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In reply to the discussion: Why does Belle Knox consider herself a feminist? [View all]Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)101. "you mean...." you do realize, there, you did it again?
I'm sorry, I've mostly said my piece. When I say what I think, I'm "mocking". Again, you don't like what I have to say, so you either have to get indignant about the way I say it, or you try to pretend I'm saying something I'm not.
But I'll respond to a few points herein;
"Raise the standard of living. Right. Like when is that going to happen?"
I don't know. I do know that "livable minimum wage" has gone from far left pipe dream to concrete policy proposal in some cities, in recent years. That's something.
When is prostitution going to be done away with? It's already illegal. And 5 minutes after "mocking" my argument, you suggest that economics in Cuba - although I have to imagine you recognize that Cuba under Castro might not be the best example - had the same effect for the poor there.
"That you say it is enough to..."
And again, followed by something I didn't say.
I don't for a minute think the people who see commodification of sex as sacrosanct want that to go away.
- well, next time I run into someone who 'sees commodification of sex as sacrosanct', I'll ask them. Personally, what I see as sacrosact is the right of consenting adults to make their own damn decisions about their own damn bodies. Maybe that's airy, imaginary theory, but that's the ONLY point I'm making. THANK YOU for saying I can "talk about adult consensual behavior all (I) want", because that's what I'm doing and I'm going to continue to do, whether or not it bugs you. Sorry.
A great deal of prostitution is of underage girls and boys. Many if not most prostitutes start underage.
I've made two, as near as I can count, points about prostitution- one is, I'm not some diehard legalization advocate, in fact I don't know what the answer is-- except, like I said, I think raising standards of living, livable min. wage, etc. would go a long way towards ameliorating the conditions which drive a great deal of economically desperate behavior, not just prostitution.. and two, again, if one wants to compare the mostly legal status of porn in the US with the mostly illegal status of prostitution-- like it or not, the US adult film industry has extensive documentation regulations to ensure everyone is over 18. I realize that flies in the face of oft-repeated hyperbole from some corners, but it is a simple and easily verifiable fact.
You had a first hand account of that in Ism's HOF OP which you clearly made a point of ignoring.
Please explain to me how I'm ignoring it, especially since I've said repeatedly that I'm not necessarily pro-legalization, however I AM sympathetic to arguments that consenting adults should be free to make their own decisions, including economic, with their own bodies? Those two positions may have overlap, but they're not necessarily identical. As for ism's OP, are you saying you want me to come into HoF and post the same consenting adult arguments which folks there repeatedly say drive them up the wall? ....I don't imagine you do.
There is always the argument one poster made that girls as young as nine "willingly choose prostitution as a profession," which he believed made having "sex" with them consensual.
...and why that poster's opinion is my problem, is absooo-fucking-lutely beyond me.
There is no way to find a solution that minimizes harm when people adamantly ignore that harm.
Another statement that sounds legit on the surface, but doesn't, actually, mean anything. Actually, I suspect that there are plenty of ways to find a "solution", from draconian laws and mandatory minimum punishments to legalization and regulation to something else-- and none of those are incumbent upon everyone recognizing anything. They're incumbent upon society taking a different tack with a very old problem. Again, I think the solution- and it would be a solution to many problems, not just this- would best look like a livable minimum wage and a better social safety net. Strict legal punishments for anyone involved with anyone underage, which I believe is an issue which is already taken very seriously in some parts of the country, including the pacific NW which is home to both ism AND myself.
But that particular solution would not address one particular focus from your posts, namely the "ability of men to buy sex". Regardless of what I personally feel about those men- and no, it's not what you would call anything resembling respect or sympathy- the fact is, economic exchanges for sex have been around for a very long time and are not likely to go away any time soon. There are two questions, one is ostensibly moral and one is practical. One would hope that a practical solution that would improve the lives of consenting adult sex workers and protect anyone else- would be the preferable outcome, even if it meant having to deal with a world where the moral issue of "men feeling entitled to buy sex" wasn't eradicated.
I think if you were actually confident in your position on this issue, you would not feel compelled to trivialize the arguments of others. That tells me you can't deal with the arguments as actually articulated and instead feel compelled to create a parody to mock them.
I don't actually have a position, as I've said (although I have full confidence in you to tell me what my position is, anyway) ... is it "mocking" if I laugh at the irony of your second sentence, there?
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Yes, but I think you are the Queen of Bakerfield too, so that's different. Your majesty.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#37
Please note the lack of S in my Bakerfield. From one Monarch to another -
Tuesday Afternoon
Aug 2014
#64
Yes! My god, the condescending attitude towards sex workers disgusts me
freeplessinseattle
Aug 2014
#8
How are they "driven" into a job that pays well and allows them to be their own boss?
freeplessinseattle
Aug 2014
#76
Maybe she feels that women should be able to choose their paths in life
PersonNumber503602
Aug 2014
#10
Oh, probably just a bunch of people have me on ignore. I'm sure that's it. n/t
seaglass
Aug 2014
#81
If the RAH RAH PORN YAY dumbassery continues I might have to make it an OP. nt
redqueen
Aug 2014
#82
Of course, a truly empowered woman must be ashamed of her sexuality and not consume porn.
