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71. very weird and sad story

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Fri Jun 27, 2014, 01:51 PM

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Nanny refuses to work, won't move out after being fired, wants family out of house from 8am to 8pm [View all] Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 OP

Let me get comfy here. JVS Jun 2014 #1

I had a housemate like that, once villager Jun 2014 #2

don't feed her. Stay in your house. Get someone to come in and assess her mind. roguevalley Jun 2014 #43

oh, this was finally resolved a year ago, and I've literally "moved on" since then villager Jun 2014 #68

very weird and sad story roguevalley Jun 2014 #71

Oh, much weirder than I've posted here... villager Jun 2014 #72

That is one of the weirdest stories I have ever read. n/t Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #3

Serve her a big wet dog turd on a delft plate. Ilsa Jun 2014 #4

Very strange, if they can't have her removed for trespassing, at least they could stop feeding her. tritsofme Jun 2014 #5

Yes, she would; she's established residency REP Jun 2014 #13

This family screwed themselves, didn't they? bluestateguy Jun 2014 #6

Poor people aren't automatically right kcr Jun 2014 #8

Formally fire her and have her arrested for trespassing. rocktivity Jun 2014 #7

Calif. law precludes involuntary psychiatric hold. truedelphi Jun 2014 #42

Hmm -- a West Coast Bartleby . . . Journeyman Jun 2014 #9

They have to start the eviction process - then the police can haul her ass out of there REP Jun 2014 #10

No eviction necessary -- she is neither a tenant nor a guest rocktivity Jun 2014 #18

not sure it's that simple , in California in most cases a person can't just be kicked out JI7 Jun 2014 #19

Doesn't work that way, alas. It's a civil matter; cops can't do shit until there's an order to evict REP Jun 2014 #20

But it's her workplace first and her home second. rocktivity Jun 2014 #24

It's a residence, not an office. They gave her a room of her own. REP Jun 2014 #25

Exactly, it would be like if an employer in a company fired an employee. Fla Dem Jun 2014 #60

You are licensed to practice law ... oldhippie Jun 2014 #92

Is there a Craigslist section for job postings like that? Nice work if you can get it. bluesbassman Jun 2014 #11

There is Renew Deal Jun 2014 #48

I meant ones for an old Bluesman to lay in bed all day and only come out for meals. bluesbassman Jun 2014 #69

You wouldn't come out and play some guitar? KittyWampus Jun 2014 #95

Well, maybe for some good barbecue and a cold beer. bluesbassman Jun 2014 #96

This will make a great movie malaise Jun 2014 #12

Have they settled on a script yet for Mrs Doubtfire II ? Gidney N Cloyd Jun 2014 #29

ROFL malaise Jun 2014 #32

It did make a great movie. christx30 Jun 2014 #35

That was my first thought as well: Carter Hayes! alcibiades_mystery Jun 2014 #55

Picture perfect for the Lifetime Channel bluestateguy Jun 2014 #37

And we wonder why all Lifetime advertises malaise Jun 2014 #46

That's what I was thinking. Renew Deal Jun 2014 #49

Pacific Heights comes to mind. Jamastiene Jun 2014 #53

They need to evict her and most importantly do not touch her or her belongings. dilby Jun 2014 #14

Yup. You are correct. REP Jun 2014 #23

I would sell the family my deadbeat removal services NightWatcher Jun 2014 #15

You had me laughing at Day Two!!!!! MADem Jun 2014 #28

Getting up off the floor malaise Jun 2014 #33

Day Two-BBQ! Cha Jun 2014 #45

Aren't the Spice Girls taking it a little too far? hack89 Jun 2014 #80

They should call the police and have them help evict her. About her threats to sue Louisiana1976 Jun 2014 #16

They did call the cops. Cops said it's a civil matter Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #17

Once they have an order to evict (30 days + 15 usually), cops will throw her out REP Jun 2014 #21

CA landlord/tenant law is on line; they can file themselves REP Jun 2014 #22

Unless they have gone through the eviction procedures csziggy Jun 2014 #65

Don't feed her! elleng Jun 2014 #26

I can't believe it took this long OriginalGeek Jun 2014 #27

I can't believe it, either Alex P Notkeaton Jun 2014 #31

This is what I was looking for before posting it myself! You beat me to it. nt ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #41

Reminds me of that Drew Barrymore movie, Duplex. Baitball Blogger Jun 2014 #30

"I prefer not" - Bartleby Yo_Mama Jun 2014 #34

Oh right! treestar Jun 2014 #58

Why are they feeding her? HooptieWagon Jun 2014 #36

Exactly. Lock up all the food. LisaL Jun 2014 #40

Boot meet ass. greytdemocrat Jun 2014 #38

She has to come out of her room to pee, no? Phentex Jun 2014 #64

Then she could sue for assault A Little Weird Jun 2014 #70

how could she prove it? Phentex Jun 2014 #73

They should stop feeding her. nt geek tragedy Jun 2014 #39

Damn.. I guess they could not feed her. That would be mean but maybe she'd get her butt Cha Jun 2014 #44

Nanny would make a good Republican Congressman! B Calm Jun 2014 #47

lol Renew Deal Jun 2014 #50

And this is a good reason to always obtain avebury Jun 2014 #51

That's why I just can't care about these parents... Phentex Jun 2014 #59

Can they set up some live web cams? Maybe make some money bettyellen Jun 2014 #52

That is a great idea. Jamastiene Jun 2014 #54

The quote from the article that gave me pause was this one: christx30 Jun 2014 #56

Barnaby treestar Jun 2014 #57

Bartleby. The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2014 #67

Yes! treestar Jun 2014 #87

36 lawsuit history. do a background check before you hire someone to live in your home. Sunlei Jun 2014 #61

Yep. I don't feel sorry for them at all. Phentex Jun 2014 #62

How kind of you! nt Logical Jun 2014 #78

They endangered their children... Phentex Jun 2014 #79

Another perfect DU member! Congrats! nt Logical Jun 2014 #81

thanks Phentex Jun 2014 #82

but she looks like such a nice older lady, LOL, I have the solution snooper2 Jun 2014 #63

This lady is lucky she's still alive, seriously steve2470 Jun 2014 #66

In all seriousness, this is another manifestation of mental illness and how it affects all around Lee-Lee Jun 2014 #74

It looks more like a form of grifting. Ilsa Jun 2014 #84

It is most certainly grifting. Her entire life from the sound of it. alphafemale Jun 2014 #88

These kinds of people go past grifting Lee-Lee Jun 2014 #97

Nah, she just a-squattin' & gobblin'. Knows the legal ropes. Eleanors38 Jun 2014 #93

Call the cops. Maybe they'll shoot her. hunter Jun 2014 #75

Things would become very uncomfortable for the nanny liberal N proud Jun 2014 #76

that's interesting gopiscrap Jun 2014 #77

They could always play Slim Whitman 24/7 at full volume Generic Brad Jun 2014 #83

Oh, Mr. Shef-field! KamaAina Jun 2014 #85

If she leaves the house she makes sure to leave some of her things there ripcord Jun 2014 #86

My brother had roughly this experience with a "girlfriend" Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2014 #89

Looks like she was homeless for 9 years. christx30 Jun 2014 #90

It's fifteen days for a notice of belief of abandonment to expire. LeftyMom Jun 2014 #91

That's not bad. christx30 Jun 2014 #94

Update rocktivity Jul 2014 #98