Hi, I married to a man with child porn addict. I knew before we got married. I stayed with him. I was willing to support him and encourage him to understand that's wrong and get help n therapy. As I was molested by my father myself, I was thinking to stay with him, giving him the chance to engage a healthy sexual relationship. Then I will be glad to be able to help the man I love. I have 2 children of my own and I have a baby boy with him. He is to good to be true with my children. I believe all women will know and feel if there is any sexual orientation problem with spouse.
The obsession and possesion with children is grater with this kind of guys. I sometimes feel alone and ignored when it comes to his relationship with children. During the married, I believe he was not molested my children or our children. But some of his behavior is still not right.
We are now separated as I got really depressed and he refused to accept me back with him and my children after I went away for two months for recovery. I went through such a horrible mental abuse. I just understand about all of this after I read and read for nearly two years. My two sons are both with him most of the time. I only have them on the weekend. I have my teenager daughter living with me. However, we are still battling with the custody.
After I have more understanding about pedophilia, I then realized, what mistake I have made. But I never regret to have a good intention at the first place. Some women like me did not have full knowledge about it very well. You may think I am dumb and stupid. But I was thinking that giving him love n support to be a better person, giving him a chance to be a proper father and have a solid family will lessen pedophiles in our society.
I was wrong and I feel being punished. I near to lose my boys and my kids. He will fight his hardest to win the full custody. And this is a painful fact for me. I remain strong for my children.
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