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55. heh, here I am, almost 35 years married to a beautiful woman
Thu Jul 24, 2014, 12:27 AM
Jul 2014

Last edited Thu Jul 24, 2014, 01:05 AM - Edit history (1)

. . . wanting so much for everyone to have the opportunity to marry; a right which was never in doubt for us.

I never even had to worry about barriers to my interracial marriage, although I can read about those barriers in history books and have the benefit of some anecdotal accounts of that discrimination. In my own life experience, issues of equality and rights were always broad concepts which centered on race, but weren't limited to that one defense.

To me, equality must be about everyone's rights, or the notion fails on its own logic. Gender rights, disabled rights, LGBT rights are all woven with the same cloth of our humanity that covered and embraced the struggle for racial equality. Equality for all is a natural expectation for me; as much as my own race demands access to the same benefits, privileges, and respect that many others may take for granted.

I am privileged to learn from folks here - expanding my own insular understanding and sensitizing me to their own expectations, and even to my own slights and misunderstandings; appreciating even the harshest criticisms I've received here.

I can't wait until the day that this injustice is relegated to the history books. It shouldn't be too much longer; even less if we all pull and push together.

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2014CV30833 ORDER Denying Stay [View all] William769 Jul 2014 OP
Nice to know that something was unstayed. Too bad no one knows what you're talking about. randome Jul 2014 #1
Marriage equality in Colorado. nt justiceischeap Jul 2014 #2
Thanks. I justassumed everyone would know what I was talking about. William769 Jul 2014 #4
Looks like, I think, that Colorado cannot make clerks stop issuing same-sex marriage licenses djean111 Jul 2014 #3
Your first thought is correct. William769 Jul 2014 #5
Thanks. Sometimes I doubt myself when something seems so clear! :-O djean111 Jul 2014 #8
Absolutely! William769 Jul 2014 #10
bravo, William bigtree Jul 2014 #6
Great news indeed! William769 Jul 2014 #7
The courts are doing the right thing with this, MineralMan Jul 2014 #9
Because we have strong allies like you. William769 Jul 2014 #11
I've been doing what I can. We succeeded in Minnesota. MineralMan Jul 2014 #12
... William769 Jul 2014 #13
K&R !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Jul 2014 #26
Kick. William769 Jul 2014 #14
Hooray! A ray of good news Glorfindel Jul 2014 #15
My pleasure. William769 Jul 2014 #16
K&R nt redqueen Jul 2014 #17
A little premature, don't you think? JackBeck Jul 2014 #18
What the fuck are you talking about? William769 Jul 2014 #19
You should subscribe to the national organizational's emails. JackBeck Jul 2014 #20
To begin with it's not my story. William769 Jul 2014 #21
Lazy posting. You didn't look for corroboration but posted anyway. JackBeck Jul 2014 #23
Here is the link with the order William769 Jul 2014 #25
I'm pretty sure I'm reading this right bigtree Jul 2014 #35
Thank you, Thank you, thamk you! William769 Jul 2014 #37
What exactly is your problem? Sissyk Jul 2014 #36
Wow. You must have a lot of time on your hands, Jack. sheshe2 Jul 2014 #29
Those who know me understand that I work full time in the the LGBT intersectionality space. JackBeck Jul 2014 #31
Well, geez...I don't know you from Adam...eom sheshe2 Jul 2014 #34
People post their opinions -- without any kind of link! -- in GD every day. greatauntoftriplets Jul 2014 #32
No kidding, greatauntoftriplets. sheshe2 Jul 2014 #38
Exactly. greatauntoftriplets Jul 2014 #39
Where are all the national marriage equality organizations' press releases supporting your post? JackBeck Jul 2014 #22
You mean like Human Rights Campaign? Starry Messenger Jul 2014 #24
LOL. Read the OP. Not the same case. JackBeck Jul 2014 #28
Is this link good enough for you. William769 Jul 2014 #30
not sure that's the same case number bigtree Jul 2014 #44
Thanks. William769 Jul 2014 #45
Congrats. Starry Messenger Jul 2014 #53
You say you are the one in the know,,,, sheshe2 Jul 2014 #40
This may make things more clear for you. herding cats Jul 2014 #42
K&R !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Jul 2014 #27
K&R Sissyk Jul 2014 #33
Kicking! sheshe2 Jul 2014 #41
The "success on the merits" part is brilliant. joshcryer Jul 2014 #43
Me... sheshe2 Jul 2014 #46
yes, sheshe2, you are so right bigtree Jul 2014 #47
You know what bigtree... sheshe2 Jul 2014 #48
heh, here I am, almost 35 years married to a beautiful woman bigtree Jul 2014 #55
Kick! n/t sheshe2 Jul 2014 #49
Again! nt sheshe2 Jul 2014 #50
K&R! hrmjustin Jul 2014 #51
Again. Another domino falls. The rest are still lined up. longship Jul 2014 #52
Hooray! Aerows Jul 2014 #54
k&r thanks for posting. nm rhett o rick Jul 2014 #56
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