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94. That's when serious spousal battery generally starts

Reply to cwydro (Reply #88)

Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:34 PM

Sep 2014

because the man starts to feel trapped, never mind she's the one carrying the real burden.

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Ravens release Ray Rice [View all] justiceischeap Sep 2014 OP

Good. Sheldon Cooper Sep 2014 #1

GOOD! eom BlueCaliDem Sep 2014 #2

This Ravens fan just breathed a sigh of relief. Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2014 #3

How will you feel if they saw the video exboyfil Sep 2014 #37

I've never based my team allegiances on ownership. Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2014 #39

Green Bay and Pittsburgh are two that could work. hootinholler Sep 2014 #86

Well, if you criticize the Ravens for Ray Rice, be prepared to criticize the Steelers for... Tommy_Carcetti Sep 2014 #89

Did the judge have the original video sealed? mackerel Sep 2014 #70

Of COURSE they're lying about not having seen the second video rocktivity Sep 2014 #73

Good riddance, asshole. nt conservaphobe Sep 2014 #4

+1 Veilex Sep 2014 #135

Good! MineralMan Sep 2014 #5

I think she was pregnant at the time too. cwydro Sep 2014 #88

That's when serious spousal battery generally starts Warpy Sep 2014 #94

Oh dear, cwydro Sep 2014 #151

OMG. Awful. SunSeeker Sep 2014 #148

good. PeaceNikki Sep 2014 #6

Good for them and Faux pas Sep 2014 #7

Video? I am not a fan of NFL anymore but saw great movie "Draft Day" randys1 Sep 2014 #8

In this thread justiceischeap Sep 2014 #11

Here. Warning, this is difficult to watch pintobean Sep 2014 #33

..and handles her with such tender loving care while she's unconscious Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #63

That really bugged me, too. pintobean Sep 2014 #111

Don't you get the feeling he's knocked out a woman before? SunSeeker Sep 2014 #149

I don't think his phone is going to be ringing anytime soon hifiguy Sep 2014 #9

Yep, the NFL has a lot of women fans. MohRokTah Sep 2014 #15

To See How Right You Are, Just Look At Their Merchandising ProfessorGAC Sep 2014 #35

Geez, I'd hope men would be just as disgusted. HERVEPA Sep 2014 #55

I figure at least a third are. MohRokTah Sep 2014 #56

They are both pretty bad guesses in my opinion. HERVEPA Sep 2014 #97

True enough, but I was also leaving the apathetic guys out, too. MohRokTah Sep 2014 #98

I understand. Still think too high though. Just my opinion. HERVEPA Sep 2014 #145

I'm probably just a bigger pessimist than you. MohRokTah Sep 2014 #147

Alas, women are capable of excusing such actions, too. All too capable of saying... Moonwalk Sep 2014 #124

No team can sign Ray Rice Gothmog Sep 2014 #113

I posted that before the news of the indefinite suspension broke. hifiguy Sep 2014 #114

The Eagles were probably very disappointed to hear that. Kalidurga Sep 2014 #126

Yeah, the Ravens had to act Blue_Tires Sep 2014 #10

What they probably meant is "They didn't see the video getting leaked." nt justiceischeap Sep 2014 #13

Just now on the Joy Reid show she had a three person panel - DURHAM D Sep 2014 #19

I do sort of wish that the second video Blue_Tires Sep 2014 #44

Deservedly so. 99Forever Sep 2014 #12

They first had to be caught doing the wrong thing. F-em. DURHAM D Sep 2014 #20

Not sure how to respond to that. 99Forever Sep 2014 #105

Great news! nt sufrommich Sep 2014 #14

This should have been done on March 27, right after he was indicted...nt SidDithers Sep 2014 #16

The DA let him get more or less off without punishment mythology Sep 2014 #131

Worse, the wife was initially charged the same as Rice : "simple assault." SunSeeker Sep 2014 #150

Whoa, shit! For real?!?!?! Iggo Sep 2014 #17

Is this a new video? underpants Sep 2014 #18

If you mean the one from TMZ of them in the elevator, then yes. nt justiceischeap Sep 2014 #21

I saw that video several months ago underpants Sep 2014 #22

This one? justiceischeap Sep 2014 #23

Interesting. It looks almost like she went for him Warpy Sep 2014 #92

her going for him was triggered by spitting Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #104

My lousy vision didn't catch the loogie. Warpy Sep 2014 #115

You probably saw the 'after' where he dragged her after knocking her out. This new one includes the PeaceNikki Sep 2014 #26

Okay I must be remembering things wrong underpants Sep 2014 #29

Holy effing CRAP Dreamer Tatum Sep 2014 #24

Yes it was and he is underpants Sep 2014 #31

I'd put my money on 'they were aware but didn't think the video would leak' Lex Sep 2014 #25

Yeah,this tweet sums it up: sufrommich Sep 2014 #30

Sounds about right. nt City Lights Sep 2014 #67

Sayonara Dorian Gray Sep 2014 #27

I hope she's some place safe and he doesn't try to take this news out on her. n/t MerryBlooms Sep 2014 #28

I was thinking the same thing. I have no doubt sufrommich Sep 2014 #32

Hopefully she divorces his ass... Oktober Sep 2014 #34

She Married Him AFTER It Happened ProfessorGAC Sep 2014 #36

I know... Oktober Sep 2014 #38

Now that his career is in shambles Demobrat Sep 2014 #61

You must mean to say: JimDandy Sep 2014 #95

Of course I do. Demobrat Sep 2014 #102

Truly didn't think you did. JimDandy Sep 2014 #109

Let's Hope ProfessorGAC Sep 2014 #141

Leaving an abuser is dangerous, too, Ilsa Sep 2014 #117

Indeed. Veilex Sep 2014 #138

You're Right ProfessorGAC Sep 2014 #140

And takes all of his money. pintobean Sep 2014 #41

Yes. Marrying him a month after JimDandy Sep 2014 #40

A fair standard, I believe. No free shots. Period. Not even in hypothetical musings. A fair .... marble falls Sep 2014 #46

