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In reply to the discussion: Man sends wife spreadsheet detailing the times she denied him sex for the last month [View all]Ino
(3,366 posts)Here are some possible scenarios:
1. During a commercial break, he matter-of-factly says "Why don't you give Mr. Winky a kiss?"
2. While she's falling asleep, he "pulses" Mr. Winky against her, like a form of drip water torture.
3. While she IS asleep, he does the same.
4. He laughs when she says she wants more romance. That's too hard, and he shouldn't have to since they are married.
5. He prefers to sleep on the couch unless he's cold or horny. Then she comes in handy.
6. She feels like a toilet. Just something for him to "take care of his needs" in.
7. He expects to be waited on, doesn't do anything that needs to be done because he knows she will do it, takes her for granted, and she feels used physically as well.
8. He belittles her, is otherwise psychologically abusive in a million subtle ways, but expects her to want him anyway.
9. Entitlement, anyone?
10. It's the whole "I want sex. Give me sex." thing. It's not sharing, or togetherness, or making love. It's just sex. It means nothing.