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ColesCountyDem

(6,944 posts)
Sun Aug 3, 2014, 08:38 PM Aug 2014

This is very difficult to admit, but I'm facing homelessness, and I need your help. [View all]

As some you will recall, I was laid off two years ago when my job was outsourced. Although I did receive unemployment and extended unemployment, those benefits ended. I've desperately and diligently searched for work, but to no avail. Unfortunately, I am in the 'over 50 and over-qualified' niche so many of us in our mid-50's find ourselves.

I've recently been diagnosed with some significant, long-term health issues in addition to those I already have, and that has forced me to cease looking for work and to apply for Social Security disability. I have employed an attorney to assist me, and he is confident that my application will be approved, although it will likely take 8-10 months before that happens.

In the mean time, my total monthly income consists of a Link (SNAP) card, Medicaid and a $125/month cash grant from my township government. I cashed in my only 'savings' this past spring-- my small life insurance policy-- and was using that money to cover monthly expenses. With the death of my son on June 8th, I spent most of the remaining balance for his cremation and inurment. As of Friday, I spent the last $400 cash I had to pay my rent, and I'm now dead broke and looking homelessness squarely in the face.

If you could see your way to help me 'bridge' my finances between now and when my SS disability is approved, I would greatly appreciate it. Even small amounts will add up. I have both a GoFundMe account and a PayPal account. My GoFundme page is here:

http://www.gofundme.com/cip3vw

I can provide you with my PayPal account information, if you will inbox me here.

Thanking you in advance for your generosity, I am,

-- Bob (ColesCountyDem).


