"Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned"

[johnlucas]

84. Exactly. Men have to stop the Damsel fantasies

The whole sugar & spice fallacy.
Women can be just as scummy as men can be.
THAT is equality! Hahahahahahaha!

But many men can't break that mythology & look for relationships with women to complete them, to have someone to worship.
They look at the women they get into relationships with & see their woman as their personal angel that saved them.
But every single one can be a devil in disguise & that man finds it out too late.
Then he becomes broken because he put too much of himself into that woman & goes crazy if she leaves him for whatever reason.
He became too dependent & seemingly can't function without that woman.
That's how you got all these broken men out here who sometimes end up like Bill Dauterive from King of the Hill & others who become homicidal or suicidal.

If a man keeps a strong sense of self, he will understand not to give a woman that much command over his life.
So IF she leaves, he can function without a hitch.
He'll have a Que Sera Sera attitude & get on with his life.

There ain't no damsels out there, guys.
Always make sure to leave room for YOURSELF because YOU are the only one you can ultimately count on.
John Lucas