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ejpoeta

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31. i really liked the free samples. I breastfed but
Wed Apr 11, 2012, 11:09 PM
Apr 2012

sometimes I couldn't express enough and my husband would give our daughter a bottle of enfamil when I just had to get out of the house for a break. I loved it. I think they should not ban them, though Ithink they have all but done that here already. Not sure but I think they have. I support a woman's right to choose. When I had my oldest I tried to breastfeed but didn't do a good job and ended up having to bottle feed her. I would have had to anyway because I was working and am pretty sure my job wouldn't have been happy to have me take time out of my day to express milk.

When I had my second child I breastfed partially for financial reasons and because I wanted to. Had better help and succeeded. Breastfed my third child also. But that was a choice I made. I resent another way for women to be looked down upon. Breastfeeding isn't easy. I spent a lot of time separated from everyone while feeding my kids. I was the only one I knew who was breastfeeding. It was painful at times. Once they started biting that was the end of breastfeeding. I have a scar from my middle child.

I don't agree with bullying. Or making a woman feel she has no choice. I have known women who insisted on breastfeeding even though their kid wasn't getting the nutrition they needed. That can be dangerous to the kid. Not everyone can do it. Be it their need to work or their body not being able to. And not everyone wants to. This should not be another way to make women feel like they are less than they are in a sea of ways to make women feel bad about themselves.

If they want to breastfeed, then a bag with samples isn't going to change that. Let's just let women make that choice for themselves. Why do people think we are not capable of doing that?

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Another "pro-choice" issue as far as I am concerned. Hepburn Apr 2012 #1
"breastfeeding gestapo" tralala Apr 2012 #2
That's just wrong of them to do that Autumn Apr 2012 #3
Thank you! I had my son liberalhistorian Apr 2012 #7
It's a matter of choice, and the breast feeding gestapo should Autumn Apr 2012 #10
When we had our daughter, we called the lactation specialist "The Nipple Nazi." Ian David Apr 2012 #4
I had that same issue 21 years ago with my son! liberalhistorian Apr 2012 #9
One of the things The Nipple Nazi made my wife do... Ian David Apr 2012 #13
I would have told her just where to put it and what to do liberalhistorian Apr 2012 #16
WTF?? Please tell me your wife told the Nipple Nazi to Autumn Apr 2012 #18
No. We just waited until she was gone and took the tubes off. n/t Ian David Apr 2012 #19
I tried doing that when my milk was starting to run dry. Was hoping my son would finally start GreenPartyVoter Apr 2012 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Apr 2012 #5
"Breastfeeding gestapo"? Cut the shit. TheWraith Apr 2012 #6
Closer to a drug dealer giving "free samples".. Fumesucker Apr 2012 #11
Public Citizen is a very good advocacy group lunasun Apr 2012 #30
Oh, bullshit. liberalhistorian Apr 2012 #12
Yes, it was that "first one is free" that forced us to use Pampers. jeff47 Apr 2012 #17
You know what, Godwin? I come from a family that had people die in the camps. Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #8
+1000. Crunchy Frog Apr 2012 #28
Unrec. emilyg Apr 2012 #14
I had two kids, one bottlefed and one breastfed, so I feel qualified to speak on this issue. GreenPartyVoter Apr 2012 #15
The freebies are advertising samples and yes, they DO hope to persuade you to use their products riderinthestorm Apr 2012 #20
i hope they don't ever meet any actual Gestapo... dionysus Apr 2012 #21
No kidding. n/t janx Apr 2012 #23
I really like the free samples, but Jezebel's headline is a bit much. ZombieHorde Apr 2012 #22
Really? Free? Zax2me Apr 2012 #24
I guess they must have had lunch at the Olive Garden... madinmaryland Apr 2012 #25
I never got mesh panties, giant maxis, a baby brush and Vaseline! Fawke Em Apr 2012 #26
Super stretchy panties to hold the giant maxis in place. gkhouston Apr 2012 #32
I like some inflamed rhetoric every now and then, but that headline is just stupid. 2ndAmForComputers Apr 2012 #27
i really liked the free samples. I breastfed but ejpoeta Apr 2012 #31
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