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GoCubsGo

(34,890 posts)
33. Welcome to my nightmare.
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:45 PM
Apr 2012

I lost my job of 20 years nearly 5 years ago, and have been having to make do with entry-level seasonal work. That has dried up. Your story sounds just like mine, only mine has been going only way longer. In one of the last jobs for which I interviewed, I made it to the third interview. They even flew me up there for 5 days. I knew by the third day that it was all a huge waste of time and money, even though they let me hope that wasn't the case. I guess I should have noticed all the red flags when they were surprised when I said that, no, having to exist on seasonal work wasn't idyllic. They asked about it multiple times, too. I guess it was a bullet dodged, but I still have no fucking paycheck. A second position made got me to the second interview. I thought I stood a great chance of getting that one, especially since the HR person contacted me and asked me to apply for it. No such luck.

I have a Masters degree, too. I have also watched former co-workers who had no degrees walk into well-paying jobs at places to which I applied numerous times, but was told there were no jobs. I even once had my application stuck in a pile of goddamn internships, despite the fact that I was applying for a senior position for which I was well-qualified. Such are the joys of nepotism. Now, I get e-mails from the federal government telling me that, while I am well-qualified for the position for which I applied, they're not even going to look at my application because at least one veteran who only meets the basic qualifications has applied. I can go on and on with the horror stories, but I don't care to re-live them.

What really galls me is when, after destroying my hopes, they tell me, "Have a nice day, and good luck with your job search." Well, you just ruined any chance of my having a nice day, you goddamn moron. And, if good wishes got anyone a job, I'd be working in a position that pays $10,000 K/month. I have another interview next week. The job is okay, the pay is fair, but it's in the middle of nowhere. I am not hopeful. Every time I think I'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, it turns out to be a freight train. I don't have the choice of giving up, either.

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In this country; no one with your obvious skills should be unemployed. russspeakeasy Apr 2012 #1
Thank You, russspeakeasy! MarianJack Apr 2012 #3
I'll be watching for your post....soon, I hope. russspeakeasy Apr 2012 #5
Good luck! MannyGoldstein Apr 2012 #2
Hello from Augusta Maine, MannyGoldstein! MarianJack Apr 2012 #4
Probably a serious hike to Portland? MannyGoldstein Apr 2012 #7
An hour away. MarianJack Apr 2012 #9
I'm in a similar position. TexasTowelie Apr 2012 #6
It IS frustrating. MarianJack Apr 2012 #10
I feel your pain. LibDemAlways Apr 2012 #8
Thank you, LibDemAlways! MarianJack Apr 2012 #12
I've been out since last July. MrSlayer Apr 2012 #11
You're right. MarianJack Apr 2012 #14
hang in there and keep out there annm4peace Apr 2012 #13
Thank you, and... MarianJack Apr 2012 #15
I wish you luck. Behind the Aegis Apr 2012 #16
Hopefully something will happen soon,... MarianJack Apr 2012 #18
Well, I wish you luck and hope you don't have to shovel shit. Behind the Aegis Apr 2012 #20
Shoveling shit for the republicans. MarianJack Apr 2012 #21
Looking for work sucks HeiressofBickworth Apr 2012 #17
Thank you for that. MarianJack Apr 2012 #19
I wish I could give you and your family a supportive hug lunatica Apr 2012 #22
AND, lunatica,... MarianJack Apr 2012 #30
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That is a very good idea.... truebrit71 Apr 2012 #25
True that, Truebrit71! MarianJack Apr 2012 #28
Y'know, I didn't think of that. MarianJack Apr 2012 #27
I'm sorry for your ordeal Yo_Mama Apr 2012 #24
Your kind words are comfort enough! MarianJack Apr 2012 #26
Congrats on 6K! bigwillq Apr 2012 #29
Thanx, bigwillg! MarianJack Apr 2012 #31
there is nothing worse than being in a stage of permanent evaluation grantcart Apr 2012 #32
WOW, grantcart! MarianJack Apr 2012 #35
grantcart, that was a really great and simple "how to" network plan Waiting For Everyman Apr 2012 #40
Thank you, Waiting For Everyman! MarianJack Apr 2012 #45
Welcome to my nightmare. GoCubsGo Apr 2012 #33
Hopefully... MarianJack Apr 2012 #34
Back at you! GoCubsGo Apr 2012 #36
A big... MarianJack Apr 2012 #38
Older and unemployed for over a year Digit Apr 2012 #37
It does suck! MarianJack Apr 2012 #39
Guess you didn't hear the perky/fake jobs number today just1voice Apr 2012 #41
I'm sure that there is an increase in jobs. MarianJack Apr 2012 #43
Sorry about your job search crap--my husband is going through this now and yes, it does suck TwilightGardener Apr 2012 #42
Crickets, Wind and coyote howls. MarianJack Apr 2012 #44
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