014 #39

I had a father like that LadyHawkAZ Jun 2014 #13

Until she's 18 Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #26

Again, Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #29

Yeesh. I put a smilie in there Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #31

Note, however, what's implied in your reply. FBaggins Jun 2014 #44

Parent's rules and "the law" Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #45

Well.. sure. But I wasn't talking about the law. FBaggins Jun 2014 #47

Gotcha! Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #48

Most guys would rather follow the daughter's rules... Mike Nelson Jun 2014 #27

I hope that dude's daughter isn't like 14 or 15. Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #32

Once again, Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #33

Not quite. There are statutory rape laws. fried eggs Jun 2014 #34

A responsible parent informs his daughter Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #42

Men With Guns Can't Date My Daughter otohara Jun 2014 #37

Sounds like the rules my other had when I started dating. Knightraven Jun 2014 #40

... when she's 18. 1000words Jun 2014 #43

The age of consent varies widely Kelvin Mace Jun 2014 #46