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Kath1

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86. "fuck that. i am all social justice."

Reply to seabeyond (Reply #7)

Sun Jul 13, 2014, 07:45 AM

Jul 2014

Amen to that on this beautiful Sunday morning!

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8 Things Middle-Aged Women Think About Far More Than Whether They're Still F*ckable [View all] Live and Learn Jul 2014 OP

Good article, but the cesspool is leaking into the comments section over there. MH1 Jul 2014 #1

Most comment sections seem to have Live and Learn Jul 2014 #3

I noticed that and had to quit liberalhistorian Jul 2014 #124

Sadly, in modern culture there's no shame in being sexist, alp227 Jul 2014 #147

"there's no shame in being sexist," brilliant. even on a progressive board. nt seabeyond Jul 2014 #148

Well stated. (nt) Paladin Jul 2014 #2

thank you. just for the fuckin' title. lol. i love it. now, i will read. seabeyond Jul 2014 #4

It is a good article and her title but I had a feeling it would catch attention. lol Live and Learn Jul 2014 #6

i know. and i am enjoying. gotta get back to the reading. seabeyond Jul 2014 #8

excellent article. k&r uppityperson Jul 2014 #5

sing it sister. i am in love seabeyond Jul 2014 #7

"fuck that. i am all social justice." Kath1 Jul 2014 #86

Well my middle-aged wife happens to be very hot. Mainly cause she is CBGLuthier Jul 2014 #9

Oh and apologies for the joke but I have wanted to use it all day... seabeyond Jul 2014 #10

Thank you, we shall CBGLuthier Jul 2014 #11

i had a fun little privilege in my life, a couple decades. seabeyond Jul 2014 #13

Because I was unfamiliar with the Junod enlightenment Jul 2014 #12

Funny, my mid 40s were about the last time a gawping male Warpy Jul 2014 #27

Have to agree. enlightenment Jul 2014 #29

We could PasadenaTrudy Jul 2014 #54

Now there's an idea! enlightenment Jul 2014 #55

Or a secret middle aged feminist society bent on destroying sexism! Kath1 Jul 2014 #89

Thanks! n/t PasadenaTrudy Jul 2014 #105

where is the meet up. i want to do that one. but, the investigating sounds fun, too. nt seabeyond Jul 2014 #112

It all sounds good! Kath1 Jul 2014 #121

ya. cause it is a lie we all know better, to put us once again, in our place and we have had enough seabeyond Jul 2014 #123

You got it, sister! Kath1 Jul 2014 #126

We ARE done. And while we're at it, can we get rid of that "here's how you gals with gray hair and calimary Jul 2014 #162

nothing wrong with wearing make up blueamy66 Jul 2014 #33

There was in my case Warpy Jul 2014 #42

Why? blueamy66 Jul 2014 #101

I totally agree arikara Jul 2014 #40

I actually have mixed feelings about that. pipi_k Jul 2014 #64

I've always been invisible. knitter4democracy Jul 2014 #57

Are you kidding? dawg Jul 2014 #108

Very true. knitter4democracy Jul 2014 #132

I don't want the cheerleader. dawg Jul 2014 #142

tell me from the other perspective. i am curious. seabeyond Jul 2014 #137

There are plenty of good "nerdy" women in the world. dawg Jul 2014 #141

You'd be an oddball up here in rural Michigan, too. knitter4democracy Jul 2014 #143

I'm pretty much an oddball everywhere. dawg Jul 2014 #144

Same here. I figured it's time to put looking for him on pause. knitter4democracy Jul 2014 #146

see, we got there. seabeyond Jul 2014 #145

Right on! Kath1 Jul 2014 #87

what is this invisiblity thing Skittles Jul 2014 #159

I just don't get it ... Cosmocat Jul 2014 #14

They're not having sex with anyone volstork Jul 2014 #47

that is how i see it. the women in their age range that would have sex, arent interested seabeyond Jul 2014 #50

DUZY AND THE TRUTH Demeter Jul 2014 #51

I think you hit the nail on the head. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #119

unless they pay for it one way or another lululu Jul 2014 #95

Why is it that some men think they are omniscient? WCLinolVir Jul 2014 #15

Loud, agressive, bitchy---and my personal favorite: SHRILL. maddiemom Jul 2014 #16

