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kpete

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Thu Apr 12, 2012, 11:47 AM Apr 2012

Ann Romney: I CHOOSE MY CHOICE [View all]



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It was a three-fer, demonstrating that Ann Romney is a master at the language of meaningless bullshit: Invoking the questionable assumption that fertility equals goodness, I CHOOSE MY CHOICE, and of course, posturing about how stay-at-home mothers work so hard and YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW.

The last one may be one of my least favorite of meaningless platitudes in circulation in the U.S., the whole "stay-at-home moms are the hardest working, bestest people that ever worked!" one. It's a common feature on STFU Parents, with housewives braying about how, unlike everyone else, they work 24/7 and don't get vacations and blah blah.

There's a very serious and insulting problem with this platitude: It carries with it the assumption that working mothers (a term that is commonly understood to mean women who have paid employment while raising children at home) don't raise their children.

Think about it: Romney is saying she made the "choice" to raise her five boys by staying home, as if her boys would have gone unraised if she'd had a job outside of the home. To which I say, screw you. My mom worked. In this country, most moms work. Their kids don't run around like wild animals, naked and barefoot and killing pigeons to survive. Hell, in some families, believe it or not, dads some times pitch in and raise their kids. (That last bit was mega-sarcasm, for the utterly literal.)

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The Romney/Ryan Budgets Cuts In Anti-Poverty Spending Would Disproportionately Impact Women

By Matthew Yglesias | Posted Thursday, April 12, 2012, at 11:02 AM ET


http://www.slate.com/blogs/moneybox/2012/04/12/the_romney_ryan_budgets_cuts_in_anti_poverty_spending_would_disproportionately_impact_women.html
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She's lucky she could make that choice. GoCubsGo Apr 2012 #1
"I fry my fries. I work my work. I campaign my campaign" SomethingFishy Apr 2012 #2
lol closeupready Apr 2012 #12
Ann Romney, poster girl for well-shod and pregnant. aquart Apr 2012 #23
Is she saying no nannies, maids, housekeepers? aquart Apr 2012 #3
Oh, some good investigative material there, I think. randome Apr 2012 #7
like this? kpete Apr 2012 #14
And if there were, see if they were "illegals" KansDem Apr 2012 #15
Beat me to it. Mz Pip Apr 2012 #9
This whole thing is INFURIATING for me. laundry_queen Apr 2012 #11
I hear you! After my divorce I went from stay at home mom to working mom Arkansas Granny Apr 2012 #24
Don't Forget The Chef! HangOnKids Apr 2012 #13
I did. I forgot the chef. aquart Apr 2012 #18
Hey Having Fine Meals Prepared Every Day HangOnKids Apr 2012 #20
There were 5 women listed as "domestic help" on the Romney's tax returns.. SomethingFishy Apr 2012 #26
Another rich idiot who thinks she's better than the rest of the great unwashed. FSogol Apr 2012 #4
my mother raised me while... Dachor Apr 2012 #5
Staying At Home Raising Kids Is Hard Work BUT How Much Hired Help Did She Have? HangOnKids Apr 2012 #6
She's just as clueless and tone-deaf as hifiguy Apr 2012 #8
Rich Folks Just Don't Get It HangOnKids Apr 2012 #16
What a brave woman Politicalboi Apr 2012 #10
Trouble is, she wants to make YOUR choice, too. MineralMan Apr 2012 #17
It's nice to be able to devote yourself to it, as well gratuitous Apr 2012 #19
Members Of The Lucky Sperm Club Can't Bother Their Beautiful Minds With Such Nonsense n/t HangOnKids Apr 2012 #21
She has a privelege that few others have. Dawson Leery Apr 2012 #22
Is she sure SHE raised them and not the hired help? Marrah_G Apr 2012 #25
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