That was my exact thinking. I cut the date short JimDandy Sep 2014 #49

That's the right policy. If a guy thinks it's ok to vocalize that another guy MH1 Sep 2014 #60

I'm not in her shoes, so I don't know her thought process... MerryBlooms Sep 2014 #118

Years ago I provided help on JimDandy Sep 2014 #119

I've always read that victims of intimate partner violence are most at risk when leaving. n/t tammywammy Sep 2014 #127

DV article from PBS MerryBlooms Sep 2014 #128

Yes. I have no doubt that is the JimDandy Sep 2014 #129

She married him AFTER he knocked her senseless! CANDO Sep 2014 #65

I am aware she married him after, that doesn't change MerryBlooms Sep 2014 #112

He got off easy even so. marble falls Sep 2014 #42

UPDATE: The NFL has suspended Rice for indefinite period. BANNED. DinahMoeHum Sep 2014 #43

Good. Agschmid Sep 2014 #45

Like Agshmid said! marble falls Sep 2014 #48

That woman needs to run for the hills. Demobrat Sep 2014 #64

Even better news! City Lights Sep 2014 #69

I'm sure the Eagles will try and pick him up. Glassunion Sep 2014 #47

He's been suspended indefinitely. n/t tammywammy Sep 2014 #53

If I was Rice's lawyer I would exboyfil Sep 2014 #54

The suspension was the punishment. JimDandy Sep 2014 #82

It does not work like that. AngryAmish Sep 2014 #134

You're thinking of the previous idiot coach. The current coach would not do it. HERVEPA Sep 2014 #57

I still have not forgiven them for Vic. I'm even more pissed at the Jets. Glassunion Sep 2014 #84

It's Vick. And yes, I was disgusted as a philadelphian when they signed him. HERVEPA Sep 2014 #100

They don't need him. Shady & Sproles got it locked down. (nt) Inkfreak Sep 2014 #116

And the various comments are disgusting maryellen99 Sep 2014 #50

Shamed into doing the right thing. Tatiana Sep 2014 #51

Good Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2014 #52

Post removed Post removed Sep 2014 #58

I think I saw your post on the TMZ site and was about to reply then decided justiceischeap Sep 2014 #59

I have never posted on TMZ Botany Sep 2014 #78

Just so you know, both Palmer and Rice were arrested JimDandy Sep 2014 #136

Often when the police can't figure out who is to blame, both parties are arrested justiceischeap Sep 2014 #137

I researched a little more... JimDandy Sep 2014 #142

Yes, unreasonable use of force treestar Sep 2014 #146

Yeah, you are. Iggo Sep 2014 #62

No I am not defending him Botany Sep 2014 #76

Yeah, how dare she react to him spitting on her. Lex Sep 2014 #80

on elevator - he spits on her, she hit and charges, he hits Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #68

At the beginning of the video he spits at her...she tries to slap him for it.... trumad Sep 2014 #77

thx for correction.. others say -1. he spits 2. he slaps 3. she tries to slap 4. he punches Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #101

He's an elite athlete. Built like a Mack truck. CANDO Sep 2014 #71

Egg zac LEE Botany Sep 2014 #79

Wrong. You ARE defending him. Lex Sep 2014 #72

i am not defending him Botany Sep 2014 #81

Words mean things. Lex Sep 2014 #83

Seriously... trumad Sep 2014 #74

what I saw was a couple having a fight and he should have walked away. Botany Sep 2014 #85

No what you saw is an NFL Running Back knock out a woman in the elevator. trumad Sep 2014 #91

What Mr. Rice did was wrong and he got the punishment he deserved but I also ..... Botany Sep 2014 #103

Double down--Triple down... trumad Sep 2014 #110

Did you miss where he spat on her first? Starry Messenger Sep 2014 #75

No he didn't miss it... trumad Sep 2014 #96

This fucking dope has put his ass on the line to protect women. Botany Sep 2014 #123

uh huh trumad Sep 2014 #139

Guess you missed the part where he spit on her DURHAM D Sep 2014 #130

This message was self-deleted by its author A-Schwarzenegger Sep 2014 #132

Great news! nt City Lights Sep 2014 #66

Quoth the Ravens� Jackpine Radical Sep 2014 #87

Wondered how long it would take.... abelenkpe Sep 2014 #122

This is great news. cwydro Sep 2014 #90

With these new rules in place, are we... Skarbrowe Sep 2014 #93

Someone needs to keep an eye out for the wife. oldandhappy Sep 2014 #99

Maybe whomever forced her to marry him should keep an eye out. nt Dreamer Tatum Sep 2014 #107

Speculation on tv is that would be the NFL and the Ravens. nt DURHAM D Sep 2014 #143

AS IT SHOULD BE vkkv Sep 2014 #106

DING DING DING! Vkkv, you're our grand prize winner! rocktivity Sep 2014 #120

He should be made to play this year with all of his salary going to his wife, hopefully soon to be Dustlawyer Sep 2014 #108

K & R ...I hope this asshole goes to BIP for a year ...and even then he might repeat this. L0oniX Sep 2014 #121

He is on my fantasy football team. Greybnk48 Sep 2014 #125

Good! Boom Sound 416 Sep 2014 #133

"We requested from law enforcement any and all information about the incident, rocktivity Sep 2014 #144