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45. Is this for real?..I can't imagine going up to ANY stranger & asking them to "touch" any part

Mon Jun 23, 2014, 06:37 PM

Jun 2014

of their bodies!

That being said, I worked with a young Black woman who INVITED some of her white

female co workers to touch her hair, and then she touched THEIR hair, and all of that

was fine with everyone.

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"Just saw Titanic. How are you dealing? I had no idea your people had it so hard." [View all] Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 OP

So, Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #1

What do you mean? Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #2

I mean what you just showed is so fucking stupid. RiffRandell Jun 2014 #5

Racism or racial ignorance do not necessarily manifest in discrete, violent acts. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #8

"They manifest very often in passive aggressive acts or simply acts of total ignorance." nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #10

No need to lecture me. RiffRandell Jun 2014 #33

For anyone reading this, RiffRandell is post stalking me... Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #36

If that's the case, yikes! (nt) Babel_17 Jun 2014 #39

So alert. Stop being dramatic. Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #43

Hilarious! arcane1 Jun 2014 #3

My favorite line of all!! wcast Jun 2014 #4

I would not find any of this upsetting. Would anyone? n-t Logical Jun 2014 #6

If people repeatedly said such things to you with no sense of shame or tact on their part nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #11

Well, I guess I would not know until they said it. So good point. n-t Logical Jun 2014 #14

Anyone who's experienced the systematic biases and prejudices that exist in society nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #17

Odd timing for this post as I just finished watching this... Snarkoleptic Jun 2014 #7

Is this for real?..I can't imagine going up to ANY stranger & asking them to "touch" any part whathehell Jun 2014 #45

LOL BootinUp Jun 2014 #9

That was hilarious. bermudat Jun 2014 #12

Post removed Post removed Jun 2014 #13

You are mesmerizing in your stupidity. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #15

You signed up just to post that npk Jun 2014 #16

Wow!!! An amazing first post. FreedRadical Jun 2014 #18

I was a middle and high school kid who was nicknamed "queerbait." hunter Jun 2014 #19

Volunteering at an orphanage in Europe helping white kids? Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #20

The volunteering part has nothing to do with the joke. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #21

Given that people volunteer both in Africa and in Eastern Europe, Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #22

It's not being made into a racial issue. It IS a racial issue. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #25

The people I have known who have volunteered abroad, IMO, have been good people, Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #28

All of your friends are exceptional human beings who couldn't possibly do anything bad. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #29

I guess you could be right. They could have been motivated by racist, colonialist instincts, Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #30

It always seems that magical, selfless friends materialize out of nowhere in these arguments. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #31

OK. I concede that somewhere out there may be an army of bigoted orphanage-volunteers, Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #32

I think that you should tell your friends to stop volunteering Dragonfli Jun 2014 #34

Sorry, my comparison implied I'm saying you're friends are bigots or something. That was my fault. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #42

Is that what you HAVE to be to volunteer? whathehell Jun 2014 #44

We're all flawed Babel_17 Jun 2014 #37

Yes, I suppose you are correct. But we should nonetheless recognize our flaws. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #41

"Those little white boys and girls. They were so inspiring!" gollygee Jun 2014 #24

When someone volunteers at a foreign orphanage, whether in Africa, Eastern Europe, China, Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #26

They're basing the video on stuff that's been said to them gollygee Jun 2014 #27

This was great and points out why we have a long way to go. Notafraidtoo Jun 2014 #23

Do you know Joe Namath? Babel_17 Jun 2014 #35

So there are white people who say things like "do you know Clarence Thomas" to black people? Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #38

Not quite that extreme anymore, probably, certainly not as much :) Babel_17 Jun 2014 #40