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In reply to the discussion: "Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned" [View all]JustAnotherGen
(38,230 posts)You totally got offended over a very personal issue.
Where did I say that about winkydink. Are you kidding me?
I don't know jack shit about her or anyone else here -
But I DO know myyyyyyyyyyyyy mother was soooo paralyzed by grief and loss she couldn't manage to hire a snow plow guy on her own.
I'm glad you are so awesome and great and just would blink and move on if your spouse would die.
My parents were a mixed race couple long before it was 'fashionable' and they ONLY had each other for many many years.
Forgive the fuck out of me for sharing what sometimes happens when two people meet, fall in love, remain in love - and they lose the love of their lives.
It's devastating.
And she's (my mother) the FIRST to state - I went from my father's house, to my dorm, to officer's quarters.
Now keep being offended. Because NOTHING I wrote towards a du'er was insulting.
Here we go again - second verse same as the first - I'll get alerted for defending my statement.
Go ahead - do it. But you'll be hard pressed to find a personal attack here - just me pointing out how very wrong you were and took my words and twisted a personal experience into an insult against another member. That NEVER happend.
The only thing you owe me is an apology. But you'll alert - so go ahead.
I get snotty - I give it back - WITHIN TOS of course.
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