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Aristus

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12. I never understood that whole 'pheromones' thing.

Wed Jul 23, 2014, 01:13 PM

Jul 2014

I don't need pheromones in order to feel attracted to a woman. Intelligence, confidence, humor, a nice smile, and yes, good grooming work just fine for me.

The "don't-wash-away-your-pheromones-or-you'll-live-a-lifetime-without-sex" thing just sounds like a bad excuse for poor personal hygiene.

A shower daily (sometimes twice), clean clothes, and good dental and excretory hygiene are all musts for me. I keep the manufacturers of "Coast" soap in business...

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Well! Smell you! closeupready Jul 2014 #3

+100 n/t whathehell Jul 2014 #26

Very clever. /nt dballance Jul 2014 #34

I agree that it's a complex pheromone thing. Although I didn't need the mental image of Napoleon Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #2

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And we need to know this because....? Gman Jul 2014 #5

As a counter-thread to the "I don't need deodorant" thread. closeupready Jul 2014 #6

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I don't smell. LWolf Jul 2014 #11

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I told him it will be his superpower some day. " etherealtruth Jul 2014 #15

Yep. LWolf Jul 2014 #17

As someone who laundry_queen Jul 2014 #20

Not to alarm you but that's worrisome. nolabear Jul 2014 #40

I have a very poor sense of smell Skittles Jul 2014 #43

I never understood that whole 'pheromones' thing. Aristus Jul 2014 #12

Me either. laundry_queen Jul 2014 #19

You make your own soap? Codeine Jul 2014 #21

I don't anymore laundry_queen Jul 2014 #23

Thank you for the link!! Codeine Jul 2014 #35

Home-made soaps sound cool! Aristus Jul 2014 #22

They are lovely laundry_queen Jul 2014 #24

Don't know about body odor... whistler162 Jul 2014 #16

isn't body odor kind of a moot point on the Internet? Ken Burch Jul 2014 #18

Not so long ago people didn't bathe much at all. Kingofalldems Jul 2014 #27

That's why smoking was so popular. defacto7 Jul 2014 #32

I must have missed a heck of a thread Peacetrain Jul 2014 #28

I also like the faintly musky smell of a man that I am attracted to. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #36

True that Peacetrain Jul 2014 #37

Oh, right - like in "Brokeback Mountain" - Gyllenhaal's character closeupready Jul 2014 #38

I think it is pretty primal.. pair bonding Peacetrain Jul 2014 #39

I sleep with my guy's shirts as well.... blueamy66 Jul 2014 #51

I hear you Peacetrain Jul 2014 #55

He works 12 hour shifts.... blueamy66 Jul 2014 #56

I love the smell of my own airpits in the morning. Lint Head Jul 2014 #29

So does this guy :-) troublesome_mind Jul 2014 #44

Italian's such an ugly language... opiate69 Jul 2014 #46

LOLOLOL! Lint Head Jul 2014 #47

I took my bath in March defacto7 Jul 2014 #30

I know someone is going to tell me, oh, so your sh** doesn't stink, lol ... but I need RKP5637 Jul 2014 #31

In the 17th century bathing was thought dangerous defacto7 Jul 2014 #33

Bathing in the wintertime was a no-no for some into the 20th century Hekate Jul 2014 #42

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I bathe daily Puzzledtraveller Jul 2014 #48

I was the first one to respond on that thread. BKH70041 Jul 2014 #49

Agreed. Someone else here stated, 'are people here really so ignorant closeupready Jul 2014 #54

Preferably unscented deodorants and antiperspirants, though. Blaukraut Jul 2014 #50

Bathing... Catherine Vincent Jul 2014 #52

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Yeah but too much "product" is as bad as sweat marions ghost Jul 2014 #57

I studied in Europe in college and people in Austria did not bathe more than once per smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #58