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In reply to the discussion: Why Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned is sexist [View all]sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)83. I know, never give anyone that kind of power over you, imo. I am shocked at
how we are being asked to do so when we have the tools to do the exact opposite. I will say it again, women are strong and capable of handling ignorant morons, they are not children, you are so right Polly. AND it appears that if a woman dares to hold a different opinion she is somehow portrayed as the enemy.
Thankfully this seems to be confined to the internet because the women I know in RL are way stronger than this image that is being pushed online. I don't know where it came from. But it is harmful to the women's movement and gives fodder to the Limbaughs of the world who jump all over this kind of thing and use it to portray feminists as people who want to control even how people speak. It's a shame really.
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I just don't know why anyone would bother. You'd think they'd have better things to do
nomorenomore08
Jul 2014
#10
It's almost like a reflex. Responding to a certain subject with defensiveness every. single. time.
nomorenomore08
Jul 2014
#14
"It seems obvious to me in the same way that "Muslims don't renounce terrorism" is obvious."
redqueen
Jul 2014
#20
I don't agree with you, as a woman. And as a woman, I acknowledge the right of others to disagree
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#21
You are expressing YOUR opinion of what someone means when they use the phrase.
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#31
Um, did you mean to direct that question to those who ARE stating that the opinions of others
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#82
I think you just contradicted yourself. Didn't YOU just accuse ME, wrongfully as I pointed out
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#105
That's your opinion, which you're entitle to, no matter how wrong you are in MY equally
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#109
It is someone's perception of why a particular person does not understand how others see things
intaglio
Jul 2014
#280
I don't care about being attacked, just to be clear, that has never stopped me from stating my
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#254
Are there any posts of yours in this thread containing more than seven pronouns?
NCTraveler
Jul 2014
#258
Of course, my posts contain plenty of pronouns, but they are usually descriptive
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#259
then why is it such a joke, a giggle, a chuckle for men? wink wink. jab in rib. ha ha. nt
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#151
oh. ya right. you think you are pulling the wool over the mens eyes. so as they insult you.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#166
because this notion that women are all that in irrational and emotional doesnt effect our real life
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#187
every one of your posts starts, woman here, and no misogyny or sexism at all. really. every one.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#37
right sabrina. that is the point. i object to women declaring their gender. you got me.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#39
They don't speak for all women due to the fact that women like me among others
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#121
Thank you Robin. I believe the objection to a woman who disagrees with the supposed status quo
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#193
I respect you too and enjoy your posts. We simply disagree on this. I am fully aware
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#97
There are no insults in that post, unless you want there to be. Someone disagreeing with you is
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#118
Don't try to conflate these two issues, they are entirely separate which several
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#232
excellent post, queen. i have not delved in this thread, but, i would make your point. looking at
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#143
If it isn't offensive, it ought to be. How a person reacts to rejection is a matter of personality,
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#49
Quotes from anonymous, ignorant people on the internet have zero effect on me. Is there some
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#76
Goodie for you. Black people are lazy. Mexicans are dirty. Women are irrational.
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#131
That is your opinion and to you it makes sense. I respect that. Mine happens to be different.
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#164
you call women weak and victims if they speak out. now, you are calling women bullies if they speak
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#168
You blamed women on du for not participating in discussions about women's issues. 3 groups we do not
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#274
no sabrina. you are not respectful. that is the problem. not even a little. your posts of full
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#283
Disagreeing with someone, stating a difference opinion, is not disrespectful.
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#285
but you do ascribe nefarious motive to those that disagree with you and you do repeatedly
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#286
Well, if you had asked me sooner, I would have done it, as a woman, just for you.
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#112
They are not being admonished for saying they ARE woman. They are being admonished
jeff47
Jul 2014
#114
How dare you accuse me of using my gender as a shield. I should alert on this
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#116
Your comments to me as a woman here are sexist. You are using that old 'shame on you' routine
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#120
You have done worse than tell me I have no right to an opinion, you have deliberatley
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#124
uh oh. i think she is making all women look weak and i think we are suppose to get pissed about it.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#147
The nice thing about a message board is it's impossible to mischaracterize an argument
jeff47
Jul 2014
#175
I'm truly sorry that there are actually people here who are offended by a woman stating
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#186
Sure it is, it's about women who don't bow down to bullying and most people here know it
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#217
omg... sabrina. go up adn read those posts, right above that you just posted. i cannot
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#146
ya know. now we are pretending that the conditioned belief that women are emotional and irrational
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#188
bully for you lauren. terrible affront? hardly. do not make more of it than what it is.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#221
i will say once then out of here. we are discussing a term, coined long ago when women were property
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#224
hog wild as in.... last word. i would not be back in but feels like i am being set up for hides so,
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#240
tsk tsk... how dare? isnt that showing weakens? you are singlehadnedly taking down all women with
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#145
It isn't. It's an opinion, and we are all entitled to opinions. I do not find it sexist, as a matter
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#22
so then it's opinion that Muslims have a predilection for terrorism and generally don't condemn it?
