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113. It's next to impossible not to entrust personal info to others to function in society now

Reply to La Lioness Priyanka (Reply #112)

Wed Sep 3, 2014, 09:28 AM

Sep 2014

The judgment is nothing to do with security and everything to do with scrutinizing and judging the actions of the victims themselves. All they see is the nude pics. There's always a way to scrutinize women and find ways they're at fault when something happens to them.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 OP

Sing it, sister. PeaceNikki Sep 2014 #1

I wish I had pictures of my younger self kcr Sep 2014 #2

Agreed! Me too. jillan Sep 2014 #41

This message was self-deleted by its author big_dog Sep 2014 #69

Do I even want to know what message deleted said kcr Sep 2014 #74

He's been posting and then deleting creepy shit all day. nt LeftyMom Sep 2014 #100

I remember a few you posted here years ago...very beautiful Demonaut Sep 2014 #3

yeah, i was wondering that. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #9

Me too. LeftyMom Sep 2014 #4

This^^^^ Veilex Sep 2014 #40

I suspect most people agree with you, although... TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #5

Actually, I think the OP goes well beyond ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2014 #53

That's great! MannyGoldstein Sep 2014 #6

no, that's not exactly understandable La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #7

this ^ PeaceNikki Sep 2014 #11

It's not *right* that unintended audiences can get hold of it MannyGoldstein Sep 2014 #15

I'm sure you're saying the same thing about phone numbers, tax documents, emails, DU posts kcr Sep 2014 #42

Absolutely. MannyGoldstein Sep 2014 #43

And how does one go about doing all that? kcr Sep 2014 #45

If I badly cared about who read my stuff on DU MannyGoldstein Sep 2014 #47

But you do need the internet to do it kcr Sep 2014 #49

Gray. MannyGoldstein Sep 2014 #55

I wouldn't argue with any of that kcr Sep 2014 #57

"Then I make decisions based on convenience vs. risk." timdog44 Sep 2014 #121

good point, i hope you don't delete it JI7 Sep 2014 #8

dont want my students to accidentally stumble on this. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #10

So would the guy that I posed nude for before cell phones littlemissmartypants Sep 2014 #12

Well said; please don't delete the OP!! yodermon Sep 2014 #13

don't delete! Quayblue Sep 2014 #14

'Never without my permission'. AtheistCrusader Sep 2014 #16

yup. i wonder if these were business plans that were stolen La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #17

I didn't hear anyone say 'it's your fault for shopping at Target' when they lost millions of AtheistCrusader Sep 2014 #30

yup. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #35

Why delete it? malthaussen Sep 2014 #18

dont want my students to accidentally stumble on this. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #19

I've got one of myself naked and I hesitate to post it but what the heck.. BlueJazz Sep 2014 #20

awww. so adorable. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #22

Perfect response. riqster Sep 2014 #23

My, what big pink ears you had! A HERETIC I AM Sep 2014 #48

I'm guessing the same half-wit who trivializes these types of actions would be pretty pissed LanternWaste Sep 2014 #21

yup. or their business plans. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #24

+2 nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #103

Right on! Everyone has the right to take naked pictures of themselves... liberalmuse Sep 2014 #25

agreed. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #27

Please don't delete the OP. It sends a powerful message. riqster Sep 2014 #26

Ditto to the don't delete. SoapBox Sep 2014 #28

Nice post. Wish I had that thought when i was young... Left coast liberal Sep 2014 #29

The only reason I wouldn't take nekkid pics Erich Bloodaxe BSN Sep 2014 #31

yeah, and if i looked like anyone of these actresses i would have 10,000 instead of the 100 or so La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #32

Me neither. I'm very much a Plain Peter myself. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #67

When I was in my early 20s and had a slender, atheletic figure, I posed nude Fortinbras Armstrong Sep 2014 #111

Sinner! Iggo Sep 2014 #33

absolutely. proud sinner, in fact! La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #34

I had a lot of chances in youth. And I took 'em! Eleanors38 Sep 2014 #104

Taking them and keeping them on non mobile devices for yourself is fairly safe. FLPanhandle Sep 2014 #36

"why would anyone take naked pics" Veilex Sep 2014 #37

It's really not rocket science, is it? arcane1 Sep 2014 #38

agreed. lack of empathy + envy lead to a lot of shitty behavior. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #39

I don't have any naked pictures (of me when I was younger) kdmorris Sep 2014 #44

I just don't think it wise to take them with a cell phone/smart phone PatrynXX Sep 2014 #46