Kurska
Aug 2014
#14
Isn't like we're in a thread that questions if a woman can be a feminists who have a positive
Kurska
Aug 2014
#104
Would I need to provide you a link to the flowers when you're in the garden? n/t
Kurska
Aug 2014
#119
Right. So there is no link to a post where anyone said anything like what you describe.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#120
Got it. You can't provide a link to anyone saying anything like what you describe.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#134
So let's review the posts that say what you describe: Oh, right. There are none.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#136
Predatory Payday Lenders are fully consensual contracts between two adults.
LanternWaste
Aug 2014
#176
Yeah, cause reasonable restrictions on otherwise allowed activities (like maximum interest rate).
Kurska
Aug 2014
#182
Why do minors inevitably come up when there are discussions of pornography and prostitution here?
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#20
Bill O'Reilly uses that same argument to oppose the legalization of marijuana
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#25
Well, don't get me wrong- I think the prohibitionist/law enforcement approach to "drugs"
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#175
I don't know how we went from discussing consensual sex to a murder spree...
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#45
I've read through a few of the links and I don't see any documented evidence or proof
Yavin4
Aug 2014
#47
You still have not provided proof, just conjecture. I've found an actual study that contradicts you
Yavin4
Aug 2014
#54
because that is NOT the Discussion. Never has been. Legal, consenting, sound minded, ADULTS is NOT
Tuesday Afternoon
Aug 2014
#73
YOu are working very hard here to believe in fairy tales. I bet you believe they are working
Squinch
Aug 2014
#84
I don't necessarily oppose legalization, mind you, but there is evidence (as noted downthread)
nomorenomore08
Aug 2014
#106
Even if it's only a possibility, isn't it worth thinking about/discussing? Considering the gravity
nomorenomore08
Aug 2014
#109
If you are using your body in a performance, then it's not "selling" your body.
Yavin4
Aug 2014
#131
And the ones who insistently pretend that these facts aren't related to these industries...
redqueen
Aug 2014
#69
I can't think of lot of things that are more messed up than human trafficking...
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#59
Because people can't or wont formulate arguments against consenting adult behavior
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#87
Sort of like the single-minded determination to make arguments about consenting adults
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#96
Thanks for linking to that interview VC, it was interesting. I don't know who Stoya is but she
seaglass
Aug 2014
#115
She knows she's privileged. And she doesn't pretend that porn is feminist because she chose it.
redqueen
Aug 2014
#156
Yes, because something may be personally empowering does not mean it's empowering for women
seaglass
Aug 2014
#166
And--- again. I'm gonna point it out because I think you may genuinely not realize you're doing it.
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#141
Again, talking past each other, I'll only make three points and make them brief:
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#143
I've told you at least 7 or 8 times that you keep putting words in other people's mouths
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#147
And if the quotes meant what you are asserting they mean, then I'm calling the people who disagree
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#155
Last time I checked this is a discussion forum where people disagree all the time...
Violet_Crumble
Aug 2014
#148
The reactions of you and 2nd wavers to folks like Violet and LadyHawkAZ are interesting,
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#152
Your link YET AGAIN confirms my point. In fact, you only addressed one of my 5 main points.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#154
Why do I think being trafficked to country B is probably just as bad as country A?
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#158
No, what you are proposing does not do that. It does not limit the markets.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#160
One would imagine people are heading to CO and WA to buy pot right now, too.
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#162
That is an interesting dodge so let me give you an answer you cannot dodge.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#184
Thats not the issue. The issue is exceeding the boundaries of a studies results.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#191
I share your ambivalence, to a large extent. And I don't pretend to have definitive answers.
nomorenomore08
Aug 2014
#110
So when Icelandic pols actually did call for a ban & some people here went nuts in celebration
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#163
The dogma of Choice Feminism says any choice a woman makes MUST NOT BE CRITICIZED
redqueen
Aug 2014
#170
I wonder how the industry is surviving at the moment and competing against free
jakeXT
Aug 2014
#173
The idea that female porn performers make the most money in the industry is bullshit.
redqueen
Aug 2014
#174
All people are creatures of their society. And Western society has become pornographied.
WinkyDink
Aug 2014
#167
Did I say anything about a dress code? I said what disparate cultures want of females. The West pays
WinkyDink
Aug 2014
#185
No, what's surprising is that anyone continues to try to flog that ridiculous false equivalence.
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#186
but what about people who get off on telling other people what not to get off on?
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#187