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Ms. Toad

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15. I take it you haven't spent much time talking with vets.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:57 PM
Aug 2014

Ours is always overwhelmed by putting animals to sleep. Many times it is the only option - other times treatment costs too much, or the animal has become inconvenient. It is a tremendous drain on her. We allowed one of ours to die at home, because in the week we would have put her to sleep, the vet had put at least 2 animals to sleep a day already. Our cat was not suffering - so on balance it seemed to be a kindness not to put the vet through one more euthanasia.

The next one, the vet came to our house with her assistant to avoid making our cat's last hours miserable.

At the same time, independent vets are barely scraping by - since more and more people are getting pets from rescue operations that spay and neuter them in infancy. That loss of business cuts into vets' profits - not to mention that when times are hard, people don't take their animals in for regular shots and check-ups.

So - if you were a vet trying to make ends meet (and emotionally wrung out from a fairly common and very unpleasant part of your job anyway), who would you get to pay for your rent, food, health insurance etc. so you can "do the right thing."

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You could try contacting your local humane society Cal Carpenter Aug 2014 #1
you are right, it's like when a person dies, ellenrr Aug 2014 #3
Your vet may be very willing to work with you too, Cal Carpenter Aug 2014 #5
I was thinking recently of the old days, when a single vet had a practice, ellenrr Aug 2014 #8
call a different vet mercuryblues Aug 2014 #14
I called around, found one that was $160 instead of $178. It is ellenrr Aug 2014 #16
You are mercuryblues Aug 2014 #17
... OneGrassRoot Aug 2014 #9
I'm so sorry about all this. Arugula Latte Aug 2014 #2
yeah, you'd think. :( ellenrr Aug 2014 #4
Oh, wow, then disregard the reply I posted above Cal Carpenter Aug 2014 #6
I take it you haven't spent much time talking with vets. Ms. Toad Aug 2014 #15
Actually, I have Cal Carpenter Aug 2014 #18
Until recently, spaying & neutering was done betwen 6 months & a year - Ms. Toad Aug 2014 #19
You're using anecdotes to compare animal rescues with Walmart Cal Carpenter Aug 2014 #20
Then perhaps you like the Barnes & Noble/Waldenbooks/etc. v. indie bookstore analogy better Ms. Toad Aug 2014 #21
In my town, the spray and neuter is done by a regular vet... ellenrr Aug 2014 #24
I think that's it -- everyone wants a "system" to absolve themselves of any personal responsibility villager Aug 2014 #13
Maybe you could cross post this in the Pets forum and mention the general geographic region Arugula Latte Aug 2014 #7
ok, will do. thanks. I have one more try- ellenrr Aug 2014 #10
Ellenrr. NCTraveler Aug 2014 #11
thank you for yr good wishes, and yr idea. I think ellenrr Aug 2014 #12
My heart goes out to you. NCTraveler Aug 2014 #32
thank you so much ellenrr Aug 2014 #34
Is this about her age and health or your housing? LeftyMom Aug 2014 #22
Post removed Post removed Aug 2014 #25
I'm sorry about your cat - TBF Aug 2014 #31
the only thing that is "strange" is your mind. ellenrr Aug 2014 #26
Now that I'm over my anger, and my "you should be institutionalized" this is an interesting post ellenrr Aug 2014 #29
Um no. LeftyMom had posted in the thread she referred to so no "detecting" needed. n/t seaglass Aug 2014 #35
Its a horrible situation. Joe Shlabotnik Aug 2014 #23
really incredible that among so many compassionate people, one moron could suggest ellenrr Aug 2014 #27
btw, just to be clear--/ and update on cat. ellenrr Aug 2014 #28
ellenrr just this intaglio Aug 2014 #30
thank you. I needed that. :) nt ellenrr Aug 2014 #33
Kidney kitties need frequent encouragement to eat. Doremus Aug 2014 #37
. Doremus Aug 2014 #36
To be honest..., blueamy66 Aug 2014 #38
Part of the problem is that vet care has gotten so expensive. leftyladyfrommo Aug 2014 #39
I agree 100%. blueamy66 Aug 2014 #40
So many times its not fair to either the pet or the people. leftyladyfrommo Aug 2014 #41
I'm not judging. blueamy66 Aug 2014 #42
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