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In reply to the discussion: Somewhere a bridge has gained its Troll back. [View all]PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)This Statement of Purpose provides guidance for what posts are appropriate to be posted in your forum or group. However, you are not a robot who must mindlessly enforce that Statement of Purpose to the letter. Instead, you are empowered to use your own best judgment -- consider the Statement of Purpose, but also consider the feelings of people who are using your forum or group. How do they want to use the group? What can you do to help make the visitors to that group feel welcome and happy? It's okay to permit a little meta-discussion or off-topic stuff in any forum or group -- as long as it is good-natured, non-disruptive, and does not serve to overwhelm the group or distract from its primary purpose.
That's from the pinned thread in the hosts forum.
How is that example making women feel welcome? How is that not distracting from GD's primary purpose?
Like I said elsewhere, when I host... and I was on the very first extended round of hosting on DU3 while we were figuring it all out... THIS was the piece that stuck with me.
To me, that meant leaving posts about losing their pets or jobs. And locking threads that were divisive, flamebait, or using blatant right-wing sources to support a right-wing point of view. They called us "hosts" for a reason. Good hosts make members feel welcome. Not uncomfortable. Or angry. Or clique-y. Good hosts don't antagonize their guests. Or make them feel like they aren't wanted and a bother to them.
That's how I host. That's the DU I'd like back.