Aw, you shouldn't call those guys in the comment section such mean names! BuelahWitch Jul 2014 #18

LOL many times over. maddiemom Jul 2014 #44

Read the article; skip the comments. It's spot on. nt Hekate Jul 2014 #17

Frankly, I'm glad I'm no longer interested in looking for love BuelahWitch Jul 2014 #19

That's just sad. dawg Jul 2014 #25

Eww. They really do that? arikara Jul 2014 #41

Yes. They really do that. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2014 #58

Yes, without any introduction or request. BuelahWitch Jul 2014 #62

I guess you could have some fun with photoshop arikara Jul 2014 #63

Yup. Sad but true. Not sure why they would think cyber-flashing would make anyone Squinch Jul 2014 #71

More like a... 3catwoman3 Jul 2014 #139

Exactly. Squinch Jul 2014 #140

Junod is an idiot. nt awoke_in_2003 Jul 2014 #20

Ladies.... N.Y. to Paris Jul 2014 #21

Just for parity, here is a photo of the author Starry Messenger Jul 2014 #22

such a hoot. there is absolutely a consistency with the men that talk like that. nt seabeyond Jul 2014 #23

Oh my, the crow's feet, sagging jowls and Live and Learn Jul 2014 #24

It looks like he was trying for alluring and instead looks confused. Starry Messenger Jul 2014 #28

He looks cross eyed and half crazy. You were kind to label that as "confused" Number23 Jul 2014 #56

I keep waiting for someone to jump in here and shout "misandry!!11" Starry Messenger Jul 2014 #74

Does he go to Rand Paul's hairstylist? KamaAina Jul 2014 #160

that is it. that is who it looks like, lol. thanks. nt seabeyond Jul 2014 #161

no not even if he was younger LaurenG Jul 2014 #26

Looks like he's had hair plugs that he back combs Warpy Jul 2014 #30

I wouldn't touch him. blueamy66 Jul 2014 #32

Oooooooohhh, he's a real prize! kath Jul 2014 #34

Yup.. I bet Cindy Crawford is looking up his info right now SoCalDem Jul 2014 #39

It's as if Morrissey and David Byrne had a child underpants Jul 2014 #43

Ha! gollygee Jul 2014 #65

Haha. littlemissmartypants Jul 2014 #67

Or a grandfather... smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #120

goddess in heaven!! you should have WARNED us!! where is the mind bleach??? niyad Jul 2014 #45

Hahaha!! Starry Messenger Jul 2014 #46

Smug bastard volstork Jul 2014 #48

those type of guys are usually terrible Skittles Jul 2014 #59

Agreed volstork Jul 2014 #76

I have noticed in comments regarding older female celebs Skittles Jul 2014 #78

Amen volstork Jul 2014 #84

Why is it that older men think that they are still hot Curmudgeoness Jul 2014 #49

I agree, when I was young treestar Jul 2014 #93

It's interesting how men in general vastly overrate their attractiveness. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #122

I would not do him with a bag over his head and double condoms. eom littlemissmartypants Jul 2014 #66

Look out, George Clooney! historylovr Jul 2014 #69

Size matters---and he has a very small mind. WinkyDink Jul 2014 #70

He looks like the Grinch. Squinch Jul 2014 #72

He thinks he's a sex machine volstork Jul 2014 #77

He looks just JustAnotherGen Jul 2014 #83

Jesus Christ!! Kath1 Jul 2014 #85

Is that supposed to be his sexy come hither look? lunatica Jul 2014 #98

this is what gets me. we are these mens age. we know these men. we grew up with these men. seabeyond Jul 2014 #100

so well said . . . n/t zazen Jul 2014 #106

We also know that by overtly putting older women down lunatica Jul 2014 #107

oh. and you are so there. that was what i was initially think, that i did not bother to type out. seabeyond Jul 2014 #113

Ick catrose Jul 2014 #99

Possibly the ugliest man I have ever seen lululu Jul 2014 #111

LOL, so this is the putz klook Jul 2014 #131

Looks to me... abakan Jul 2014 #138

I just read the article. It was pretty inane but it didn't say what this writer says it said. cali Jul 2014 #31

