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In reply to the discussion: Let me tell you about a little girl my wife is treating. [View all]LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)How about you just post her name? That way,when she becomes an adult, everyone will know that she's an abuse victim and not to be looked at, touched or slept with! Wouldn't that be a big help! Save everyone some time and effort.
In fact, you could get together with other spouses of therapists with the same disdain for patient privacy and start a website. With a database. It will help ensure that the victims stay properly victims for the rest of their life. Make sure they understand that they gave up all rights to their sexuality when they were abused, and are now ruined goods.
Do I need the sarcasm smiley?
Of course it would never occur to you that being in situations where they can control their sexual excounters, like stripping, might BE an expression of freedom and independence for them. Because that would not be appropriate ruined goods behavior, would it?
Jesus H Christ, dude. This entire post is just horrible on every possible level. Here's some free advice; when your spouse tells you something confidential, see to it that it stays that way.