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I don't have any cash to spare, but I can give you a rec. winter is coming Aug 2014 #1
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #2
I wonder where our Wish a Doo person went. grasswire Aug 2014 #3
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #4
my wife knows her JanMichael Aug 2014 #5
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #7
Posted on the wishadoo FB page JanMichael Aug 2014 #22
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #51
wishadoo is on facebook Voice for Peace Aug 2014 #61
Hi, grasswire...Wishadoo person here :) OneGrassRoot Aug 2014 #208
It's not much, but when I was a single mother, I was nearly in your shoes once. Rozlee Aug 2014 #6
I firmly believe they will, and thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #9
kick too, and hope the lawyer doen't charge too much. Sorry to hear about your son. nt AnotherDreamWeaver Aug 2014 #8
His percentage is fixed by statute, and thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #10
Bob, I sent a donation your way. I hope things turn LibDemAlways Aug 2014 #11
Thank you so very much! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #13
Hi ColesCountyDem. pinto Aug 2014 #12
Attorneys are paid by Social Security when application/appeal approved Sienna86 Aug 2014 #15
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #17
No. SSA takes the attorney fees out of a recipient's benefit. There's a cap, but that's how it works pinto Aug 2014 #27
I think the person meant that the attorney wasn't being paid out of his right now limited funds dsc Aug 2014 #79
Exactly. Thanks. Sienna86 Aug 2014 #87
Ah, yeah. Good clarification. pinto Aug 2014 #94
It's 25% of Back Benefits and it's a capped at $6000.00 if there is only one hearing. mackerel Aug 2014 #97
And since the attorney gets 25% of back benefits, the longer it takes for a case to be allowed, the kath Aug 2014 #147
Very few attorneys take the cases at the Appeals Level. It is much harder to prove at that mackerel Aug 2014 #166
My wife's disability was approved in a matter of weeks Mr.Bill Aug 2014 #173
That was also the case of a friend of mine. Doremus Aug 2014 #195
Thanks for the info! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #16
Cool. Sounds like you have some good resources and professional informed advice. Best of luck. pinto Aug 2014 #21
Yes, nearly everyone is rejected in the first go around. eggplant Aug 2014 #24
That is true and as an ALJ I would trust his opinion. Evidence is key. mackerel Aug 2014 #98
Yes, evidence is key. The initial decision is based on MEDICAL (&/or psychological) EVIDENCE kath Aug 2014 #103
The thing that helps with an attorney is collecting medical evidence and mackerel Aug 2014 #106
many cases are turned down (NOT 90%, by any means) for reasons such as people not understanding that kath Aug 2014 #109
Thank you for explaining this. SheilaT Aug 2014 #176
2nd, 3rd, and 4th this. documentation is absolutely key. kath Aug 2014 #93
+1 pinto Aug 2014 #95
Pertaining to what I posted above, here is a useful link: kath Aug 2014 #101
Do NOT do it without a lawyer who knows what s/he's doing. Borchkins Aug 2014 #161
i'm sorry for this JI7 Aug 2014 #14
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #19
The sum is growing for you. karenmamo Aug 2014 #100
Welcome to DU, karenmamo! calimary Aug 2014 #174
CCD, please check into what is called a compassionate waiver if you can get one. freshwest Aug 2014 #18
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #20
When I deposit my check tomorrow, I will. Hang in there, honey. You are loved. roguevalley Aug 2014 #23
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #26
Contact Catholic Charities. It's what they do. Lochloosa Aug 2014 #25
Will do! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #29
Done! Suich Aug 2014 #28
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #34
Is there a St. Vincent dePaul society in your area? No Vested Interest Aug 2014 #108
I would pay using PayPal. trueblue2007 Aug 2014 #30
done Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #31
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #38
watched the total jump from 200 to over 1000. wow Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #65
It's absolutely amazing! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #67
I was helping out a friend north of the border PatrynXX Aug 2014 #32
It's OK, really! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #40
$515 so far in 2 hours Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #33
I'm in shock-- pleasantly so, but still in shock! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #41
Such a World in love with you . . . another_liberal Aug 2014 #35
Best of luck on this. SheilaT Aug 2014 #36
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #42
Done trashcanistanista Aug 2014 #37
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #43
Wish it could have been more, Bob. WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2014 #39
Thank you so very much! It's scary. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #44
from 705 to 815 in the 2 minutes or so magical thyme Aug 2014 #45
A friend just now gave me a link to petfoodstamps.com, and I'm going to apply. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #47
do you have pets JanMichael Aug 2014 #60
Just donated on the Go Fund Me Page whathehell Aug 2014 #46
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #49
You're welcome..Glad to be in a position to help. whathehell Aug 2014 #53
K&R and donated to gofundme. DesertFlower Aug 2014 #48
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #50
K & R AzDar Aug 2014 #52
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #55
Whoot, whoot!! WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2014 #54
I'm amazed! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #59
Excellent! WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2014 #72
so am i. DesertFlower Aug 2014 #68
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #73
Count me in customerserviceguy Aug 2014 #56
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #62
Kick for visibility... MrMickeysMom Aug 2014 #57
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #63
Sent a little. Sorry to hear things are going so badly for you. Let's watch the total grow! Shrike47 Aug 2014 #58
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #64
K/R NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #66
Very true, and thank you for the K&R! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #69
Have you looked into SSI until your SSD is approved? passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #70
I'll ask my attorney. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #71
Much luck to you...I'm so glad the donations are coming in passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #74
Hope and hugs help, too! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #75
Here is a web link about SSI passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #77
Thank you for the link! IL has it, apparently. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #78
K&R nt TBF Aug 2014 #76
k&r nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #80
K&R. TexasTowelie Aug 2014 #81
Can you PM me for PayPal? AllyCat Aug 2014 #82
A kick catchnrelease Aug 2014 #83
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #114
Hugs shenmue Aug 2014 #84
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #115
Kick so those who can help financially will see this. JimDandy Aug 2014 #85
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #116
what wonderful people to do this - this is very touching leftyohiolib Aug 2014 #86
I'm amazed! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #117
please send paypal info. So sorry about your son and your situation. bbgrunt Aug 2014 #88
This could be any of us... Moral Compass Aug 2014 #89
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #118
Hey Bob. stage left Aug 2014 #90
Donated what I could... LovingA2andMI Aug 2014 #91
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #119
Kick! Suich Aug 2014 #92
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #120
Kick. Good luck to you. Ed Suspicious Aug 2014 #96
I've been very close to your situation in the past... ekelly Aug 2014 #99
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #121
A little bit to keep the ball rolling NBachers Aug 2014 #102
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #122
At $1600 now. Let's keep this kicked. nt tblue37 Aug 2014 #104
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #123
Sent a bit your way. Hope it helps. ((HUG)) nt Mojorabbit Aug 2014 #105
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #124
