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tech3149

(4,452 posts)
34. seriously brave!
Sat Jun 28, 2014, 01:44 AM
Jun 2014

I had a similar situation with my neighbor. He was a nice enough guy but the whole family were flakes of one sort or another. They had this beautiful hound mix. I would take her out for walks around the neighborhood, all the leftovers from dinner went under the fence to feed her.
They didn't feed her what she needed not because they didn't want to, it was just do I eat or does the dog? She and he had a real good relationship but as I said, the humans weren't wrapped too tight.
Unfortunately, when some of my family members were visiting, they had serious objections to the situation and called animal control without asking or telling me.
The shitstorm that ensued really put me in fear for my life. I already knew he had not only a temper but very little self control with even the most minor aggravation. The fact that this was going to cost him $ that he didn't have and what he thought to be (and I will say that whatever her treatment she loved him best) she could be taken away, he was not just mad, he was raging.
First rule of thumb for me is you can't choose your neighbors unless you're very wealthy(by my standards) and you can't just move unless as stated before.
What can you do?
How about this for a suggestion? No matter how much of an asshole you're neighbor seems to be, there may be a reason for that assholery.
It might be better for all concerned to leave it alone.
I tend to have a libertarian streak and wish we could all be left alone but I guess I'm a liberal because i don't want anyone to suffer and will do what
I can to assure they don't.
The liberal (predominant) side of me is always the helper, the negotiator, mediator. That's why I think I'm here today because when my neighbor came after me in a blind red rage, I could have been history years ago.

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Call and email your local no-kill animal shelter about it. raging moderate Jun 2014 #1
That's a great idea. I am determined to get that little guy away from this creep. catbyte Jun 2014 #2
^ This is excellent advice - TBF Jun 2014 #3
I didn't even want to read the post after seeing the headline. Kaleva Jun 2014 #4
What raging moderate said. silverweb Jun 2014 #5
Calling the police in this case would be a bad idea... Lancero Jun 2014 #6
Call ASPCA and social services WhiteTara Jun 2014 #7
If you are home during the day, and are leaving soon... targetpractice Jun 2014 #8
Bad advice, you risk being found guilty of theft Lurks Often Jun 2014 #42
That miserable SOB doesn't deserve a dog Blue Owl Jun 2014 #9
too bad he doesn't have a yard he leaves the dog in sobenji Jun 2014 #10
I am so sorry you are dealing with such a creep. WCLinolVir Jun 2014 #11
call 911 when you hear the puppy yelling Corgigal Jun 2014 #12
That's a good idea. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #16
also statements like Corgigal Jun 2014 #19
I have a RW nut across the street who's moving in disgust.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #23
Excellent idea!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Jun 2014 #51
Prime for a liberation, if true. flvegan Jun 2014 #13
Please try to make a few audio recordings of the home coming Roselma Jun 2014 #14
I totally agree with that. avebury Jun 2014 #57
We paid $550 for a bird.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #15
What kind of bird? abakan Jun 2014 #47
A sun conure... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #50
ROFLMAO.... abakan Jun 2014 #52
Nothing feels like bird love. In_The_Wind Jun 2014 #49
Great, I love meeting new bird folk. abakan Jun 2014 #53
I know a cockatoo that will wrap its wings around you and give you a hug. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #60
Ihad a jungle fowl... undergroundpanther Jun 2014 #61
what everybody else wrote... magical thyme Jun 2014 #17
Call the Sherriff. You don't know if there's a puppy uo there...It might sound like a toddler. nt msanthrope Jun 2014 #18
Please, please let us know what happens! I hope like hell you get the puppy out of there... Moonwalk Jun 2014 #20
Call the police they will call in animal services quicker. glowing Jun 2014 #21
video snooper2 Jun 2014 #22
Thank you all for your suggestions & support. You're the best! Mr. Creep left again catbyte Jun 2014 #24
With all due respect, keep in mind that the only reason no-kill shelters exist SheilaT Jun 2014 #25
if none of these things work annm4peace Jun 2014 #26
GREAT advice! Sound like something I'd do! Duppers Jun 2014 #35
Advising people to commit a crime is wrong Lurks Often Jun 2014 #43
The horse was under a vet's care, yet this friend "knew" better so they stole it?? riderinthestorm Jun 2014 #48
I agree. Wow. Boudica the Lyoness Jun 2014 #68
People who are caring for end of life horses Boudica the Lyoness Jun 2014 #69
Call ASPCA right now mrsadm Jun 2014 #27
I have to tell you what I did a long time ago. MrMickeysMom Jun 2014 #28
seriously brave! tech3149 Jun 2014 #34
Yeah, you've got to consider this, too... MrMickeysMom Jun 2014 #41
Wow! Excellent! nt Duppers Jun 2014 #36
That is cruel, can you can the RSPA. Who beats a puppy? akbacchus_BC Jun 2014 #29
Call a local elected official and ask them to get Animal Services to do its job. Liberty Belle Jun 2014 #30
+1 - great suggestions! n/t Triana Jun 2014 #45
Please bust him to all possible authority. roody Jun 2014 #31
I have improved the lives of 3 dogs roody Jun 2014 #32
Or buy the dog from him.. KinMd Jun 2014 #33
But...but... Duppers Jun 2014 #37
I sure hope you do something cwydro Jun 2014 #38
please let us know what happens. I'm so glad you're determined to do something BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2014 #39
Call the cops. Straight up animal cruelty. AngryOldDem Jun 2014 #40
Call the Sherriff/police. Notify management. Notify SPCA. Notify ANYONE who will listen. Triana Jun 2014 #44
i second this advice Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #65
This message was self-deleted by its author Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #46
Call Central Dispatch YarnAddict Jun 2014 #54
First complain to the apartment complex. alarimer Jun 2014 #55
I'd figure out a way to break into the asshole's apartment and dognap the puppy. Louisiana1976 Jun 2014 #56
OMG, he left the poor little thing alone for hours. LLD Jun 2014 #58
if the puppy is yelping and crying, it is being abused magical thyme Jun 2014 #63
Thank you for articulating what I couldn't because that comment made me livid. catbyte Jun 2014 #66
if you possibly can (and I know some people are impossible to talk to) magical thyme Jun 2014 #70
Those are great ideas, thanks! catbyte Jun 2014 #71
Are you freaking kidding me? The puppy howls for HOURS alone. I know when the creep is catbyte Jun 2014 #64
It sucks. LLD Jun 2014 #59
glad I dont live there undergroundpanther Jun 2014 #62
I'm an activist when it comes to animals Boudica the Lyoness Jun 2014 #67
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