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24. I don't know how to do that

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Wed Sep 17, 2014, 06:30 AM

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] rbrnmw Sep 2014 OP

Hug her tight, she needs to know she is loved, no matter the outcome. Tikki Sep 2014 #1

Nobody can visit her rbrnmw Sep 2014 #3

That is a horrible situation. Uncle Joe Sep 2014 #2

Difficult news to bear. TexasTowelie Sep 2014 #4

Positive vibes going out to all involved. Enthusiast Sep 2014 #5

She needs an attorney NOW! A HERETIC I AM Sep 2014 #6

absolutely correct Skittles Sep 2014 #7

She has a court appointed attorney rbrnmw Sep 2014 #8

Why do they think she was "under the influence"? Did they do blood test / breathalyzer? MH1 Sep 2014 #17

^^ THIS ^^ Duppers Sep 2014 #18

I posted article link below rbrnmw Sep 2014 #29

presumably they took a sample of her blood to test for alcohol and drugs magical thyme Sep 2014 #58

Suicide watch. See post 3. <eom> Massacure Sep 2014 #102

Thank you, rbrnmw.. no mention about brakes failing.. but, it seems that when she Cha Sep 2014 #114

That was my first thought, also Warpy Sep 2014 #52

Call the State Bar and see about getting her a Pro Bono lawyer. You can also look below Lochloosa Sep 2014 #28

How terribly tragic, for everyone involved. sabrina 1 Sep 2014 #9

She is such a good girl rbrnmw Sep 2014 #10

The media is cruel. I hope she isn't reading it. Does she have a family who sabrina 1 Sep 2014 #11

Her grandma and aunts rbrnmw Sep 2014 #12

Good for you, she will need a lot of support. sabrina 1 Sep 2014 #48

this is critical, rbrnmw Skittles Sep 2014 #54

I want her to know she means a lot to us rbrnmw Sep 2014 #61

I hope she has no access to television or newspapers. nt rbrnmw Sep 2014 #14

write down all your observations regarding when you saw her Skittles Sep 2014 #53

She might have a civil suit against the car manufacturer. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #13

I'm so sorry about this terrible Unknown Beatle Sep 2014 #15

I'm not an attorney. But ... Old Crow Sep 2014 #16

"demonstrate that you want to present an aggressive defense " A HERETIC I AM Sep 2014 #19

Yes I am going to call her grandma today with this list to give her rbrnmw Sep 2014 #23

Excellent post. I hope the OP sees it and copies it for reference. sabrina 1 Sep 2014 #49

Looks like excellent compelling advice, Old Crow.. and this>>>> Cha Sep 2014 #115

You are all in my thoughts. Granny M Sep 2014 #20

This is what I would do. aikoaiko Sep 2014 #21

Good idea; I like it. Old Crow Sep 2014 #22

I don't know how to do that rbrnmw Sep 2014 #24

Did you try looking around the website? I'd be surprised if it does not walk you through how merrily Sep 2014 #27

Your first step... Old Crow Sep 2014 #36

Thank You it was easy I set it up rbrnmw Sep 2014 #40

This message was self-deleted by its author Old Crow Sep 2014 #42

My gosh those comments are over the top yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #103

Commenters induced gofundme to remove accounts for Amanda Knox and pnwmom Sep 2014 #117

Did they remove it? Did they tell you why? Do they have a policy now pnwmom Sep 2014 #118

They have a good "how to" section aikoaiko Sep 2014 #37

They told my son 5000 rbrnmw Sep 2014 #25

That's about what I would expect and that's doable with Gofundme. aikoaiko Sep 2014 #34

So I've heard I am afraid for her rbrnmw Sep 2014 #38

As a former paralegal married to an attorney, liberalhistorian Sep 2014 #47

How very awful for everyone touched by this. merrily Sep 2014 #26

I posted article link below rbrnmw Sep 2014 #30

Remember Laura Bush's accident? mahina Sep 2014 #31

Yes my.husband and I just discussed Laura Bush rbrnmw Sep 2014 #32

Laura was 20 at the time too (or close to it) yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #105

She was barely 17, YarnAddict Sep 2014 #109

Thanks for the non-judgemental comments rbrnmw Sep 2014 #33

Go fund me Devin Defense rbrnmw Sep 2014 #35

I'm so very sorry. How dreadful and sad. My best wishes. cali Sep 2014 #39

Thanks cali rbrnmw Sep 2014 #41

Knr roody Sep 2014 #43

If it can be shown that her brakes failed, then she may not be found responsible Orrex Sep 2014 #44

