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Chan790

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82. A friendly heads-up...

Fri Jul 18, 2014, 06:48 PM

Jul 2014

you may want to edit the post to use another word than even the altered form of "b_tch" as it's likely to be alerted on, it's a fairly-established no-no here unless its use is necessary by some circumstance rendering it unavoidable. The same is true of "c_nt", other misogynistic slurs and any homophobic slur. (Not that you used a homophobic slur but I figured if I was pointing out the issues with verbiage, I should cover it all.)

(I'm not going to alert. You're new here, but I felt it should be noted so you could edit.)

If you're looking for a situational-appropriate replacement word, "pedophile asshole" would pass muster. Nobody is likely to dispute that he is or be offended by its use.

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Mugshot of guy caught sexually abusing an 11 year old boy--after dad got done with him [View all] WI_DEM Jul 2014 OP

Please add Graphic to your thread title. Thank you uppityperson Jul 2014 #1

I gathered from the Title what I was expecting to see, but ok. Dustlawyer Jul 2014 #36

The thread title should have a warning - REVENGE PORN! SecularMotion Jul 2014 #47

And here I thought it was saint-like restraint. aikoaiko Jul 2014 #89

Me too. He'd look a lot worse if it was my kid. Scuba Jul 2014 #100

i think that was completely obvious... lame54 Jul 2014 #64

Works for me. 11 Bravo Jul 2014 #2

Good job dad Politicalboi Jul 2014 #3

I'm sure some will criticize LordGlenconner Jul 2014 #4

I am glad the dad did not kill him and ruin another life, his own! Dustlawyer Jul 2014 #38

Florida and stand your ground d_r Jul 2014 #86

[insert standing ovation here] conservaphobe Jul 2014 #5

Alright by me Tetris_Iguana Jul 2014 #6

That was one of the things that bothered me d_r Jul 2014 #87

And the f-words I have to give Aerows Jul 2014 #7

Good job Dad backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #8

Same here. LuvNewcastle Jul 2014 #29

I admire his restraint. nt DisgustipatedinCA Jul 2014 #9

I hope he didn't hurt his hand Aerows Jul 2014 #11

Me too, Aerows. That would be a tragedy. LuvNewcastle Jul 2014 #32

No kidding. nt Xipe Totec Jul 2014 #13

My bet: Volusia Co. grand jury will no-bill the dad. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #10

Cops wouldn't arrest him. MohRokTah Jul 2014 #14

If THEY don't, jury nullification is in the cards at trial. nt stevenleser Jul 2014 #15

agreed nt steve2470 Jul 2014 #26

Dad wasn't charged with anything, so no grand jury. LisaL Jul 2014 #70

I'm allowing some latitude. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #104

I'd Rec this if it had a GRAPHIC warning. MohRokTah Jul 2014 #12

The subject line informed me that the image would be graphic. The word "graphic" alfredo Jul 2014 #44

I hope you meant to add a sarcasm sign 2pooped2pop Jul 2014 #53

I thought about the title, didn't alert MohRokTah Jul 2014 #56

must be me 2pooped2pop Jul 2014 #60

Don't know many people with PTSD, eh? MohRokTah Jul 2014 #61

yeah but they know how to read 2pooped2pop Jul 2014 #65

I know too many who might still click on this thread. MohRokTah Jul 2014 #67

right, it's a huge issue 2pooped2pop Jul 2014 #68

I'm not sure a Graphic tag will fit. Chan790 Jul 2014 #76

Good idea! eom MohRokTah Jul 2014 #81

Seriously? nt mimi85 Jul 2014 #90

"after dad got done with him" = GRAPHIC ChisolmTrailDem Jul 2014 #95

I know too many people that wouldn't get that. eom MohRokTah Jul 2014 #96

Maybe those folks customerserviceguy Jul 2014 #103

Works for me! zappaman Jul 2014 #16

Lucky this guy didnt have a gun on him davidn3600 Jul 2014 #17

really? your posts are truly amazing. and here a scum bag is raping a kid, and this is your comment seabeyond Jul 2014 #20

I think he is referring to the father Skittles Jul 2014 #28

i think he was referrring to the rapist. would be interesting for him to clarify. seabeyond Jul 2014 #40