Marking to donate tomorrow Beaverhausen Aug 2014 #107
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #125
another kick ! nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #110
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #127
Damn.. I'm so sad to hear this, CCD! I wish I Cha Aug 2014 #111
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #128
Good! Cha Aug 2014 #134
Small donation on the way. Enthusiast Aug 2014 #112
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #130
Done! mnhtnbb Aug 2014 #113
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #131
every little bit helps Susieville Aug 2014 #126
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #132
After get finances set right, one solution Shenonymous Aug 2014 #129
Third-generation 'yellow dog' Democrat here! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #133
Too broke to contribute, but here is a kick. riqster Aug 2014 #135
Thank you! Visibility helps, too. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #136
I hope so. riqster Aug 2014 #138
With winter not far off, that was the most frightening thought. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #142
DONE! n/t doxydad Aug 2014 #137
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #148
kick nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #139
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #149
Kick, kick, kick!!! Heidi Aug 2014 #140
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #151
Done! (kick) coffeenap Aug 2014 #141
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #152
Just tacked on a bit to your total njlib Aug 2014 #143
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #153
Done MaggieD Aug 2014 #144
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #154
Kick! raouldukelives Aug 2014 #145
Thank you, and bless you for helping your friend! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #155
I pitched in a bit n/t Narkos Aug 2014 #146
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #156
k&r. Sent a bit through gofundme. misterhighwasted Aug 2014 #150
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #157
That my dear is the human spirit. It is a remarkable thing isn't it! misterhighwasted Aug 2014 #159
Another site w/ info about the SS Disabilty process: kath Aug 2014 #158
Btw those of you who are filing and submit med records yourself, be sure to mackerel Aug 2014 #170
Why the "inadvertently" always in quotes? So DDS workers deliberately sabotage the processing of kath Aug 2014 #172
They actually write this in their letters and their responses. mackerel Aug 2014 #175
kick! eShirl Aug 2014 #160
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #181
Helped a small bit. Granny M Aug 2014 #162
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #182
I wish I could do more but I just lost my job too. TheKentuckian Aug 2014 #163
sorry to hear that. hope you are employed again soon Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #168
Thanks! It gets old having to reboot and rebuild all the time but it is what it is TheKentuckian Aug 2014 #171
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #183
Thanks! My best to you and yours. TheKentuckian Aug 2014 #193
Done. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Aug 2014 #164
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #184
I did what I could right now dbackjon Aug 2014 #165
Thank you! it's scary as all get out-- believe me. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #185
Done! AZ_lurker Aug 2014 #167
Done! (yikes)... AZ_lurker Aug 2014 #169
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #186
FYI a2liberal Aug 2014 #197
Done :) DonnaM Aug 2014 #177
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #187
How is the PayPal side of this doing? Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #178
The last time I checked... ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #188
I donated what I could TBF Aug 2014 #179
Thank you. I'm half the way there, when PayPal is added to the GoFundMe account. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #189
I was poor once MaggieD Aug 2014 #199
I grew up poor as well - TBF Aug 2014 #201
Kick daschess1987 Aug 2014 #180
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #190
kick again nt grasswire Aug 2014 #191
Hello, grasswire. I have not seen any posts from you recently, and I tblue37 Aug 2014 #249
Get ready to catch PuraVidaDreamin Aug 2014 #192
I caught it! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #211
Donation made, and a wish for a good outcome for you from a fellow Dem in Chicago. ancianita Aug 2014 #194
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #212
Kick. Threads like this are why I love DU. n/t winter is coming Aug 2014 #196
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #213
Woohoo! You're $5.00 away from $3000! sufrommich Aug 2014 #198
It feels like the weight of the world is being lifted off of my shoulders! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #214
Glad to help a bit A HERETIC I AM Aug 2014 #200
$3,015 Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #202
now 80 doners Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #206
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #215
glad to help deek Aug 2014 #203
I wanted to let you know I just donated kentauros Aug 2014 #204
Thank you, and I will do so! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #216
ColesCountyDem, my heart is with you. lovemydog Aug 2014 #205
It will be both, and thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #218
This breaks my heart and I wish I had more to give, but if we all give a little ...... n/t auntAgonist Aug 2014 #207
A lot of us are in the same boat, or one paycheck away, sadly. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #219
K&R auntAgonist Aug 2014 #209
Thank you again! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #220
You are welcome. I wish I had more to donate than I did but I hope it helps a bit. n/t auntAgonist Aug 2014 #234
K&R Granny M Aug 2014 #210
Thank you for helping with that effort! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #221
kick nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #217
kick nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #222
Kick Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #223
K&R pintobean Aug 2014 #224
chipped in a little nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #225
Kick, because you are still more than $2000 short, tblue37 Aug 2014 #226
What thread? Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #233
Thank you for the kick! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #236
K&R! Made a donation and wishing you all the best! Rhiannon12866 Aug 2014 #227
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #237
You're more than welcome... Rhiannon12866 Aug 2014 #242
Let's keep this at the top. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Aug 2014 #228
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #239
I just checked back catchnrelease Aug 2014 #229
Isn't it amazing? ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #238
kick nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #230
Two-thirds of the way there. Kick! nt Granny M Aug 2014 #231
kick Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #232
Thank you both! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #240
Will contribute via Paypal... GreenEyedLefty Aug 2014 #235
Jus sent it. Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #241
Kick Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #243
what is the status of your campaign ? nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #244
$4083 donated. he asked for $6000 Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #245
ok maybe within a week or so he can complete it ! nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #246
Tote board says.... Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #247
Isn't that incredible? ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #248
What is the PayPal total so far? Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #250
$340. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #251
So after all the fees.... Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #252
Correct, OS. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #253
We are not there yet Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #254
Thank you both so much! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #258
Kick Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #255
cannot help, but can help keep this kicked for you. niyad Aug 2014 #256
Thank you! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #257
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