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In reply to the discussion: Why does Belle Knox consider herself a feminist? [View all]Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)141. And--- again. I'm gonna point it out because I think you may genuinely not realize you're doing it.
You don't have a position other than mocking feminists. Understood.
That.... might have worked, if you left out the "understood". But by including it, you sealed the deal. In that, what you did was, you ascribed something to me via your own words, and then offered your assent to the thing which you yourself asserted as my position.
But again, that's something I never said. As for "mocking feminists", okay:
1) ....if my disagreeing and expressing my disagreement counts as "mocking", or my examining shoddy logic and debate tactics counts as "mocking". In that case, people mock disagreeing positions all the time here on DU, including you. I, for one, try awfully hard not to take, or make, it personal. DU would be a better place if more people were like me, oh yes indeed I think it would, and humbler too.
2) "Feminists". No, just people advancing certain points of view, who also happen to call themselves "Feminists" but by no means speak for all people who call themselves "Feminists" nor do those points of view represent the totality of "Feminist thought" on the matter. Furthermore, even "mocking" the points of view expressed is not the same thing as mocking Feminism or Feminists-in-general or even the specific people in question, see above.
you consistently refuse to deal with arguments women actually make and instead ridicule anyone who dares question your fantasy version of the sex trade.
There's not an argument, here, there's two people talking past each other. That's not an argument, even.
You do see commodification of sex as sacrosanct, as demonstrated by your adamant support for all things related to its commerce--SI and the industry of objectification, porn, and prostitution. Many here have decided anything relating to sex must never under any circumstances be questioned. Any discussion of the absence of consent, underage sex workers, child rape, or human trafficking is immediately dismissed for the absurd trope of "consenting adults."
Okay, that's a hot mess. Sports Illustrated is mostly a sports magazine. I've already said all I want to on objectification, although if someone has a more solid scientific study than the one that used upside down people in bathing suits, I'm all ears. I've also said my piece on porn versus prostitution (which I've never "supported", adamantly or otherwise) in that it appears to me that the legal and regulated status of one DOES address the question of non-adults AND non-consent, at least insofar as regulations require documentation pertaining to both, as opposed to the illegal, and unregulated, status of prostitution. The only person dismissing and pursuing absurd tropes is you, because the question of consenting adults just seems to make you mad, as if it is inconceivable, princess bride-fashion, that ANY adult could ever, under any circumstances, consent to something like taking their clothes off in front of a camera so other people could look at it.
I didn't "dismiss" those other things, in fact I addressed them by saying that a legal framework for porn in the US provides a regulatory structure within which one can ensure consent and adulthood. That doesn't mean "I think prostitution should be legal", but like I said, it's already illegal, and everyone seems to agree that whatever is being done now doesn't work as well as it ought to. How that means that I'm 'dismissing' those other things by reiterating that I think consenting adults should be free to make their own decisions about their own bodies, I don't understand. What you seem to want, here, is for anyone who says the irritating words "consenting adults" to immediately stop upon hearing the words "non-consent" and "non-adults" and go "oh, that shit about consenting adults? Forget it, what was I thinking?"
If people didn't distinguish between consent and non-consent, or adults and non-adults, they wouldn't use phrases like consenting adults.
You ignore reality and think call people irritating who care about the reality of prostitution as opposed to the theoretical notion you hold in your head. If it were just about consenting adults there would be far less concern. I know it isn't because I was at a very young age regularly targeted by Johns, as was my sister. The creepy comment by the other poster PROVES it is not just about consenting adults. Insisting otherwise is to ignore evidence--evidence I have already linked to for you multiple times.
What happened to you sucks, FWIW I am sorry you went through that- and I support vigorous law enforcement and prosecution of anyone who would, I guess proposition is probably too kind a word, children. Again, I never said I thought prostitution "should be legal", however, all the reality anecdotes that have come up, have come up under the situation as it stands currently. So again, whatever is being done, could stand some improvement, no?
As for porn, we had a thread where people discussed LA's requirement to use condemns, condemning it, and showing no concern for the lives lost as a result of their selfish desire to see porn without condemns.
I don't condom condemns. Sorry, strike that, reverse it.
Still, again, this seems sort of a funhouse mirror interpretation of what went on in that thread, the comments I recall mostly had to do with a shifting landscape for porn and the porn "industry", which like all content producers has found itself on a drastically diff. playing field due to the internet, and is likely far less geographically tied to southern CA to boot. Beyond that, again, "porn" is less a monolithic industry than a means of expression. If someone likes to watch free posted videos of, say, an exhibitionist married couple who have sex without condoms, how is that contributing to anything? Again, there are sort of broad categorizations and assumptions which maybe even applied a couple years ago, and don't now. That said, I don't recall really weighing in on the condom law one way or the other.
And Cuba most certainly is a good example for the connection between poverty and prostitution. Why wouldn't it be?
Sure, fine.
Rampant poverty under Batista was eradicated and prostitution waned to a trickle. The country lost Soviet subsidies, life got harder for ordinary Cubans, and prostitution again resurfaced. The sex trade depends on economic privation.
Which was the same point I was making about a livable minimum wage, etc.
You have an excellent sense of humor and a keen wit, but there are times where it's just not appropriate. In my view, Redqueen's thread about the porn actress (though I disagreed with parts of her argument, mainly that the woman didn't know what she personally found degrading) and that libertarian nonsense on prostitution are two such cases, unless of course your point is to appeal to the peanut gallery by ridiculing feminists.
I wouldn't bother with any of this if I didn't think you were capable of better. Perhaps I'm just wrong about that.
Well, life is too short to do things any other way, as far as I'm concerned.