I think Skittles is right BainsBane Jul 2014 #41

Actually now that I think about it...could be true for either one davidn3600 Jul 2014 #46

Being on the receiving end of edgineered Jul 2014 #63

ahhhh. lol. seabeyond Jul 2014 #71

Isn't it a good thing the rapist didn't shoot and kill the dad? pnwmom Jul 2014 #98

no. you do not get what i am saying pn. seabeyond Jul 2014 #99

A beer awaits you in Michigan, sir. Barack_America Jul 2014 #18

Not generally a fan of vigilante justice, but this looks righteous to me. GoneOffShore Jul 2014 #19

Catching him in the act kinda takes the edge off for me too. arcane1 Jul 2014 #30

Vigilante justice is premeditated, the father acted in the heat of the moment. alfredo Jul 2014 #45

Very important distinction. n/t nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #57

That jerk is lucky Lithos Jul 2014 #21

This guy is going to have to be put in protective custody in prison.... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2014 #22

Bravo to the Dad for his restraint... tallahasseedem Jul 2014 #23

This message was self-deleted by its author steve2470 Jul 2014 #24

I would like to pretend I am above that (I am ALMOST ALWAYS) etherealtruth Jul 2014 #25

ANY child Aerows Jul 2014 #31

You are right etherealtruth Jul 2014 #33

Two thumbs up to Dad! BillZBubb Jul 2014 #27

The teenager should be happy the dad did not kill him. nt. Rex Jul 2014 #34

Probably got more of the same when he got to the jail. lpbk2713 Jul 2014 #35

As a father I would have done the same thing; however.. the_sly_pig Jul 2014 #37

He was defending his family from an intruder. I don't think a jury would convict. alfredo Jul 2014 #48

Not every violent interaction requires arrest or being charged... All_Corners Jul 2014 #62

"on its face". Heh. n/t eggplant Jul 2014 #74

Funny without trying... All_Corners Jul 2014 #83

Dad isn't being charged with anything. LisaL Jul 2014 #75

You can bet the suspect is never going to forget this crime. Historic NY Jul 2014 #39

I bet he won't do that again. Throd Jul 2014 #42

Not sure I would have called the cops. AngryAmish Jul 2014 #43

A large percentage of prisoners were victims of abuse as children. alfredo Jul 2014 #51

Then what I would do then would be a mercy AngryAmish Jul 2014 #97

Good! butterfly77 Jul 2014 #49

If we could rely on courts to deal appropriately with rapists BainsBane Jul 2014 #50

Sure if the police caught the guy first, don't think there is a father alive dilby Jul 2014 #52

There definitely are fathers who wouldn't do this BainsBane Jul 2014 #55

... nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #59

the father is also lucky that the teenager will live dembotoz Jul 2014 #54

Anyone who can read should have expected Jenoch Jul 2014 #58

No, from what has been reported, the perp is a neighbor, not a relative. LisaL Jul 2014 #69

A neighbor? Jenoch Jul 2014 #72

I guess he had them fooled. LisaL Jul 2014 #73

I get so angry when reading stories such as this. Jenoch Jul 2014 #78

son-of-a-b_tch dougg Jul 2014 #66

A friendly heads-up... Chan790 Jul 2014 #82

Very misleading title 90-percent Jul 2014 #77

Well, in the heat of the moment... Prophet 451 Jul 2014 #79

Father knows best madokie Jul 2014 #80

poor kid--I hope he gets any help and support he needs fishwax Jul 2014 #84

Where I live, when a mug shot looks like that Mr.Bill Jul 2014 #85

this is not without precedent. this fool in the OP is lucky to be alive.. frylock Jul 2014 #88

thats a good look for him d_b Jul 2014 #91

That poor child. Inkfreak Jul 2014 #92

Good, I am glad. He got what he deserved. He's lucky he's still alive. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #93

missing in picture DustyJoe Jul 2014 #94

Sounds like the kind of Dad that needs to visit a few Catholic priests. nt FoxNewsSucks Jul 2014 #101

Good Dad. 840high Jul 2014 #102

I LOVE this story. NOT that the creep raped the guy's son but... Triana Jul 2014 #105