I kind of look at it, yeah I have taken pics and sent them to people and I wont be shocked to see dilby Sep 2014 #50

i disagree that when you consent to send to one person, its somehow morally implied that they La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #51

I think it's an ethical thing over criminal if someone was to post pictures I sent them of myself. dilby Sep 2014 #54

There actually are laws now in some places a2liberal Sep 2014 #86

I wish I still had the one of me streaking Spiro Agnew in Houston (when I was a pup) LiberalArkie Sep 2014 #52

i totally agree with you. I have naked pictures of being a younger man samsingh Sep 2014 #56

Now a days you'd be in Gitmo rpannier Sep 2014 #101

You're right. yardwork Sep 2014 #58

I agree, but if yours were leaked bigwillq Sep 2014 #59

LOL. no. not really. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #61

Ok. Cool. bigwillq Sep 2014 #63

The reason I don't regret mine is that they were all taken-- eridani Sep 2014 #60

Yes, we were really *smart* not to use digital cameras antiquie Sep 2014 #114

It's a valid POV and one I'd share but state of the art when I was a kid Warpy Sep 2014 #62

Old Polaroids can be surprisingly durable... hunter Sep 2014 #125

I have pics of my naked (well, topless) young self cwydro Sep 2014 #64

Well said! Sky Masterson Sep 2014 #65

Good points here. nt AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #66

Why the Polaroid Camera was invented. Quantess Sep 2014 #68

Omg yes. cwydro Sep 2014 #71

So do I. Codeine Sep 2014 #70

K&R ... Nice one! ~nt 99th_Monkey Sep 2014 #72

k&r marym625 Sep 2014 #73

THIS>why is it so hard to understand that someone would want to have something, that maybe you don't bettyellen Sep 2014 #75

As long as it isn't something kinky, progressoid Sep 2014 #76

I can appreciate the sentiment but... Jasana Sep 2014 #77

i know about revenge porn but people are not responsible for the moral failings of others. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #78

I dont ask why anyone would take naked pics. Warren DeMontague Sep 2014 #79

Good post. TransitJohn Sep 2014 #80

no its not. no one thinks of the cloud as someone else's computer. i love how you guys La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #81

But it is someone else's computer, by definition. TransitJohn Sep 2014 #82

no, you are placing blame on people for not understanding technology La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #88

Bingo! I am. TransitJohn Sep 2014 #97

The problem with your opinion TJ, is this justiceischeap Sep 2014 #107

If something is marketed as a safe place to deposit items or information kcr Sep 2014 #108

Agreed. Meanwhile I wonder how many people La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #112

It's next to impossible not to entrust personal info to others to function in society now kcr Sep 2014 #113

Do you say this to people who bank online? La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #117

Why would you be concerened Texasgal Sep 2014 #83

LOL and you call yourself a feminist. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #84

You are rude. Texasgal Sep 2014 #85

yes, i am rude but i don't go around shaming women for making different choices with their bodies La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #87

I never shamed anyone. Texasgal Sep 2014 #91

LOL. given how rude and obnoxious you have been to me in the past, i totally take no La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #92

wow... you are not even on my radar Texasgal Sep 2014 #93

no, not confused. happened around the great feminist wars. i also La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #94

I would be more concerned about your students Texasgal Sep 2014 #96

I have some too (just a few), and I'm not ashamed of them at all. polly7 Sep 2014 #89

ha ha!! La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #90

"merely slut-shaming by a different name." Spitfire of ATJ Sep 2014 #95

Completely agree. blackspade Sep 2014 #98

Let's do a trade right here at DU. lovemydog Sep 2014 #99

I guarantee no one wants to see me naked IronLionZion Sep 2014 #102

I don't want to see me naked. Eleanors38 Sep 2014 #105

Good post. And you are right. nt Eleanors38 Sep 2014 #106

I'm glad you did heaven05 Sep 2014 #109

Valid, Lioness. Feral Child Sep 2014 #110

I have a stack of Polaroids.....very glad I have them. nt msanthrope Sep 2014 #115

Photos used to be physical objects; they could be kept private then. The folly now is thinking such WinkyDink Sep 2014 #116

So should we give up online banking and shopping too? La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #118

Perhaps so; it's not like those sites are hack-free. In any event, one can be sad, mad, or appalled WinkyDink Sep 2014 #122

its not about being shocked but about calmly accepting that transactions we make in the modern world La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #123

Good point... freebrew Sep 2014 #119

hadn't read this before. Glad I didn't miss it! BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2014 #120

Moral of the story - hifiguy Sep 2014 #124

right until someone breaks into your house and steals your thumb drive. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #126

Several people have mentioned RISK. Beartracks Sep 2014 #127