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In reply to the discussion: Why am I always reminded here on DU that women can be abusive just like men? [View all]JohnnyRingo
(18,831 posts)I've been on the other side of the DV fence and society demanded that I take my lumps like a man. I guess pointing that out is offensive and you choose to pigeonhole me as hating women. Maybe that's one of the reasons men are so reluctant to report cases.
I admit I get tired of countless posts from DU feminists who portray men as the root of all evil, whether it's domestic violence and sex crimes, or diagnosing all men who have sports cars, fast motorcycles, or firearms, as having a small penis. I usually suffer through it and ignore the double standard, but I know what would happen if I posted that women who buy a lot of shoes do it to compensate for having small boobs. I'd never say that, but I'd be banned all ways to Sunday.
You demonstrated clearly what happens when a man points out the other side of the DV issue here. Deny, minimize, and counter attack.