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Warren DeMontague

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22. My unscientific anecdotal impression is that more people in general side towards being

Sun Jul 27, 2014, 06:30 PM

Jul 2014

Sexually submissive, than dominant.

I suspect it has to do with some or much of eroticism and really transcendent experiences in general having to do with relinquishing control and subsuming the self to something greater.

Ego loss, to look at it from a Buddhist perspective.

Problems come up for people when they convince themselves that they're not "supposed" to feel these ways. My own take is, if everyone is an adult and it is safe, sane and consensual, whatever floats yer boat.

And yes, generalizations like "all women want...." Are full of shit.

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I once tried being a bit rough during you know what... [View all] trumad Jul 2014 OP

Your Lady Wife sounds Turbineguy Jul 2014 #1

... silverweb Jul 2014 #2

lol hi5 ! nt steve2470 Jul 2014 #3

Sexuality learned in the 60's and 70's... Cooley Hurd Jul 2014 #4

I once read that women liked to be talked to during you know what... trumad Jul 2014 #6

*rimshot* Cooley Hurd Jul 2014 #7

No respect I tell ya. trumad Jul 2014 #8

I look up to her now.nt bravenak Jul 2014 #5

I like it a bit rough and I like for my husband to slap my butt. kickitup Jul 2014 #9

Great post trumad Jul 2014 #10

My unscientific anecdotal impression is that more people in general side towards being Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #22

Perhaps she prefers to be the one doing the slapping on the butt mythology Jul 2014 #11

Perhaps she thought you would *enjoy* being kneed in the nuts. Nye Bevan Jul 2014 #12

I know I do! Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #20

My guess is your wife missed reading that copy of Playboy. In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #13

+1000! Rhiannon12866 Jul 2014 #14

No surprise Playboy made a generalization about what women like treestar Jul 2014 #15

In the throes of, um DiverDave Jul 2014 #16

LOL trumad Jul 2014 #26

You are married to Skittles?? Ordering up an asskicking for trumad! madinmaryland Jul 2014 #17

It's the original power couple. Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #23

This is the only Thread on the topic so far, ismnotwasm Jul 2014 #18

first one I wanted to even open DiverDave Jul 2014 #28

The sooner the better ismnotwasm Jul 2014 #29

She kneed you in the nuts so hard they turned black and blue? Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #19

I tried getting very rough once but the next day my hand was full of blisters. BlueJazz Jul 2014 #21

! Kali Jul 2014 #24

Well, that was stupid, wasn't it? sibelian Jul 2014 #25

DA taterguy Jul 2014 #27