cali
Jul 2014
#32
Why do you assume that 'scorn' always relates to men when it comes to women? Women
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#33
The quote is used for many different reasons in today's world. Personally I don't care much how
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#73
When women speak out to say you are not going to speak to me like that, you are not going
seaglass
Jul 2014
#141
men say that as a jab at women, for a little chuckle. we are bascially being told, the strong woman
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#148
He's dead, it's literature. And I like that women can be viewed as forces to be
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#255
when men are laughing their ass off at you, to your face, pretty well know it is not a compliment.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#290
It just doesn't offend most women, sorry you are upset over that. And yes, I will use every tool
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#296
When a women uses it, they are defining THEMSELVES as irrational and vengeful because that is
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#299
I've gone very far with it and find that when you take the power away from those who
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#310
you do allow others power if you behave in a poor manner just to try to get something over them.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#311
That's confusing. To me, those behaving in a poor manner are those trying to insult
sabrina 1
Jul 2014
#315
Thank you. It is often used as an insult because it perpetuates the stereotype that women do not
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#297
supposedly, i think the argument is, we are that and we need to use it as a tool to be strong,
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#298
I don't get it either. Defining women as irrationally violent with rage when they are rejected IS
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#301
i do not see it as... lol. for sure. lol. ah ha. i am glad some are interpreting
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#303
it's about how women cannot act rationally in the face of rejection from a man. how is that NOT
cali
Jul 2014
#27
I can't agree. I think the general sense of the phrase in context and as it's been historicallly
cali
Jul 2014
#34
It is stupid. Why do we hear so much about men murdering the women who try to divorce/leave them,
smirkymonkey
Jul 2014
#55
here is another that goes along what you say, woman scorned. all women are liars.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#28
My wife actually uses that phrase (not about me, but herself). We have a bit
madinmaryland
Jul 2014
#35
lol. that woman? i would have called her stupid. that was all she was to me. stupid.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#44
challenge the democratic administration to your free speech of rw talking points. i dare you.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#190
"this site shackles free speech and free thought." challenge the democratic administration to your
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#213
you are yelling about your free speech being shackled. oh the outrage. so, tell skinner not being
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#215
Claiming that a quote from an significant playwright or author renders it harmless
intaglio
Jul 2014
#47
bah hahahaha. it is a guy thing you all. you know, sexist shit. just a guy thing. lol. nt
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#60
more men murder women when scorned. few women do shit when scorned, besides leave. it is bullshit,
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#62
all you are doing is saying, regardless how clearly it is misogyny, so the fuck what. men will
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#68
You might get onto gman about it since he was the one to say it. But, thanks for
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#71
When they're really really really really pissed, at least in my experience. Much more pissed than
Gman
Jul 2014
#84
So did he get a piece of pizza or did he get the whole damn thing? Edit for never mind. :) I
lonestarnot
Jul 2014
#91
glad the troll was banned; however, I agree with others who disagree with your framing
ecstatic
Jul 2014
#133
I think this is one of those old world phrases that is not going away as fast as some others
liberal N proud
Jul 2014
#152
absolutely. it is merely the progression beyond the racism, sexism adn homophobia. and no, they
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#153
You haven't made your case. This reads more like an after-the-fact rationalization. nt
Romulox
Jul 2014
#155
I would bet the vast majority of people, DU or not, view that phrase as a compliment to women.
ieoeja
Jul 2014
#162
some people actually raise an issue to be thought about and discussed. you go right into insult.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#192
my personal issues are not in play unless you plan on creating that. wtf? so, you are saying
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#200
that is all i have read from you. you are the one advocating and doing. so, ok. ya... whatever.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#203
but see. thinking about it was all this was about. the insutls and accusations, simply
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#191
yes. and it was an interesting read how you processed thought on the subject.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#196
i was thinking about htis. a man murdering his wife, cause he is scorned. how would that play....
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#194
If a Woman tells me, a man, something is sexist or misogynist, then that is that...they know.
randys1
Jul 2014
#201
And . . . if another woman tells you, a man, the SAME something is NOT sexist . . .
Petrushka
Jul 2014
#206
So you agree than women are more prone than men to react with irrational rage when scorned?
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#302
You know, I think this a millennial problem - we are supposed to throw out each and every word or
Hestia
Jul 2014
#218
As a woman, I loathe the idea that sexism/misogyny is the ONLY form of bigotry that we should ignore
redqueen
Jul 2014
#223
They're using it in exactly the same context that AAO used it in, that cali and you complained about
muriel_volestrangler
Jul 2014
#281
firstly, if i am "scorned" i walk. fury does not even have a place. so no. i wont own it.
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#249
golly gee. feminists talk about the bible? religion? geeez, why didnt feminists EVER
seabeyond
Jul 2014
#312