I think the author got the gist of his meaning Live and Learn Jul 2014 #35

Hmm, I guess I don't understand your comment. I thought the article was straightforward riderinthestorm Jul 2014 #36

I meant I read the Esquire article. n/t cali Jul 2014 #37

Ah thanks. I just read the HP article... riderinthestorm Jul 2014 #38

42? Please! I mean that is young, young by today's standards flamingdem Jul 2014 #52

Well, at least we know for a fact that the line exists Demeter Jul 2014 #53

Shallow, stupid and clueless in every way. And the women he passes off as the 42-year old "ideal" Number23 Jul 2014 #60

LOL, love that response. Live and Learn Jul 2014 #61

On a different note ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #102

Good for you. Can't blame you....n/t PasadenaTrudy Jul 2014 #109

"Bars of Detroit." not find a single interesting Black...city that is 97% Black seabeyond Jul 2014 #115

I've had this same issue with Vanity Fair for damn ever. Number23 Jul 2014 #157

Thanks for your post Live and Learn. littlemissmartypants Jul 2014 #68

This 32 year old has seen some much older women that are sexy by being bright. BlueJazz Jul 2014 #73

We don't give a shit about Tom Junod. Kath1 Jul 2014 #75

APPLAUSE!!!! HangOnKids Jul 2014 #79

guys like him have no idea what they are missing Skittles Jul 2014 #82

LOL! Kath1 Jul 2014 #125

Ah, the smell of misandry in the morning hfojvt Jul 2014 #80

Not sure what your complaint is. Live and Learn Jul 2014 #81

the complaint mercuryblues Jul 2014 #91

Lol myrna minx Jul 2014 #88

insecurity Skittles Jul 2014 #156

LOL - I know! Out of the whole original esquire article and the rebuttle article myrna minx Jul 2014 #158

I will soon be 50 and date and bed men in their mid thirties. alphafemale Jul 2014 #90

But are you doing your Pilates? randome Jul 2014 #92

There are plenty of men that enjoy women that enjoy sex. alphafemale Jul 2014 #103

Awesome! Kath1 Jul 2014 #94

Junod doesn't know about the four Es Rapillion Jul 2014 #96

Ah yes... The aging males looking for anyone who wants to fuck them lunatica Jul 2014 #97

See, I only worry about 2 of the 8 things listed.... blueamy66 Jul 2014 #104

brain dead article lululu Jul 2014 #110

He pines for the good old days of the 50s when men were always on top. lunatica Jul 2014 #116

LOL!!!! Kath1 Jul 2014 #128

Oh, please, what an entitled arrogant jerk. pink-o Jul 2014 #114

pinko, i always enjoy your posts. seabeyond Jul 2014 #117

LOL, thanx, Sea! pink-o Jul 2014 #129

true that. i hear ya. son just read to me another hobby lobby project. four year bible study in seabeyond Jul 2014 #130

You got it! Kath1 Jul 2014 #136

A woman's sexiest feature is between her ears. GliderGuider Jul 2014 #118

So true. Kath1 Jul 2014 #133

The stupidest thing about this is he's 55, Benton D Struckcheon Jul 2014 #127

Don't worry about your F_ckability abakan Jul 2014 #134

Good article - and just for the record, most of us middle-aged men have exactly the same priorities. klook Jul 2014 #135

Am I the only one who is a little suprised that "how fuckable" one is, is even ON a mind? the_working_poor Jul 2014 #149

it is a womans fault addressing the misogyny cause that makes her a misandrist? lol. seabeyond Jul 2014 #150

sadly, this is the kind of response i've come to expect from you the_working_poor Jul 2014 #151

you see misandry, and a tad bit of misogyny. expect from me? man hating? seabeyond Jul 2014 #152

and this will be the last we speak the_working_poor Jul 2014 #154

It is well and good we are on the same side. 4 months in you call me a man hater. It doesn't sound seabeyond Jul 2014 #155

4 months on. i asked a question. and you choose to call me a man hater. i am the problem? seabeyond Jul 2014 #153