This message was self-deleted by its author magical thyme Sep 2014 #60

How awful for everyone. leftyladyfrommo Sep 2014 #45

So sorry you are going through this rbrnmw Sep 2014 #46

Kick aikoaiko Sep 2014 #50

This message was self-deleted by its author Glimmer of Hope Sep 2014 #51

K roody Sep 2014 #55

how sad Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #56

I know it's after the fact for this tragedy and my heart goes out Cleita Sep 2014 #57

If she doesn't have enough money raised jen63 Sep 2014 #59

Criminal defense attorney here..... msanthrope Sep 2014 #62

Oh I didnt know she said that rbrnmw Sep 2014 #63

This is from a newspaper article referencing a police report. This is not "truth" so much as it is msanthrope Sep 2014 #67

Best advice on the thread. former9thward Sep 2014 #86

Definitely needs a lawyer! If she says her brakes failed, she saw the light and did try to stop. hedgehog Sep 2014 #64

2001 toyota corollas have history of sudden acceleration w/frozen brakes magical thyme Sep 2014 #65

re: police statements that they believe she was on "alcohol or drugs" magical thyme Sep 2014 #66

I assume you wil ltestify that she was sober in court KamaAina Sep 2014 #68

Seriously? LisaL Sep 2014 #79

Honesty is the best Policy Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #69

Welcome to Du, a couple questions and comments uppityperson Sep 2014 #71

Close Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #72

What matters is her drug/alcohol blood tests immediately after the accident. Period. uppityperson Sep 2014 #73

you'll find out Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #74

The whole situation sounds awful and it is true, no one knows the complete facts. uppityperson Sep 2014 #75

You have my complete sympathy... countryjake Sep 2014 #83

Thank you Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #89

Well, welcome to DU! countryjake Sep 2014 #91

Just disgusting Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #96

My apologies for my prior rudeness and my condolences on all who were hurt, killed. uppityperson Sep 2014 #99

Unnecessary Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #101

welcome to DU, Upsetcitizen Skittles Sep 2014 #110

...... seabeyond Sep 2014 #87

Thanks for posting the other side of the coin. Vinca Sep 2014 #121

If she was not under the influence of alcohol or drugs, she needs a thorough medical checkup Lydia Leftcoast Sep 2014 #70

It's called a mal-petit seizure. Cleita Sep 2014 #77

I can very well guess what her actual condition is, considering she was stopped by police earlier LisaL Sep 2014 #95

Justice for Jim JusticeforJimHaley Sep 2014 #76

For what it is worth, they posted that right after the accident and have not been on our forum since uppityperson Sep 2014 #78

Horrible all around. rug Sep 2014 #80

people reacted based on what was posted Skittles Sep 2014 #81

My deepest condolences for your family's loss. greatauntoftriplets Sep 2014 #82

I'm so sorry for your loss and everything your family is going through. PeaceNikki Sep 2014 #84

Perfectly put! Upsetcitizen Sep 2014 #85

and we weep, for all.... i am sorry. nt seabeyond Sep 2014 #88

While I'm sorry for your loss, more than I can say.... moriah Sep 2014 #92

I am so sorry for your family's loss magical thyme Sep 2014 #112

I'm very sorry for what your family has been through. Old Crow Sep 2014 #120

So sorry about your Uncle and your family - elehhhhna Sep 2014 #122

I am so sorry for your loss rbrnmw Sep 2014 #123

I'm sorry for your loss and your pain. I wish Hailey a speedy recovery. lumberjack_jeff Sep 2014 #126

I am so sorry! :^( GreenPartyVoter Sep 2014 #90

This Medical Fund for poor little Haley Derbyshire is where monies should go! countryjake Sep 2014 #93

^^This^^ Algernon Moncrieff Sep 2014 #100

Yes, that picture of the little girl, her broken body, just broke my heart... countryjake Sep 2014 #107

Agreed. Old Crow Sep 2014 #116

It would be best to delete this OP and your fundraiser. n/t tammywammy Sep 2014 #94

edit _ I see the comments on the fundraising site are very negative Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #97

Well, at least to me, the OP seems to be highly misleading. LisaL Sep 2014 #98

The OP was posted soon after the accident, maybe before some of this info was made public. uppityperson Sep 2014 #104

But now that this information is available, it doesn't look that the OP paints an accurate picture. LisaL Sep 2014 #106

I'm so sorry! Solly Mack Sep 2014 #108

Well this took a very interesting turn... Phentex Sep 2014 #111

This message was self-deleted by its author nofilterisme Sep 2014 #113

This message was self-deleted by its author nofilterisme Sep 2014 #119

I am sorry I posted this and that I upset so many people rbrnmw Sep 2014 #124

It is human nature to want to support the people we know. lumberjack_jeff Sep 2014 #125

I can understand why you posted it YarnAddict Sep 2014 #127