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In reply to the discussion: Seen on Facebook; An extraordinarily well written response to an anti-choice post [View all]TBF
(36,399 posts)33. The word is "judgmental" and you are correct
that your statements are way too judgmental.
A woman's body is her own. It's not yours to use as an incubator or otherwise.
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Seen on Facebook; An extraordinarily well written response to an anti-choice post [View all]
A HERETIC I AM
Jul 2014
OP
pregnancy is not a blood transfusion or organ donation. the example is also unrealistic
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#2
i do, when we're talking blood transfussions and organ donating but pregnancy is neither
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#6
i think the birth decision should be upto the mother and the father of that baby
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#11
Elaborate further, please. What is the father's role in this decision? What if they disagree?
LeftyMom
Jul 2014
#14
if they disagree i can only speak for myself and if she wanted to abort and i didnt. i would
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#27
Fight how? Legally, physically? Social stigma? You have no legal control over that decision.
LeftyMom
Jul 2014
#30
omg not phyically.legally,my baby my choice.if i lose in court i lose in court
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#35
So every woman who has had an abortion is a baby-killer, according to you.
Starry Messenger
Jul 2014
#60
"what's the word for a woman who kills the baby of a man" - Are you fucking kidding me?
cyberswede
Jul 2014
#70
Yeah. Just my personal opinion about what I'd rather not see on DU.
Dark n Stormy Knight
Jul 2014
#213
Abortion is not 'killing a baby'. It's terminating a pregnancy. There's a difference.
PeaceNikki
Jul 2014
#91
Actualy, all straight men should be put in male chastity cages when they reach puberty...
Scruffy Rumbler
Jul 2014
#336
so, you think impregnating a woman's gives you autonomy over her body?
noiretextatique
Jul 2014
#133
When you get pregnant, you will have all the say you want, until then the Woman has 100% say
randys1
Jul 2014
#255
Not only would anti abortion men demand abortion clinics be more available than ATM's
randys1
Jul 2014
#269
im not carrying the baby but it is my baby also and that gives me an argument to make
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#126
I think it is important that men be required to pay child support when they father kids.
StevieM
Jul 2014
#295
I'm pretty sure the law says men have equal say regarding adoption after the child is born.
Chemisse
Jul 2014
#343
what part of that fb post do you not understand? YOU do NOT have the right to force a woman
niyad
Jul 2014
#294
those are your words not mine - i dont see motherhood as merely an incubator but
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#128
These "I am the father, hear me roar" people never get that fact. They're all about their
Squinch
Jul 2014
#241
You do know women die in from pregnancy related issues and during childbirth correct?
riderinthestorm
Jul 2014
#236
And there are no genetic defects you can't live with in that child.
littlemissmartypants
Jul 2014
#314
She needs to get that in writing, too. That way she can warn others with proof.
Dark n Stormy Knight
Jul 2014
#69
Note that it's the post number, not the placement on the thread that indicates the time it is read.
freshwest
Jul 2014
#232
i dont know - if she really wanted an abortion i doubt there's anything that can be done
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#122
So when a women is pregnant the father of the fetus can assume control over her body?
A Simple Game
Jul 2014
#105
Nice edit. Your post was " i do respect women, why cant women respect the life inside them"
LeftyMom
Jul 2014
#18
ROTFLMFAO! You'd FORCE a woman to give birth at your whim, but you wouldn't want to be
Dark n Stormy Knight
Jul 2014
#83
Forcing the mother to carry the child for nine months and then have the child.
Not a Fan
Jul 2014
#206
collection of cells is your term for it. not mine,but that collection of cell that will be
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#168
If you feel that strongly about it, then you should always make sure that any
smirkymonkey
Jul 2014
#278
You're angry at a particular woman, aren't you? Somebody who didn't want to be your brood mare?
LeftyMom
Jul 2014
#48
Thank you. I was going to post something similar, but you covered what I wanted to say and did so
smokey nj
Jul 2014
#165
Again, a fetus is a PARASITE, unable to live outside my uterus. Until it can survive on its own,
catbyte
Jul 2014
#98
Question- have you told every woman you've ever had sex with that you would try to force her
KittyWampus
Jul 2014
#47
when i was younger i dont recall having convo's like this but then i probably didnt care
leftyohiolib
Jul 2014
#61
You appear to be unaware of the neon sign over your head that says that you don't respect women.
Squinch
Jul 2014
#258
Took friggin' long enough. This wasn't the first time he spewed this women-hating nonsense.
Squinch
Jul 2014
#259
No, it really isn't twisted at all. It doesn't claim that pregnancy IS a blood transfusion or
Dark n Stormy Knight
Jul 2014
#64
"I do think there's an unfortunate strain of "feminism" or something that is prevalent here on DU"
cyberswede
Jul 2014
#183
He has the right to an opinion, and it's her right to disagree with that opinion.
catbyte
Jul 2014
#244
How is a man relevant to the topic of a woman's autonomy over her own body?
cyberswede
Jul 2014
#194
Seriously. If the woman doesn't want to be pregnant and give birth, there is no other way. The end.
cyberswede
Jul 2014
#200
In a perfect world, hopefully a couple would discuss the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy
smirkymonkey
Jul 2014
#279
Obviously, men are irrelevant when a woman is deciding what to do with her body.
Squinch
Jul 2014
#262
And that's probably the most rational, reasonable thing said here so far.
The_Commonist
Jul 2014
#227
hey now, we must be profoundly respectful to forced-birther misoynist trolls
geek tragedy
Jul 2014
#289
It's also interesting that these so-called male feminists call our opinions "hyperbole"
catbyte
Jul 2014
#297
This statement indicates a profound failure to understand pro-choice vs anti-choice
geek tragedy
Jul 2014
#288
To say to a man that they have NO right in the decision making process, just stfu,is perfectly fine.
bravenak
Jul 2014
#230
Took the words right out of my mouth in your header. Who the everloving fuck are these people?
Squinch
Jul 2014
#248
I shouldn't say cult members. I would never even think it's a cultish thing. Nope.
bravenak
Jul 2014
#249
What should we call such a thing? The religion of men who can't tell a woman from a breadbox, maybe?
Squinch
Jul 2014
#254
The man has no right to say whether or not the woman carries the pregnancy to term.
StevieM
Jul 2014
#300
I am glad that you and your husband are on solid ground. My brother and SIL's marriage
StevieM
Jul 2014
#308
Yeah, Commonist, We uppity "liberal feminists." How DARE we make our own decisions!
catbyte
Jul 2014
#251
there is no honest discussion to be had as to whether a man can control a woman's body
geek tragedy
Jul 2014
#283
I used the term parasite because biologically that is what a fetus is. And I am not
catbyte
Jul 2014
#293
The pro-lifers will not be moved by this argument, so I think so much satisfaction over this
Jenoch
Jul 2014
#8
The stupidity in your post is believing there is an argument that would move pro-lifers.
jeff47
Jul 2014
#131
Why bring up 20 weeks if you're not talking about aborting after that date?
Starry Messenger
Jul 2014
#157
so you just happened to go on DU and deep within this thread decided to respond?
CreekDog
Jul 2014
#119
you are so correct about them. and thank you for including that plank of the dem platform.
niyad
Jul 2014
#353
I have no idea what Rabbinical law is....but I will Google it later LOL!!
justanaverageguy
Jul 2014
#130
She had been without oxygen for some time and there was reason to believe the fetus was damaged.
LeftyMom
Jul 2014
#234