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countryjake

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39. During the struggle to get Skagit Co. to look into the brutal death of Hana Alemu...
Mon Sep 15, 2014, 05:33 PM
Sep 2014

(I simply refuse to disgrace her with that label of "Williams", the name of her adoptive murderers.), it was discovered that there are a goodly number of parents in the area who also promote, sell, and strongly advocate such methods found within "To Train Up A Child" as the preferred handbook to break the spirit of what many fundamentalists describe as "rebellious" children. The Pearls' book reads like a guide-to-abuse manual...how to effectively physically and mentally torture a child without getting caught.

There were a total of nine children in the home where little Hana was tortured to death, she and the other little boy who was also adopted from Ethiopia and seven biological Williams kids. On the cold rainy day that Hana died in the backyard of the Williams property, two of the older sons had earlier been sent outdoors with that "plumbing rod" to force her into submission, by their mother, Carri Williams.

Even up to the final minutes when the body of Hana Alemu was eventually taken away from those private, idyllic acres of Sedro-Woolley, that woman thought that her method of dealing with an orphan isolated in a strange land, a defenseless 13 year old girl, was the fitting and proper way to direct a "difficult" child onto a path of godly righteousness...that it was her right as a "mother" to brutally strip another person of both her dignity and her self-worth.

I've posted about Hana's torture and murder here at DU before and also the need to condemn those barbaric Pearl "discipline" practices which are still popular and continually defended by so many in our nation.


Hana's Story By Kathryn Joyce ~ Nov. 9 2013
An adoptee's tragic fate, and how it could happen again.

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/11/hana_williams_the_tragic_death_of_an_ethiopian_adoptee_and_how_it_could.html


Hana Alemu: We Will Not Forget by ellecuardaigh

http://ellecuardaigh.com/2014/04/06/hana-alemu-we-will-not-forget/


Death of little Hana Williams linked to "To Train Up a Child"

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x2040158

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Someone else characterized those disciplinary tactics as raising Cleita Sep 2014 #1
That nine-year-old certainly proves it. moriah Sep 2014 #4
It's also treating your child Dorian Gray Sep 2014 #20
Sick shenmue Sep 2014 #2
This isn't discipline, it is punishment. Not just abuse, but Pathwalker Sep 2014 #3
It truly is. Yet parents are buying this book and thinking that because they're "experts".... moriah Sep 2014 #5
All because they're totally ignorant about how a shepherd treats their sheep. Pathwalker Sep 2014 #10
May I quote you on FB? Stopping at the "any other one I know" point? moriah Sep 2014 #11
Certainly. I learned this from my cousin who's a sheep farmer. Pathwalker Sep 2014 #12
I second that. I learned it from herders too. nolabear Sep 2014 #26
What? BlindTiresias Sep 2014 #6
How hard would you have to hit a baby to make him stop crying? LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #7
That preacher.... oh.... my Goddess.... Can I report him and his wife for abuse? moriah Sep 2014 #8
They have been reported and investigated. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #9
Good lord BlindTiresias Sep 2014 #14
Yes. They follow the one true path. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #17
Excellent article. I'm glad she got out. moriah Sep 2014 #23
The ideas that the Pearl's write about LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #24
They read "Suffer the little children" but then ignored the rest of the sentence. nt tblue37 Sep 2014 #29
And misinterpret the meaning of the word "suffer" in that instance.... moriah Sep 2014 #36
Precisely. I was using it as a pun, but I felt explaining it would defang its effect. nt tblue37 Sep 2014 #47
Reading the first entry on that site hifiguy Sep 2014 #32
IDK. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #34
"What is, what happens when sociopaths write books, Alex?" joeybee12 Sep 2014 #13
When was this atrocity published? 3catwoman3 Sep 2014 #15
1994. Not really that long ago. moriah Sep 2014 #21
Well, I am a parent, and this is such an outrageous nightmare! Tumbulu Sep 2014 #16
A better title for To Train Up a Child would be Child Abuse for Dummies. Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #18
And why is Amazon selling this abuse manual? Tumbulu Sep 2014 #19
Because bookstores and libraries are not in the censorship business. Cleita Sep 2014 #22
Yet if enough people report a book on Amazon it can be yanked. nt justiceischeap Sep 2014 #25
That's their choice but they don't have to. Cleita Sep 2014 #27
How does one report a book on Amazon? Tumbulu Sep 2014 #31
It's mostly a matter of emailing them or starting a thread in their discussion forums justiceischeap Sep 2014 #35
How does one do this? Tumbulu Sep 2014 #30
They can, like many choose not to sell porn for instance, or like no one puts real news mags Cleita Sep 2014 #33
I just looked up this books publisher...it's the authors so I doubt contacting the publisher justiceischeap Sep 2014 #37
That's better yet. So he's self-published. I think it's time for a class action law suit Cleita Sep 2014 #38
There is a link to a petition under the links in moriah's OP. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #40
Thanks! Sorry I did not see it. nt Tumbulu Sep 2014 #42
No worries! Lots of us didn't. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #43
bookstores and libraries still make choices SheilaT Sep 2014 #44
Apparently this guy is self-published which means even the most RW & Christian publishing houses Cleita Sep 2014 #45
I just KNEW hifiguy Sep 2014 #28
During the struggle to get Skagit Co. to look into the brutal death of Hana Alemu... countryjake Sep 2014 #39
Thanks, countryjake. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #41
Here's another -- an Ebook of the actual book. moriah Sep 2014 #46
Twisted. LiberalAndProud Sep 2014 #48
You're quite welcome. countryjake Sep 2014 #49
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