As for RQ's thread, in my experience she's perfectly capable of holding her own on DU, and if she didn't want people arguing with her, she wouldn't have posted an OP that she knew would draw contentious replies, including to the more ridiculous pieces of her own wording. That thread is a glaring example of the silliness of "porn wars" on DU, right down to people offering total strangers unsolicited lectures on their masturbatory habits. Yes, I'm gonna make fun of that sort of thing. I mean, come on.
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Yes, but I think you are the Queen of Bakerfield too, so that's different. Your majesty.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#37
Please note the lack of S in my Bakerfield. From one Monarch to another -
Tuesday Afternoon
Aug 2014
#64
Yes! My god, the condescending attitude towards sex workers disgusts me
freeplessinseattle
Aug 2014
#8
How are they "driven" into a job that pays well and allows them to be their own boss?
freeplessinseattle
Aug 2014
#76
Maybe she feels that women should be able to choose their paths in life
PersonNumber503602
Aug 2014
#10
Oh, probably just a bunch of people have me on ignore. I'm sure that's it. n/t
seaglass
Aug 2014
#81
If the RAH RAH PORN YAY dumbassery continues I might have to make it an OP. nt
redqueen
Aug 2014
#82
Of course, a truly empowered woman must be ashamed of her sexuality and not consume porn.
Kurska
Aug 2014
#14
Isn't like we're in a thread that questions if a woman can be a feminists who have a positive
Kurska
Aug 2014
#104
Would I need to provide you a link to the flowers when you're in the garden? n/t
Kurska
Aug 2014
#119
Right. So there is no link to a post where anyone said anything like what you describe.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#120
Got it. You can't provide a link to anyone saying anything like what you describe.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#134
So let's review the posts that say what you describe: Oh, right. There are none.
Squinch
Aug 2014
#136
Predatory Payday Lenders are fully consensual contracts between two adults.
LanternWaste
Aug 2014
#176
Yeah, cause reasonable restrictions on otherwise allowed activities (like maximum interest rate).
Kurska
Aug 2014
#182
Why do minors inevitably come up when there are discussions of pornography and prostitution here?
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#20
Bill O'Reilly uses that same argument to oppose the legalization of marijuana
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#25
Well, don't get me wrong- I think the prohibitionist/law enforcement approach to "drugs"
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#175
I don't know how we went from discussing consensual sex to a murder spree...
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#45
I've read through a few of the links and I don't see any documented evidence or proof
Yavin4
Aug 2014
#47
You still have not provided proof, just conjecture. I've found an actual study that contradicts you
Yavin4
Aug 2014
#54
because that is NOT the Discussion. Never has been. Legal, consenting, sound minded, ADULTS is NOT
Tuesday Afternoon
Aug 2014
#73
YOu are working very hard here to believe in fairy tales. I bet you believe they are working
Squinch
Aug 2014
#84
I don't necessarily oppose legalization, mind you, but there is evidence (as noted downthread)
nomorenomore08
Aug 2014
#106
Even if it's only a possibility, isn't it worth thinking about/discussing? Considering the gravity
nomorenomore08
Aug 2014
#109
If you are using your body in a performance, then it's not "selling" your body.
Yavin4
Aug 2014
#131
And the ones who insistently pretend that these facts aren't related to these industries...
redqueen
Aug 2014
#69
I can't think of lot of things that are more messed up than human trafficking...
DemocratSinceBirth
Aug 2014
#59
Because people can't or wont formulate arguments against consenting adult behavior
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#87
Sort of like the single-minded determination to make arguments about consenting adults
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#96
Thanks for linking to that interview VC, it was interesting. I don't know who Stoya is but she
seaglass
Aug 2014
#115
She knows she's privileged. And she doesn't pretend that porn is feminist because she chose it.
redqueen
Aug 2014
#156
Yes, because something may be personally empowering does not mean it's empowering for women
seaglass
Aug 2014
#166
And--- again. I'm gonna point it out because I think you may genuinely not realize you're doing it.
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#141
Again, talking past each other, I'll only make three points and make them brief:
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#143
I've told you at least 7 or 8 times that you keep putting words in other people's mouths
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#147
And if the quotes meant what you are asserting they mean, then I'm calling the people who disagree
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#155
Last time I checked this is a discussion forum where people disagree all the time...
Violet_Crumble
Aug 2014
#148
The reactions of you and 2nd wavers to folks like Violet and LadyHawkAZ are interesting,
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#152
Your link YET AGAIN confirms my point. In fact, you only addressed one of my 5 main points.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#154
Why do I think being trafficked to country B is probably just as bad as country A?
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#158
No, what you are proposing does not do that. It does not limit the markets.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#160
One would imagine people are heading to CO and WA to buy pot right now, too.
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#162
That is an interesting dodge so let me give you an answer you cannot dodge.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#184
Thats not the issue. The issue is exceeding the boundaries of a studies results.
stevenleser
Aug 2014
#191
I share your ambivalence, to a large extent. And I don't pretend to have definitive answers.
nomorenomore08
Aug 2014
#110
So when Icelandic pols actually did call for a ban & some people here went nuts in celebration
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#163
The dogma of Choice Feminism says any choice a woman makes MUST NOT BE CRITICIZED
redqueen
Aug 2014
#170
I wonder how the industry is surviving at the moment and competing against free
jakeXT
Aug 2014
#173
The idea that female porn performers make the most money in the industry is bullshit.
redqueen
Aug 2014
#174
All people are creatures of their society. And Western society has become pornographied.
WinkyDink
Aug 2014
#167
Did I say anything about a dress code? I said what disparate cultures want of females. The West pays
WinkyDink
Aug 2014
#185
No, what's surprising is that anyone continues to try to flog that ridiculous false equivalence.
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#186
but what about people who get off on telling other people what not to get off on?
Warren DeMontague
Aug 2014
#187