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15. No, Sir, In This Context I Do Not Agree

Mon Aug 4, 2014, 11:38 AM

Aug 2014

A foolish question deserves a flip answer, and in this instance the flip answer is quite correct.

The term has both a colloquial and a legal meaning, and it is obvious the former was meant here, since there is no case on record where a single instance of saying 'you are attractive' to a stranger has been prosecuted as crime, or served as basis for a successful civil suit, and yet it is abundantly evident that many women consider themselves harassed by comments strangers direct at their appearance which they overhear. Some women may enjoy hearing such a statement, depending on how it is couched and in what circumstances, however, and so there is no way a person overheard making such a comment could know if it was taken as harassment or not except to ask her....

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That is sexual harrassment? oberliner Aug 2014 #1

OMG I know right? redqueen Aug 2014 #2

I am just asking if that is sexual harrassment oberliner Aug 2014 #3

You Would Have To Ask Her, Sir.... The Magistrate Aug 2014 #4

OK oberliner Aug 2014 #9

Hmm ... Laelth Aug 2014 #11

No, Sir, In This Context I Do Not Agree The Magistrate Aug 2014 #15

Correct me if I'm wrong oberliner Aug 2014 #17

I Would Consider The Reaction Of The Person Addressed The Most Important Factor, Sir The Magistrate Aug 2014 #19

The content of what is actually said is not the most important factor? oberliner Aug 2014 #27

The Term You Are Looking For, Sir, Is 'Situational Awareness' The Magistrate Aug 2014 #29

We are in dangerous territory here. Laelth Aug 2014 #18

Only If One Is Trying To Be Deliberately Obtuse And 'Stir The Shit', Sir The Magistrate Aug 2014 #21

I agree with your description(s). Laelth Aug 2014 #31

Well, let's consider the "Minnesota chicks are hot" comment on its face. calimary Aug 2014 #14

Thanks for the response oberliner Aug 2014 #16

Thank you. It's amazing to me how much re-education is desperately needed in our society. calimary Aug 2014 #26

That YouTube site has many similar videos oberliner Aug 2014 #28

"I'm just asking..." chervilant Aug 2014 #7

It's depressing, in these discussions, redqueen Aug 2014 #34

Seriously?!? chervilant Aug 2014 #5

OK, sorry oberliner Aug 2014 #8

If you're asking in good faith, chervilant Aug 2014 #12

I consider myself a feminist oberliner Aug 2014 #13

The rules of the work environment apparently apply to everyone, everywhere, at all times. Dreamer Tatum Aug 2014 #20

I can see already chervilant Aug 2014 #6

No offense meant oberliner Aug 2014 #10

A gentle question back to you - calimary Aug 2014 #22

I get where you are coming from oberliner Aug 2014 #23

Good post. laundry_queen Aug 2014 #41

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This message was self-deleted by its author Courtesy Flush Aug 2014 #25

Are you a woman? Have you ever walked down the street and just *knew* that if you Sheldon Cooper Aug 2014 #30

My cell phone has video capability. I thought most of them do, at this point. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #32

Unfortunate. And true. And DAMN TIRESOME. calimary Aug 2014 #33

This message was self-deleted by its author Courtesy Flush Aug 2014 #35

The fuck are you going on about, Courtesy Flush? Sheldon Cooper Aug 2014 #36

This message was self-deleted by its author Courtesy Flush Aug 2014 #37

lol! Sheldon Cooper Aug 2014 #38

This message was self-deleted by its author Courtesy Flush Aug 2014 #39

I wish she had these idiots on video and posted it on you tube! nt Logical Aug 2014 #40